How to deal with your own arrogance How to avoid arrogance

Arrogant! A lot of times it's just too confident to accept others! There's nothing particularly good about it!

Try to make yourself aware that there are many things you are inferior to! Tell myself all the time that I don't have the capital to be arrogant! This might help!

But it's all about the mindset!

You know that you are arrogant, and that means that you are not arrogant anymore, hehe, in fact, you have solved it.

Now there may be some problems left: people still think you are arrogant.

OK When you do anything later, remember, do it first, don't move your mouth. Be a real person.

Convincing people with actions is the best way.

No matter how much you know, don't show off and be a stable person.

Arrogant! In fact, it is because of low self-esteem!

Talk to yourself more When you want to be arrogant, that's when you have low self-esteem.

Don't be impulsive at this point.

Remind yourself not to have a good face, and naturally find that you are arrogant and inferior.

Natural deficiencies are what they are.

We used to calculate that a 100 million yuan bill weighs a ton. People who can earn more than 600 tons of banknotes in their thirties are actually solving their own problems. I didn't want to go out to eat, so I ran to deliver it to someone else's house.

This is the mindset that an entrepreneur should have.

If you often go to meet people who are better than you, you will naturally know that people are outsiders

Arrogance is a sign of lack of knowledge!

It's a real life.

1.As an authority, the positive expectations you express can make people excel.

2.Only (more) positive expectations from the heart will be (more) effective (full of likes is a higher level of positive expectations), and expectations hidden in the mind or at the level of words [expectations that are not expressed, if the subconscious mind can't do it, can only do it intentionally, and the subconscious mind is almost impossible to hide] often doesn't work [selfish people can't give people full of likes].

3.It is difficult for people who are transitionally narcissistic to consistently express genuine positive expectations, and the negative approach adopted by many of these people is simply a rejection of excellence in the name of positive expectations in order to protect and maintain their sense of superiority.

About being your own authority:

1.You might as well imagine the negative voices in your head as a young trainee, and when he or she makes a negative opinion, you can not take him too seriously, you can say: young people are just shallow, and it is inevitable to have such thoughts.

2.Imagine that you are temporarily withdrawn, and you can take a third perspective to look at what you encounter from outside your body, which is more objective.

3.Self-care, when you encounter a moment of sadness that is difficult to get out of, you can comfort yourself as a friend.

In addition, on the train home today, I read an article by Li Meijin, in which she expounded on the importance of family parenting from the perspective of criminal psychology. I suddenly realized that psychology has so many applications, and at the same time, I realized that if there is a problem in psychology, the serious consequences are immeasurable social damage, which is very inspiring.

First, ignorance. Ignorance is the root cause of hubris. For example, there is a young man who wants to become a writer, and even thinks that there is no ** book that he thinks is of sufficient level, as if he is the standard-bearer of epoch-making literature.

In fact, he does not have many of the most basic knowledge of writing, what is the central idea, what is the stylistic structure, what is the method of writing, ......can't talk about a "son ugly Yinmao", just by virtue of his empty dreams, he feels that he is as famous as the world's literary heroes, what is this not ignorance? There is also such a kind of person among public security college students, who think that they know everything, think that they are the material to be a policeman, and the teacher is unwilling to listen to the class, is unwilling to spend time learning the knowledge of textbooks, and is unwilling to do heavy and tiring work, and really makes him unable to pick up things when he does things, which is actually a manifestation of ignorance.

Second, lack of self-control. Lack of self-control is an important manifestation of a serious defect in the willpower of the arrogant. The arrogant person often becomes complacent and arrogant after a little progress or small achievement, as if the whole world is his, and some people do not even pay attention to the parents who worked hard to raise him and the teachers who taught him earnestly.

These people are psychologically in a state of loss of control, unable to control their thinking and judgment, nor able to control their emotions; They can neither restrain their words nor their actions.

Arrogance can be changed, but it violates the original laws of life, how tiring it is! Try it, let yourself naturally show the ups and downs of life, appreciate the changes of life, and maybe it will be much more relaxed. But you say, but I still don't want to be out of the crowd, so let's keep my heart going.

Then you should seriously stop and look at your own development, and some other things. Why are you too arrogant, can you correct your shortcomings, because in this way you can make yourself more excellent, and you will be liked by others.

I think it's too arrogant, in fact, it may be because of low self-esteem, but everyone's inferiority complex is different, some people have low self-esteem because they want to bury themselves in the dust, and some people are because of low self-esteem, so he wants to prove himself by constantly showing himself and leave a good impression on others.

Then we must get rid of our biggest problem, and learn to be humble whenever and wherever we are, because only enough humility can make people progress, and we can't be too arrogant.

Since you already know where your problem is, then you can prescribe the right medicine and solve the problem, if you feel that you are too arrogant, then learn to be humble and learn to listen to the opinions of others.

If you are aware of this problem, then I think you are still relatively good, because you can find your own shortcomings, and when you find your own shortcomings, the next thing to do is to correct this shortcoming, you can remind yourself often, and you can also correct it through the supervision of family and friends.

When I found that I wanted to float, I slapped myself a few times, and found that I was a little inflated, so I slammed my head against the wall, and the arrogant soldiers will be defeated, if we are proud, we will definitely fail.

Now that you are aware of your own shortcomings, you can find a way to correct them, and you can find someone to remind you to stop you in some tactful way when you know.

I especially don't like this kind of character, and I can't stand it if I make friends with this kind of character, because he is touting himself all the time, and it is better to need someone to take the lead and wake him up.

This method is called the mirror method. In daily self-estimation, the truth is always right, the article is always good, the character is always high, the small advantages are particularly large, and the big weaknesses are particularly small.

If others don't think so high, our self-esteem will suffer a big blow, and we will form a deep hatred in our hearts. We immediately see this kind of problem in others, but in ourselves, we turn a blind eye.

So we have to always look in the mirror and argue, this mirror is the world, the people of our kind. If we recognize the world and human nature, we will naturally recognize ourselves, and know that we are actually the same as others, and we all have our own strengths and weaknesses.

If you can recognize your own shortcomings from the bottom of your heart and see the strengths of others, you will naturally be humble and not arrogant!