Is it OK for my child not to go to kindergarten? Can my child not go to kindergarten?

I can tell you unequivocally that children must go to kindergarten.

Why do children have to go to kindergarten?

First, 3-year-old children must go to kindergarten, and children go to kindergarten not to learn knowledge, not to learn arithmetic, but to complete the task of children's self-development at this stage, to explore outward, adapt to the new environment, and develop new interpersonal relationships.

Second, children go to kindergarten to meet new and new friends in kindergarten, learn interpersonal skills, learn how to get along with others, how to share with others, how to resolve conflicts in other children's games, and improve interpersonal skills.

Thirdly, the main developmental task of children at this stage is to play games, in which children not only meet the nature of play, but also learn the rules of the game, and initially master the rules of interpersonal communication.

If you don't go to kindergarten, your child will lack these things, and you won't be able to adapt to the life of primary school after you go to primary school, which will not be good for your child's future development.

But don't force your child to go to kindergarten. If the child feels that he has been abandoned to the kindergarten, the child's young mind will be hurt greatly.

Before sending your child to kindergarten, parents must do enough work:

Give children the opportunity to see life in kindergarten, especially outdoor activities;

1.Tell the child that kindergarten is a paradise for children, but only older children have the opportunity to go, and now that he has grown up, he can finally go to kindergarten;

2.Tell children about the benefits of kindergarten: many children play together, there are all kinds of toys that are not available at home, the teacher will lead everyone to play and tell stories, many children sleep in one room, eat in one room, how fresh and interesting!

3.The child is sent to kindergarten, after taking the child home, only ask about happy things, don't ask anything bad, comprehensive things to the teacher to understand, guide the child's attention to the various happy things you are concerned about, the child confides in the unpleasantness do not make a fuss, very peaceful to comfort the child on the line, the child will quickly adapt and like to go to kindergarten.

4.Kindergarten allows a child to have more opportunities to communicate with others, which helps the child's growth and is beneficial to the child's physical and mental health. The child who stays at home and does not go to kindergarten has a very small life circle and is surrounded by some familiar people, which makes it easy for the child to become dependent and withdrawn.

Kindergarten is not compulsory education, parents do not send their children to kindergarten, and they will not be punished, but I personally do not recommend parents to do so. After all, it has become commonplace for many children to be sent to kindergarten before elementary school. Moreover, for children's growth and learning, learning and living experience in kindergarten are also very necessary for children's growth.

Therefore, although it is not mandatory for children to go to kindergarten, it is recommended that parents send their children to kindergarten when the child is of the right age.

1. Kindergarten can allow children to make friends of the same age and help children integrate into primary school life more quickly.

Primary school is the basic stage of nine-year compulsory education, and although it is not very difficult, it is very important. If the child is fully prepared before entering primary school, then the child may be able to achieve good results in terms of adaptability and self-growth in the study life of primary school.

In kindergarten, the main task for children may not be to study, but to learn how to get along with other children away from their parents for a short time. After all, in China's nine-year compulsory education, students have to get along more with their peers. In this regard, kindergarten is actually an important period for cultivating children's "communicative skills", and it is not recommended to "omit" this stage and go directly to primary school.

2. The kindergarten period may allow children to slowly accept the "learning life".

With the development of modern society, people pay more and more attention to knowledge, and parents pay more attention to the education of their children. If you don't have a child who has gone to kindergarten, you will go straight to primary school, and your child will suddenly move from home to school, and it is likely that it will be difficult to adapt for a while. At this time, the child not only has difficulty concentrating on learning, but may even hinder the development of the child's personality due to emotions such as fear.

That is to say, the life of the kindergarten period is more like a "transitional stage" for the child from the family to the school life, after all, the kindergarten does not have such a heavy "learning task", but there is a "school atmosphere".

3. Summary. To sum up, although kindergarten is not a nine-year compulsory education, parents can choose not to let their children go to kindergarten. However, I personally suggest that in order for the child to better integrate into campus life in the future, and for the child to get more appropriate exercise in making friends, it is recommended to let the child go to kindergarten at the right age to study.

It is not okay for your baby not to go to kindergarten. In fact, there are many benefits to sending your baby to kindergarten. The baby goes to kindergarten to cultivate a sense of collectivity, learn to introspect and restrain himself.

Babies who have gone to kindergarten are more likely to adapt to the group life of primary school. You won't be unable to understand the teacher's instructions, and you can quickly make friends and integrate into your studies.

If the baby does not go to kindergarten, it may often be carried by the parents. In this way, the baby's sense of dependence on his parents is not only not weakened, but greatly enhanced. It is very bad for the baby's future, it is difficult to be independent in society, and I don't know how to communicate with others.

Learning and rest in the kindergarten are very regular and will not be easily broken. Therefore, parents sending their babies to kindergarten will not be as difficult to develop good rest habits as at home, but will make the baby more conscious. And kindergarten is also a good place to cultivate interest, babies often participate in a lot of activities and a lot of interest classes in kindergarten, this process is the process of developing intelligence.

Therefore, it is best for parents to send their babies to kindergarten to learn.

If the quality of the parents is high enough, like our fairy tale king Zheng Yuanjie, like that chubby person in the United States. Gao Xiaosong is like that.

Children definitely don't have to go to kindergarten. Because people's own knowledge is very rich, they have more assets and wealth. Doing anything will allow the child to grow up on his own initiative, and it will not affect what the child learns in kindergarten, nor will it affect some of the child's 3 to 6-year-old development suggestions.

Therefore, if the child does not go to primary school, we have a clear requirement that must be less, after all, the legal requirements are like this, but if you can't go to kindergarten, then the benevolent and the wise will see the wisdom, my basic view is the above described, most families are people who are running around for their own lives, and there is not enough time for some financial freedom activities, for children, his education is also stretched, so most families will put their children in kindergarten. Then I still work hard to make money and work hard for my own life.

But I personally think that if the family wealth is enough and their personal cultivation is relatively high, it doesn't matter if the child goes to kindergarten or not, after all, the growth of kindergarten can be completely replaced by family education.

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Children in Nursery are much more likely to get sick than in Kindergarten and Kindergarten. This is because the small class is not very accustomed to life in the park, and the people and things around him will bring him a sense of fear. In addition, children who have just entered kindergarten are not used to being separated from their parents for a long time, and once their parents leave, their inner security is suddenly lost.

It is the accumulation of these negative emotions that causes the child's resistance to become very poor, and of course, it is more likely to get sick.

Precautions for Kindergarten Nursery Classes.

1. In order to make children like kindergartens, teachers must first understand and care about children and establish feelings with children. Before the start of school, teachers should conduct a special home visit to understand the children's sexuality, hobbies, living habits and family education, etc., and can also take the opportunity of parents to bring their children to the kindergarten to report to understand the key grandchildren.

2. Establish a reasonable daily routine and develop good living habits. It is necessary to establish a certain routine of group life in the class, so that children know when and where they can and cannot do what they can and cannot do, so as to gradually develop good living habits and organized behavior. To cultivate good living habits, it is necessary to create a good living environment for children, and the environment of the kindergarten should be beautiful and neat, giving people a comfortable feeling.