The experience of what it s like to live alone

It's probably renting a house alone and buying vegetables and cooking alone. Every day in the dead of night, I always look up at the sky alone. It was like being stuck in a lonely quagmire, looking at the lights in the distance, and finding that it was not lit up for me.

When it rains, people are waiting for umbrellas, and I'm waiting for the rain to stop. I can hide from the night when I drink and sing, but I can't hide from the streets where no one is around. ‍‍

I like to live alone, even at home I just like to be in my own room. I came out to make my own money, rented a house by myself, and got my own food, which felt like there were more troubles, and it was not so convenient at home. When I'm alone, I always feel very happy.

In fact, the loneliness in the heart is only known to oneself, in short, living alone is loneliness.

I don't know where to go, just like each of us, everyone's life is different, living alone is a kind of growth, learn to be independent, learn to take care of yourself, learn to manage, learn to plan, a person is growing and accumulating, enjoy a person's life, a person can only take care of others by taking care of himself, everyone deserves to be loved, and independent people are more worthy of being loved.

I am alone, I have to learn to be a man when I struggle outside, I have to grind hard for the company, bargain with customers, I have to smooth out all the edges and corners, I have to wear various masks and deal with different people, sometimes I often feel very tired, and sometimes I want to find a place to cry. However, no one will know that you have cried in the middle of the night, and no one will be able to understand the hard work you can't tell.

Probably to endure all the loneliness and to tell people I'm fine. After I graduated, I lived alone in Beijing for two years, and in the past two years, I had to live almost every day, living in a house of more than ten square meters and having my own small life, but in fact, this is also very good, at least I can endure loneliness.

Slowly, I became more and more homely, and I couldn't do more and more inseparable from the little nest I rented. The bustle of the city is amazing, and the rush of life often makes me feel sad. I report good news and bad news to my family in **, just because they are the people I care about the most.

I don't want them to worry, gritting my teeth can only make myself strong. Life is what it is, real and cruel. Others only see how high you fly, and no one will care if you are tired of flying.

The outside world is wonderful, and the outside world is helpless. ‍‍

Since I graduated, I have been living alone in other places, you must know that all my friends are not around, there is no family only myself, I don't know how many days and nights I have spent, and the communication with colleagues is 0, but I want to hold on, I want to gain a foothold in this city, I have to work hard, and my own means that I have to share everything, come on.

I was a girl who came out to work after graduating from college, I don't know how I cleaned my rented house, at that time I just thought I was a man I could, even if the light bulb in the house broke at night. I also have to force myself to say that I can do it myself, I know it's really hard to live alone, but I have to tell myself to persevere, and it's good to learn how to cook by myself.

Be comfortable, learn and enjoy solitude, no one will be with you all the time.

Different people have different opinions and attitudes about a person's life.

For some, living independently can give them more freedom, independence, and control over their lives. They are free to spend their time and money without having to think about the needs and ideas of others.

In addition, living independently also allows them to better pursue their hobbies and careers without having to be restricted and distracted by their family or spouse. For some people, living independently can feel lonely and helpless. They may lack intimate relationships and share life's moments, joys and sorrows.

In addition, living independently can lead to financial and living difficulties, such as lack of care and support. For me personally, I think everyone has their own lifestyle and choices.

Whether you choose to live alone or with others, you should make decisions based on your own wishes and decisions, rather than being influenced by others or pressured by society.

Whichever way you choose, you should have good mental qualities and life skills to cope with life's challenges and difficulties.