After the confession fails, can they still be friends with each other?

Narcissistically speaking, many boys have confessed to me since I was a child, so I have more experience in this area. I think this issue should be analyzed from many angles.

First of all, what was the relationship between the two of you before confessing. Some of them are love at first sight when they meet in Pingshui, and they haven't crossed paths before, so it doesn't matter if they don't make friends or not. Some are close friends before confession, the kind of male girlfriends, friends who have been friends for many years suddenly change their relationship, and the object they usually use to confide in really wants to become an object one day, even if they fail, they can't bear not to continue to be friends, but there will definitely be a gap between the two parties, and the relationship can't go back to before.

Second, there are many ways to refuse to confess. Some are evasive, WeChat does not reply**, do not answer, be a turtle with a shrunken head, such a way of refusal sounds cowardly, but many people will take the way, because they are embarrassed to refuse directly. Some say that they already have a boyfriend and girlfriend, or that they have someone they like, so they can actually be friends, because after all, they are preconceived.

Some of them are very excessive, not only refusal, but also hurt the self-esteem of the person who confesses, such as "You dare to say that you like me when you look so ugly?" pee on your own virtues", not only can you not be friends, but may also lead to a war.

Finally, in fact, different positions will have different ideas about whether to be friends or not, some people who are very affectionate are reluctant to become strangers, and some confessions just cast a wide net and don't care so much.

No matter what you say, I hope everyone can seriously like, confess seriously, choose to be a friend or not, and take everyone who likes them seriously in their life.

<>Actually, I think that whether or not they can be friends with each other after confession depends on the confessor.

If the confessor feels that you can control yourself, you can continue to be friends. When I say control yourself, I mean that you have let go of him in your heart, and you don't have any other thoughts about him, just want to be friends with him and appear in his world as a friend. I have a friend Xiao K, who was rejected by the boy after she confessed to the male god she liked.

At first, Xiao K was also unwilling, but after a while, she told me that she decided to be friends with the male god. I asked her if she really let go of the male god, and Xiao K told me that she felt that she and the male god were people of two worlds, and no matter how hard she tried, she would not change the result. So she decided to continue to be friends with the male god.

If she continues to be friends with the male god, she will have an excellent friend, after all, she liked the male god at that time because her male god was really good.

But if the confessor can't let go, don't continue to be friends. Otherwise, if you are friends with him, you pay more attention to who the girl in the photo he took in today's circle of friends is; pays attention to what type of girl he likes, and then changes himself to make himself what he likes; The focus is on whether you have a chance to be with him, and you may even make a humble decision to be a spare tire. This tortures not only yourself, but also him, and hurting each other to the end will only get worse.

So, if you really can't let go of him, don't be a friend. Give each other a better choice, maybe after you give up on him, you will meet someone more suitable for you at the next intersection, and you will immediately forget the person who once thought you were true love.

Although love is happy and sweet, friendship is sincere and warm, these are the most important feelings for us. Some people think that the two can be transformed into each other, love is no longer friendship, and even if the confession fails, they can still be friends. But in fact, this idea is not valid.

In fact, it is impossible to be friends after the confession fails......The reason why I say this is because there are commonalities in the foundation of love and friendship, there is no bond between two people if love is not there, and the failure of confession will directly affect two people to become friends. 1. There is commonality in the foundation of love and friendship, love does not exist, and friendship will not exist. Love and friendship are two different feelings, but there is a common foundation between them, that is, like-mindedness, mutual trust and respect.

When the confession fails, there must be some problems between the two people in terms of like-mindedness, mutual trust and mutual respect, so the basis for continued interaction between the two people does not exist. In such a state, it is impossible for two people to become friends.

2. When the confession fails, the bond between the two people does not exist, and they cannot continue to be friends. The bond that maintains love is the affection between Sen Chong. The relationship between two people is harmonious, so they will fall in love with each other and fall in love with each other.

But when the confession fails and there is no love between the two people, the emotional bond between the only two people does not exist, and the two people cannot maintain a state of continuing to communicate, and the result can only be to go their separate ways. Therefore, two people who fail to confess cannot become friends.

3. The failure of confession will directly affect the continued relationship between the two parties, and it will also affect the two people to become friends. For the case of the failure to confess, the fundamental reason why the confession was not successful was because of the lack of trust between each other. When this problem cannot be solved, the relationship between two people will end in a breakup.

Until the problem is resolved, the two people cannot reconcile or even continue to relationship. Since it is impossible to even have normal communication with each other, then two people cannot be friends at all. ......Therefore, it is impossible for two people to be friends after the confession fails.

For these two people, from the moment they failed to confess, there was no possibility of continuing to associate with each other and becoming friends.

After the confession failed, I couldn't be friends.

After the confession fails, all that remains is embarrassment. Even if you go back, your hearts will change a little bit. It won't be so pure.

So don't confess to your friends unless you're very sure or you don't care about the friendship. Or maybe you befriended her just to chase her. Because when you confess, regardless of success or failure, this friendship is no longer the same as before.

If you succeed, you become a couple and will no longer be friends. Of course, if it's not suitable to break up, they won't become friends. Fail, and your relationship becomes different.

For example, if you are kind to him, it may be out of a friend's concern. But that's not what he thinks in his heart.

Don't you think that after this confession is to, if you don't agree, everyone will continue to be friends, how can there be such a good thing? The decision made must have consequences, and the bureau Xunchang needs to be cautious in confession, and if it is not successful, it will become benevolent.

Of course, there is still a kind of person, after you confess, he refuses, and he treats you as a good friend, and this requires you to have a high level of skill. For example, after you confess, you find that she doesn't like you, you can say to her with a playful attitude: "You are actually serious, how can I like you?"

Silly, kidding you. ”

I've used this before, and it's worked. And the two of us are good friends now, and we don't have that in mind. No matter how good they are to each other, they will not think about anything else.

Confession can ruin a friendship, but if mastered well, it will also make the friendship more pure and envious. After all, after the confession fails, you will know what the other party thinks, and you won't think about it anymore. The premise is that you have to die after the confession fails, and really just treat him as a friend.

This scale is still difficult to grasp.

Let's talk about it! Many people have different opinions and opinions, but I think that after the confession fails, whether you can continue to be friends completely depends on your heart, if you feel that the other party is worth dating and can bring you growth, you should not give up easily, you can still continue to be friends, if the other party makes you miserable and makes it difficult for you to sleep, then you can consider giving up contact.

When we confess to our beloved with great anticipation, there are generally only two ends, if we succeed, we will become a sweet lover, and if we fail, we will become the most familiar stranger. But many also believe that confession is a clarion call for victory, not a gamble. It does make sense, only when you know enough about yourself and the other party, or when both parties are silently maintaining this ambiguous relationship, the confession can be successful!

But the reality is that there are many people who have a crush on each other without the other party's knowledge, and they are afraid that they will lose each other, so they will always take a certain risk to try to confess. Needless to say, the odds of such a confession winning are almost small. Not only will they not be recognized by the other party, but they will also lose a precious friendship with each other.

After the confession fails, it is difficult to take the initiative to contact the other party, first, you will feel that you are interfering with the other party's life, and second, you will feel that you are licking a dog, which is undignified. There is nothing wrong with this feeling, but what we have to be clear about is that it is a question of whether we can be friends after a failed confession, not whether we can be friends after a breakup! The two are not the same, and it is easier to continue each other's friendship than to confess defeat than to break up.

Don't let this friendship come to an end because of your wrong feelings such as loss of dignity. Before the confession, the two sides have endless topics, but after the confession fails, there will be an inexplicable estrangement between the two parties, and the key to whether you can continue to be friends is to see how you deal with this estrangement.

In my opinion, I think a friendship worth cherishing is more important than the so-called face, and a person who is worthy of your confession will definitely have something for you to appreciate, and such a friend should not be given up easily. I laugh that people should be rational about love and friendship, love and friendship are separated, and no love does not mean that there can be no friendship. Life is short, it is rare to meet a lover, and having a friend is an important network resource, so I advise all friends who confess failure, love is gone, and friendship must be firmly controlled!

After the failure of confession, you can still be a good friend, no feelings, and friendship.

Can't be friends anymore.

We all have a loved one in our hearts, and when we want to confess to her, we must be very conflicted, if she rejects me, will we become strangers? Confession is a necessary process for emotional sublimation, but confession may not necessarily succeed, most people will bravely pursue the person they love in order to win love, or at least be a friend, but can you be friends if you fail to confess? Let's find out.

First of all, respect the ideas of the girls.

No matter what decision a girl makes, a boy should respect the girl's ideas, even if he can't be a boyfriend, he should remain rational and allow the girl to reject himself or even delete himself. Because the girl is likely to not want you to misunderstand or don't want to delay you, so she chooses to cut off contact with you, which is a responsible performance, so the boy must respect the girl.

Second, don't stalk.

If the girl doesn't take the initiative to delete or block you, it doesn't mean that she is giving you a chance, she may just be embarrassed to delete you, and she has saved you the greatest face. So at this time, boys must stop stalking and chasing girls, if they can be friends, treat each other calmly, if they can't go, don't bother others, just leave by yourself.

Finally, you must know how to let go of the rent at the right time.

Some girls reject boys because they want to give boys a chance to test, but some refuse to really refuse. Boys must know how to let go, and if they fail, they must be free and easy, don't complain about girls or do anything excessive, you must know that there are still many girls in the world, and there is a person waiting for you in Yuansen.

Confessing failure is also a life experience, boys must learn to accept such results calmly, don't think it's a shameful thing, failure in a relationship is not a failure at all, be a responsible and tolerant boy, so that someone will like you.

Hope it helps you and good luck.

If you are friends, you can't go back to the past, and there will definitely be a gap.

You can't be friends anymore, because you made a lot of efforts to decide to confess to each other, but the other party refused, at that time you will be very sad, and there is a trace of complaint, so it is impossible for the two of you to be friends.

If you have a sedan chair that you particularly like, but you confess failure, then you have to learn to adjust your mentality, because confession of this thing, there are times when there are successes and unsuccesses, we don't care too much, although we will be sad for a while, but I think as long as we are good enough, we will be able to meet a special person for ourselves in the future, and after the confession fails, we don't need to bother each other, and there is no need to be friends with each other, because even if we are friends, The relationship between the two will also be particularly awkward, and there is nothing to talk about when you get along, so it is better to be a stranger.

You can find that many people will not be friends with each other at all after they fail to confess, because they know that even if they are friends with each other, the other party will not necessarily agree, it is better to do nothing, when nothing happens, if you fail to confess, and insist on being friends with the other party, then the other party will feel particularly embarrassed, because he doesn't know what kind of identity to get along with you, after all, you have just confessed to him, and you have to be friends at this time, This will be particularly difficult for any person, so in order not to embarrass the other party, you should not be friends with the other party, and the other party may find the other half in the future, and you will be even more uncomfortable at that time, it is better not to know him and treat him as a stranger.

Confession of this thing has a time of success, when it fails, so before you confess, you must have a good attitude, to be prepared for rejection, so that you will not be so disappointed, and after the confession failure, do not have anything to do with the other party, and do not think about being friends with the other party, then you will leave a good image of the other party, if the confession fails, you still have to pester the other party, and be friends with the other party, then the other party will feel particularly annoying, I won't grant your request at all.