Won t it be embarrassing to confess your failure to a colleague in the future?

It's definitely going to be embarrassing at first, especially embarrassing. Whether the relationship will change in the future depends on how the two people deal with this relationship.

Before, because of some misunderstandings, I mistakenly thought that a friend liked me. Well, it's actually not a misunderstanding, because his attitude towards me is really ambiguous, and this ambiguity will make any girl feel that the other party likes her. After a long time, I also liked him, and I confessed first before I could wait for his confession.

But when I confessed, he said that I had misunderstood, and that he was just treating me as a good friend.

Okay, I accept this. In the first two days, I didn't know how to face him because of the mixture of sadness, anger, doubt, and shame. When they met, they pretended not to see it and walked over with their heads down.

The atmosphere was really super awkward. When I saw him, I walked over with a blank face, but I was actually uncomfortable in my heart.

After thinking about it, maybe I misunderstood the other party's meaning, and I still felt that I couldn't let it go. From now on, I still feel a little reluctant to be a stranger. Later, I talked to him, saying that maybe I mistook my distress for him and expressed the idea of being friends.

Maybe because I'm really nice to him. I could clearly feel that he didn't want to lose me as a friend, and he would take the initiative to talk to me after that, and sometimes he would call out to me when he met me on the road and pretended not to see me. So slowly I try to get along with each other, and we are not very embarrassed by each other, and we will share our holiday life and share my favorite songs with each other.

He would also tell me about his troubles.

Therefore, it is good to treat it coldly for a period of time later, and then try to pretend not to be embarrassed later.

Why do you feel embarrassed to meet later? It's a normal thing to do, it's not a big deal, and there's no need to feel as if you're uncomfortable because of failure. In today's society, men and women are already equal, if you like a person, that's your right, and it's also your right to confess a person, and if you have the right, use it, otherwise wouldn't it be wasted?

And if you don't confess, how do you know if he or she will accept you? Sometimes people are good pretenders. In case the other party also likes you silently, wouldn't it be an instant hit.

If you choose not to say it, just hide it quietly in your heart, crush someone, others still think that you don't mean that kind to him (her), and then the already very weak little flame is gone in an instant, it's really a pity. Of course, if someone else doesn't like you in the first place, but you have special feelings for him (her), then choosing to confess is also a 50% chance of winning, with the attitude of trying it out, you can get an accurate answer, and it is also very worthwhile. Confession failed, but you did it with no regrets.

Life is short, don't regret not doing what you wanted to do when you are old in the future, and you don't know the answer you want to know. Failure is a revelation, and you can also ask people what is the reason? Not to cater to it, just to at least let you know that it's **inappropriate?

Then in the future, you can sum up some lessons learned.

Get along with each other normally, just like before you confessed. And work hard to let people see a better you. Even if you can't be a lover, you can be a good work partner, which is also a kind of personality charm, maybe you can become a good friend of the opposite sex!

To be honest, after confessing failure to a colleague, it will be more or less embarrassing, unless the company is very large, the chance of seeing it is relatively low, it will not be so embarrassing, if the company is relatively small, in the same office area, it will still be embarrassing. Of course, if both of you are very generous and open-minded, it won't be embarrassing.

Won't be embarrassed. Embarrassing is not embarrassing not in others, in yourself. As long as you don't feel embarrassed yourself, it's not embarrassing. As long as you feel embarrassed yourself, it will be embarrassing. Sometimes things in the world are as simple as that.

Failure to confess means that you have a big problem with your emotional intelligence and will not fall in love at all. It is impossible for a person who is in love to confess failure. Why?

There is a saying that is clear: if you are not sure, you will not confess. In other words, confess only when you are sure.

Of course, it won't fail.

In case the confession fails, the only correct thing to do is to take it in stride. Don't be embarrassed on the spot, and don't be embarrassed to meet again afterwards. Only in this way can you show your generosity and your maturity. Only if you perform well can you still have a chance. Do you understand?

Of course, this requires inner cultivation, and you can't pretend to be it.

It's a little embarrassing to be more or less, but as long as you're cheerful, it's okay to be friends.

If it were me, I would probably feel so embarrassed that I might not even want to meet him!

The failure of the confession proves that she doesn't like you and that you are not her thing. Only by doing it can you know the result, so you don't have any regrets, and you can't become a lover and continue to be a colleague, which is also the best result.

Confession rejection is not a big deal, it's a normal thing. It may be that you like him now, but you don't know you well and don't dare to accept it; Or it's normal for him to not think about this issue now because of family reasons; Or he has a lot of women who pursue him (a great man will always be liked), and he himself has not yet chosen to reject you. But it doesn't affect your relationship, colleagues are still colleagues, it's just a little secret between the two of you, right?

So, what you should do in normal times, you will do your own thing, and it will be over.

It's normal to confess failure, and you will still get along normally in the future, and it's easier to have one less thought, and find a new goal, sometimes confession failure is a superficial phenomenon, maybe your colleagues will pay attention to you, maybe you can succeed.

It is normal to confess failure, failure is the mother of success, there is no need to give up because of a failure, of course, you don't need to chase your female colleagues so tightly, it is better to be cautious if you want to chase colleagues.

If you fail to confess to your colleagues, don't think too much about this, because you are free to fall in love, free to marry, and have the courage to pursue prosperity and suit your next one.

If you fail, you have to start over, and you don't have to.

Many times we need to think differently about the problem, and if this doesn't work, we may meet the right person next.

Failure, that is the mother of success, failure is failure, there is nothing terrible and ridiculous, either choose to give up, and then be a colleague, or continue to chase bravely.

Correct your mentality, work hard to adjust yourself, after all, this kind of thing is normal, just as if this thing didn't happen, what should you do yesterday, if you are good enough, there will be a turnaround!

Don't be surprised if you fail, don't be shy, and don't feel inferior, people are like this, not to say that all your likes can be obtained.

Although it was very embarrassing, I finally spoke my heart, dared to challenge myself, and learned a lot of experience without success.

If you fail, you fail! What's so about it? At least the stone in my heart has finally been put down! Do whatever you need to do in the future, as if nothing happened!

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Opposites attract is a very normal emotional fluctuation, especially in the workplace where many people have been confessed, but when they reject the confession of their colleagues, many people will not know how to deal with themselves and have embarrassing emotions.

1. Avoid unnecessary close contact. Although the words and deeds are frank and frank after rejecting the confession of a colleague, it is still necessary to deliberately keep some distance, such as unnecessary individual meetings, unnecessary work contact, unnecessary communication, etc., and pay special attention to a period of time after refusing to confess, these contacts will make the other party reverie and misunderstanding, and will also make the other party's good feelings and feelings not be cooled and evacuated, so such contact will not only aggravate each other's embarrassment, but also make it difficult for each other's feelings to distance themselves and return to normal.

Second, the generous side is not twisted. Many times, the embarrassment after refusing to confess is given to oneself, in other words, you ignore it and it doesn't exist. Therefore, after rejecting the confession of a colleague, you must be generous every time you come into contact, too twisted and embarrassed will only make the other party reverie, so you must not be embarrassed after refusing to confess in the workplace, because this is not only an embarrassment, but also a "signal" to indulge in the past.

3. Be friends and be more natural. After rejecting the confession of a colleague, directly draw the relationship between the two into the boundary of friends, which is a "quick knife to cut the mess" approach, this kind of relationship will directly distance each other, and in getting along, he should also be as natural, smooth and simple as an ordinary friend, many things once the "relationship" is determined will be much clearer and clearer, and the relationship between friends will also help you quickly get out of the embarrassment of confession.

Refuse to confess to a colleague, and when the two meet again in the future, it is best to pretend that nothing happened, and it is completely okay to say hello and nod after meeting, and there is no need to be too emotional.

Don't think too much, since you have already refused, then reduce it later. It's a chance to get in touch, and it would be nice if we met again and smiled. After all, a smile is the best.

I think I have a reason to be euphemistic, I have a boyfriend, he works in another company, we have a good relationship, and then avoid him, or change jobs, not working in the same company, there are fewer opportunities for contact

Don't have an opinion or a feeling of contempt for him, learn to smile and give kind understanding, so that the other person is no longer embarrassed.

If you want to avoid this embarrassment, then tell him that you have let go of the relationship and you don't have to worry about it.

Confession is a way of courtshipMany people will experience more or less confession in their lives, and after failing to confess with their friends of the opposite sex, I think I will always fall into a very embarrassing emotion. <>

First of all, because two people regarded each other as good friends before. Whether it is behavior, or speech and communication, it is kept within the scope of friends, and it never crosses the line, and for the confessed party, he has not considered this person as his possible other half in the future, so in the face of a sudden confession, it is equivalent to completely breaking the relationship between two ordinary friends, originally ordinary friends can play together normally, but after suddenly having one more confession, the relationship between the two people may not change, But the mentality of two people when they play can change a lot. Especially for the confession party, originally this was just a love hidden deep in his heart, but now it is known by that person, so it may be difficult for his heart to be calm.

And in fact, this embarrassment is also because of his friend of the opposite sex, what he thinks, in fact, many people can't know. Although he said that he was rejected, he will still be in contact with this friend of the opposite sex in the future, but his heart may be very open, but what kind of psychological changes the confessed one has experienced, in fact, the confessing party can't understand it at all, just because he thinks that the other party may think a lot, and this embarrassment and embarrassment are enough to make people feel like they are on pins and needles.

The most important thing is that the relationship between the two people is definitely impossible, and they are as good as ever, and they can't go back to the past. In fact, after experiencing a confession failure, no matter how good friends the two of them used to be, it is impossible to continue to be friends now. If you want to be friends, there may be a thorn in your heart, but if you are not friends, you will feel sad in your heart, whether it is for the confessing party or the confessing party, this relationship has become a very embarrassing relationship, even if there were many good memories of being friends before, but now it has been replaced by a thick embarrassment.

Therefore, when confessing to your friends of the opposite sex, you must think clearly, many times it may make both people embarrassed, and it may also lose a good friend.

I find it hard to be friends when I confess my failure.

If you're still good friends.

Chat often and eat without scruples.

Then I believe that there must be a side.

Loving another person in the name of friendship.

Yes, and when you get along with the last other party in the future, you will be particularly embarrassed, and at the same time, you will consciously avoid each other, which may also lead to an abrupt end in the relationship between the two people.

It's embarrassing, and it's also very embarrassing, and I don't know how to face other people in the future, and it takes a long time to ** myself.