How to forget the pain, and he asked everyone Thank you

Time can dilute everything you like, but it will not dilute your love, like a person, once you lose it is like losing something you like, although it will be sad, but it will not hurt, and love someone, once lost, no matter when the heart will be faintly painful, people will always think that time is the best medicine, but it is forgotten that it can also reflect love more clearly in the heart, you just remembered the pain of the last moment, do you think about the beauty of those times at the beginning? Sometimes people just remember the painful part, and forget the happy days, in fact, whether it is happy or painful is the most beautiful memory in your life, although sometimes it is very painful, but you have experienced it and been happy, those memories are worth your life to slowly reminisce, when looking back, although the heart will still be faintly painful, but still feel beautiful!

Everyone has their own different experiences, the depth of love, the heart of pain, can not escape the soul annihilated by love, the sweetness of love makes everyone who is deeply involved in it nostalgic to go back and forth, is there anything wrong with this, but at the end of love, it is like a dream, the dream wakes up, but it is still in the aftertaste, the fantasy is returning to the dream, but there is no way back, there is no room to go back, so it is secretly sad, secretly sad, if you want to forget, you can't forget, all the time tormenting your memory, Your every move appears in your memory from time to time, or crying or laughing, all concern your heart, you can't go into the next life, you can't forget how to take the next step, what can make you forget, how do you forget, the answer is no, as long as you are still awake, your brain has those memories, you can't erase it, be strong and hold back, only you can taste the pain.

In fact, it is impossible to completely forget and let go, and the only thing that can be done is how to keep yourself busy, let your thoughts stay less on him, and find ways to divert your attention and divert your thoughts. If you can't forget it, then please remember, pick up the good ones, and downplay the bad ones. In this way, at least the pain will be less, and the happiness will be more, perhaps, after many years, think about this emotion, it will be very relieved, Although time can't be everything, but it can make people know what can be given up and what can be gained, only if you know how to give up, you will have gain.

Then why do you keep thinking about pain?!

There are some facts that will not be forgotten! Let time bury it!

After a long time, I forgot about it.

In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is impossible to completely forget it, and it is also deceiving yourself, just use time to slowly forget, some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the time of the years, and occasionally pick up the memories, it will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, which contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, and sighing in the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart. When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Hello, friend.

First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget someone, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us. Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget the person he loves, because once he forgets, it is not love.

If you think about it, it still makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself and be distressed that you can't forget someone. But we can't forget what we don't want to remember, and it will be very uncomfortable, so we still have to try to forget or look down on it.

1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.

You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.

Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

2.Time will make you forget her (him), it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better to stop living in the same city with her (him), it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her (him), because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her (him) again.

You can recall little by little about her (him), when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly unable to remember, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her (him) more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's even harder to really hate someone. You just need to leave the forgetting you want to her (him) to time to solve, and it's okay, after a long time, you will forget if you don't forget.

3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her (him)!

But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her (him). On the other hand, you love her (him), but you want her (him) to live better, maybe she (he) left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.

Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked someone, but that person doesn't like me now, but I also want you to be the same, every time I think about it, I have a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and that person doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it will be useless. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.

Let me tell you one more sentence: the current girlfriend (boyfriend) or wife (husband) around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.

Establish a short-term goal that is difficult for you, and if you are busy, you will forget everything. Time will dilute everything, and when everything fades, start again.

I can't forget, you should now shift your focus to something else, and you'll be better.

The key is to learn to control yourself. 1. Divert your attention and distract yourself, now you have time to do things that you have been planning to do but have not done, such as cooking, tailoring, or ballroom dancing. 2. Deliberately avoid thinking about him.

Touching the scene, try to avoid seeing filial piety things related to him. Put away the photos and diary, as well as the items he used, the clothes he wore, the gifts he gave you, and so on. 3. Connect with friends more, go shopping, watch movies, dance, roller skate, enrich your spare time, so that you don't have time and energy to think about him.

4. Change your hairstyle, pick up a color, do a good care, change your image, and make yourself look new; Going to the gym to work out, sweating is very comfortable, so that you can be full and no longer empty, no longer remember. 5. Meet new people, pay attention to other men around you (not necessarily talking about Huihe Xiangxiang), and make yourself know more about men through observation. There are many kinds of men's qualities, what is an excellent and outstanding man, positioning himself, knowing each other and knowing himself.

6. Read books and surf the Internet. See** experience life from other people's lives; Watch the news to know the various states of life, life is always unsatisfactory; Reading the posts of netizens and listening to the singing of netizens, you will feel that there are so many talented and rich people in the world among ordinary people... Don't let yourself get caught up in the circle of "thinking about him", and as soon as you realize that you are thinking about a situation related to him, immediately adjust your attention, avoid the thought, think about something else, or do something else.

Believe that you can control your will! When we look back on the past in old age, you will be proud of your self-control, we are not knocked down by setbacks, but keep going forward to pursue the happiness and beauty of life.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will tremble to the fragrance of the flowers of life, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice and weakness; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievably regretted, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

Trouble, thanks!