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In many rural areas, there is a funeral custom, that is, before the funeral, the eldest son of the deceased will break the clay pot before the funeral officially begins. But many rural elderly people don't have sons, so at the time of the funeral, should the nephew or son-in-law fall this clay pot?

We all know that in ancient times, in fact, the difference between "pot" and "pot" was not too big, so at first, this behavior was not called smashing the pot, but smashing the pot. Because the pronunciation of "pot" is similar to "disaster", and the death of someone in the family represents a kind of disaster, so breaking the pot means that the disaster is gone with the death of the family.

Each place has different customs, and in our case, if the deceased does not have a son, then the clay pot needs to be broken by a nephew. In our place will be out of the funeral before the fall of the pot called filial piety plate, who dropped the filial piety plate, not only to be responsible for the other old man's pension problem, when the two old people passed away, the old man's family property will be inherited by the person who dropped the filial piety pot.

This has a lot to do with the concept of "the daughter who married out of the water" in the countryside before, according to the previous people's thoughts, the daughter is a person of another family after marrying, and can no longer inherit the family property like a son, so the family property after the death of the old man will be inherited by the son, if there is no son, then in order to prevent the outflow of the family property, there will be a nephew of the family to inherit, so the filial piety basin will have the nephew of the deceased to fall.

In fact, if it is not related to inheritance, then it doesn't matter who falls, I'm afraid that nephews, daughters and sons-in-law won't fight, just follow the custom. But in the countryside, who breaks the pot will inherit the inheritance of the deceased, and this is a controversy. The subject's question, I'm afraid it's the same.

However, this kind of thing is easy to solve, according to the relationship between distant and close relatives, if the daughter wants to fall, of course, it is the first choice, if the daughter does not want to, then the nephew can do it for him. However, when choosing an aging pot, I also chose the obligation to be responsible for providing for the elderly in the future.

However, if the daughter gives up the old pot, it is equivalent to giving up the inheritance of her parents.

This is a common practice in the village. In order to prevent any conflicts in the future, I think it is better for the daughter to break the pot, unless the daughter gives up the inheritance right to her father.

Drop the tile basin, in our local also called the top tile basin, because the funeral by the filial son on the head of this tile basin, the steward of the head from the filial piety head, towards the road on the fall, of course, there are also places directly by the filial piety to break, this is not important, the key is this and fall, in the end who should be responsible for the fall of the tile basin, in fact, is a kind of right to transfer and the determination of the inheritance relationship, the top tile basin or the person who falls the tile basin, must have an heir to the deceased, not only the birth and burial, but also responsible for the daily sacrifice of the deceased, and inherit the estate and family power of the deceased.

The act of throwing a clay pot is one of the procedures in the whole funeral, the deceased has no sons, only daughters in the past, and women are not allowed.

The nephew will do the work for the nephew, and he will not be able to carry it in vain, but he will have to share a part of the inheritance. And now. Many rural villages have broken this traditional rule, and women can too.

I went to the graveyard with a clay pot. This also greatly reduces the property disputes caused by this matter.

Nephew. The tradition that has been passed down from ancient times is that the eldest son or grandson of the family must be the eldest son or grandson, or if there is none, a nephew.

The ritual of breaking a pot does not exist in all rural areas in China, and the description of it is also different. My hometown is in Henan, and in our rural funerals, there is a ritual of breaking pots, which represents "peace in the years".

Since ancient times in our country, the form of "striking the rope" has appeared in funerals. The meaning of striking is "striking cylinder", and "缶" is a kind of tile musical instrument in ancient times. Because there were many poor people in ancient times, many people did not have the financial ability to hire a musical instrument group for their deceased relatives to see him off, so they adopted the form of beating ropes to send their relatives into the ground.

North of the Yangtze River in China, it is a relatively common custom to throw pots. When someone in the family dies, a clay pot is placed in front of the coffin to burn paper. When the coffin is buried in the ground, the eldest son will break the pot on the way.

And the louder the better, and the more broken the better. The purpose of throwing the pot is also to remind the deceased that it is time to go on the road, hoping that the deceased can walk smoothly on the way to the underworld.

The pot must be done by the eldest son and grandson of the deceased. After the death of the elderly, it is usually the eldest son and grandson of the old man who come to break the pot. If the old man does not have a son, he will be replaced by a nephew who is closely related by blood.

Of course, it is also of extraordinary significance to let the nephew fall into the basin, and it means that he has become the filial son of the deceased. Therefore, all or most of the deceased's property should be inherited by the nephews and nephews of the deceased. If the family has no offspring, then there will be no one to break the pot for the deceased, and then the deceased cannot walk with peace of mind, which was taboo in ancient times.

Therefore, the ancients were so patriarchal and attached importance to the continuation of incense.

The pot must be broken once. In my hometown in Henan, after the death of a loved one, I usually park it at home for three or five days before being buried. On the day of the burial, the son of the deceased will break the pot at the intersection on the way to the burial.

Moreover, it must be broken once, and the more broken the better, so that it represents "peace for the years" and has a strong symbolic meaning.

After breaking the pot, the official funeral begins, and the person who can do this work must also be a close relative. Therefore, whoever can fall this is the heir of the deceased, and in ancient times, when there was no legal management, it was by this inheritance of the family property.

The person who threw the pot is the heir of the deceased's property, and if the pot is broken, it means that the person has established a property inheritance relationship with the deceased. At the same time, it is also a custom in the countryside.

In ancient times, the common people could not afford to buy bells and drums for funerals, nor could they afford to hire bands. In order to conform to the liturgy of bells and drums, they used to break pots instead of bells and drums.

After the death of a family member, dropping the basin is actually a form of expressing grief and indignation. At the same time, it also means that the deceased will completely disconnect with these people who are alive in this world, and those who are still alive will start a new life.

There is a custom in some rural areas that the clay pot must be broken at the funeral, so if there is no son, should the nephew or son-in-law fall the clay pot?

The person who goes up or down the tile pot must have the function of inheritance to the deceased, not only to raise and bury the deceased, but also to be responsible for the daily sacrifice of the deceased, and inherit the deceased's inheritance and family rights. From this basic point of view, the roof tile pot or bricklayer must be the eldest son and grandson of the family. Unless there is none, it is not thrown by the nephew.

Hello dear, glad you asked! There was no daughter-in-law who fell into the pot at the funeral. If there is only one son, it goes without saying that the son will be sold by the son, and if there are two or more sons, the eldest son of the deceased will be responsible for the fall before the funeral.

If the eldest son is not at home, the eldest grandson will replace the father, and of course, if the eldest grandson is young or cannot fall for other reasons, the second son of the deceased can also be replaced. But the son-in-law at home is not qualified to break the pot. If the deceased had no son and only an unmarried daughter, the task of breaking the pot during a business trip could be done by the daughter, and people would not say anything.

And after the death of those old people who have no children and no daughters, the nephews of their own families can fall into the pot.

Regarding the custom of rural funerals and the eldest son breaking the clay pot in the family, there may be different places in different places, but the particulars may be different in different places. In our local area, the person who breaks the pot is the one who inherits the property of the deceased, which means that the pot is not for anyone to fall. If there are sons in the family, the eldest son will break the clay pot according to the eldest son, because there is a saying in the countryside that the eldest brother is like a father.

When parents are present, everything in the family is decided by the parents, and if the parents die, the eldest son is the eldest son who decides everything in the family.

This clay pot was placed in front of the coffin after the death of his parents, and was used to burn paper money. When relatives and friends come, they will burn paper on incense to the deceased, and everyone will burn paper with the help of this clay pot, and all the ashes will be contained in the clay pot, and when the coffin is about to be carried out, the clay pot should be broken by the eldest son. This fall announced that this person's life was more than over, and everything was like ashes in a basin drifting away with the wind, and it has since come to naught.

After the clay pot fell, the funeral procession began to move out.

Our local custom is that it is better to choose one that has a better relationship with the deceased. , and a closer person to replace. Under normal circumstances, if the deceased has a nephew in the family, the nephew will do this, and the deceased's estate will also be inherited by the nephew. We have a local saying that if you have a nephew standing at the door, you are not a lonely old man.

If you don't have a son, then your nephew is also your own son, and in the next hundred years, your nephew will do it for you on the genealogy of going to the grave and celebrating the New Year's Festival. However, all this depends on the wishes of the deceased before death, and some people will also choose a person who is not related to them, but who took care of them when they were alive. Therefore, the people who break the clay pot may not be the eldest son, but the person who breaks the clay pot in the countryside must be the one who inherits the inheritance of the deceased.

Because this clay pot is associated with inheritance, some families will also have trouble because of the clay pot. It was originally an unlucky thing with a very heavy yin qi, but because of the inheritance, everyone rushed to be the first and rushed to drop the tile pot. That's probably why you can't get along with the crockpot.

The purpose of throwing the basin is to throw away the frustration and bad luck in the family, the second is to send the money burned to the deceased into the "underworld" through the action of falling, so that the deceased will have money to spend there, and the third is to throw the pot to indicate that the family will never mourn in the future.

Because they believe that falling the pot is a relationship with the deceased. First of all, I think it may be a custom, and then they think that the more you break the basin, the closer the relationship between the deceased will be, and then it will be convenient for the deceased to carry, and it will generally be the kind of eldest son who carries the basin.

I don't think it's a traditional custom in the countryside, but with the development and progress of the country, some rural areas no longer practice this custom.