Please come and advise, is she true or false?

The truth is that the consequences of a man hurting a woman's body and feelings are unimaginable, and if you are a vindictive person, the truth of this statement is indeed high! After all, some injuries bring much more power to hate! Sometimes love, even true love, may not bring her back; But if she is not such a person, he may also be because you are too good to her, he is not willing to treat her like this, and she may also feel unworthy of you or something else.

But no matter what the reason, one thing is obvious, that man really hurt her too much, and she cares too much about it, it depends on how you want to deal with it!

In short, it depends on how much you know about him, if you really know her, you will know that what she said is true or false, and I sincerely wish you happiness!

Well, yes, there is another reason, that is, she really doesn't love you, and your love is too humble in front of him, oops, everything may have, or it depends on what you know about him, although the authorities are confused, but try to be sober Hehe.

I want to say this to the girl: don't try to live with revenge after a man leaves. That will only make your life a mess.

The right thing to do is to live better than before. And tell him: you are living well, you are happy, and losing you is his loss.

You're asking the right person, I've had this experience, but I'm playing the college student, and she likes the college student now, because she hasn't come out of the shadows yet, if you love her very much, don't give up, but don't pester her, one day she will know that there is someone who loves her very much, it's you, listen to me.

Give me points.

Why don't you send her to the hospital...

She doesn't love you, it's because she wants to find an excuse to break up with you.

Go get a divorce deal, you will be annoyed one day with such a woman.

Friend, be patient with her if you feel you love her very much! I believe that's happy, but if it's like you say it will be in the long run, then it's better to reconsider!

If you want to help her out of trouble, you have to be patient first, and you can ask a psychiatrist to help her silently.

Don't you understand that you were just being used by others for a moment Let her go She is not suitable for you You will find a good girl who is gentle with you.

There is only one answer, she doesn't love you and wants to break up with you.

It seems a bit counterintuitive, but you better be careful. You call Unicom customer service and ask if there is a charge for answering. If you really want to marry her, it is recommended that you go to **, but don't meet him directly, investigate her first to see if it is as he said.

If the investigation is different, or if you have doubts, just go back. If you meet, you should be careful of being scammed. Don't touch the girl lightly.

- =.You don't believe him at all, there's no need to continue.

**Never speak ill of you, never behave very well.

Of course it's unrealistic, my sister has also been dating online before, but it still doesn't end up being sad, people have to live realistically, and there are many good girls in life.

The truth is that no matter who she is, how old she is, or what she looks like, after all, she can communicate with you spiritually, as you said, she has been for my good for more than a month, comforting you when you are frustrated, enlightening you when you are in pain, and accompanying you when you are lonely. She is genuine to you, but the question is whether you can accept it when you see the real her. It's up to you.

Maybe this kind of person has no purpose at all, but is extremely boring!

Brother, you were wrong...

If no one has ever seen you, they will believe it??? Do it all over again.

Don't stop there. There is no grass at the end of the world.

With the first time, you will get along more harmoniously in the future, and there will be no more embarrassment between those so-called men and women If you are willing to love her for a lifetime, be responsible for her for a lifetime, and never abandon anything you encounter, then that, but remember to do a good job of contraception and hygiene, otherwise you will be prone to ** disease.

Protect her well, and it is the responsibility of two people to love each other.

Well, take safety precautions and don't think too far ahead.

The tighter the sand is pulled, the faster it flows.

It's not the same with love, if she's a handful of sand, you want to keep her, it's to hold her in a good position, not to hold it.

You care about her, it's okay, but don't force what you think on her, who you have your opinions, who she has opinions about who she has opinions, what she sees and what she does is her business, she belongs to herself first, she belongs to you.

All you have to do is take good care of her, and you can say to her, "This is good," "This may not be good," "Remember to wear more when you go out," but you must not say, "That's not okay, that's fine," "Put on your down jacket (10 degrees outside)," hehe.

You're too much to manage. Anyone will be annoyed by you. Hurry up and get rid of this problem.

You're in charge of too much, and everybody wants their own space.

You tell her that what you like is her person, her heart, not her diploma. Age is not a generation gap, height is not a gap, let alone a diploma.

Communication is still the main channel! Since you think you don't know him much, then take the initiative to get to know him, and it is important to chat purposefully It seems to be chatting, but in fact you know what you want to know, so that he won't find you frivolous! As for convincing your parents, I personally think it's too early, you're still in college, and even if you want to get married early, it will take at least a year or two after you graduate, so if you tell your parents these things now, they will treat you as a child, don't worry about you!

When you work, you gradually show the ability to deal with problems independently, so that your parents can rest assured of you, and then talk to them about it slowly, their attitude will be much better, understand?

The answer adds: First of all, you think he is very enthusiastic about you, this is not a bad thing, you are worried that he is like this to all netizens, in fact, it is easy to think, he passed on his family's ** to you, and also sent you a detailed letter to explain himself, but also to facilitate you to understand him, I feel that he is still a very attentive person, and also fully demonstrates his sincerity to you, as far as he is concerned, at least for the time being, you can still believe it! But you will have at least three years to be together, if you are really willing to wait for him for three years, then I think you should wait until he comes over and is with you, and you can get along in real life and get along on the Internet, or even if you are different from the Internet in real life, you can accept each other, at this time, I think this is the time for you to get on the right track!

As for the fact that you can get along in a super-friendly way now, so that you can ensure the warmth of each other's feelings, and in the future, if you can't be together, you can have a space to protect yourself from being hurt too much.

In this way, it is better to let him come to China first, so that you can get to know him first. And don't trust a person too easily. Especially people you don't know well.

It's the person you want him to accompany you for the rest of your life. You have to get to know him well. Once you've figured everything out, measure whether he's the person you're looking for?

Will he be able to accompany you through your life? And one more: he is a foreign officer, and you must be careful to confirm this!

If everything is true. Brave love!

I think you're thinking too much now, there are still three years, three years is not a long time, it is not a short time, it can change a lot of things in a blink of an eye, let alone three years?

Face him with a normal heart, although the Internet is illusory, but I think three years is enough time for you to understand each other, don't use so many stereotypes to guide your behavior, go with the flow, don't be deliberate and forced.

If you can persist for three years, I think that the current problem will naturally not be a problem, if not, then there is no other way but to relax, there are some things that you and I can't control.

If he wants to come and see you, ask him to come, you can hang out with him, and by the way, you can observe the person. After all, the Internet is illusory, but it doesn't mean that the Internet doesn't have real feelings. The key is that you have to protect yourself, doubt this person for a minute and think clearly.

How to say it, people always have to get along with each other to know a person's character, you should find a chance to get along, maybe you can, chat more, you shouldn't be so quick to define that you like him, after all, you are not very familiar with it, some small shortcomings will come out after people are familiar, maybe it is that little bit of shortcomings that you hate the most, don't you still have to be more careful!!

In fact, no matter what we all say, it depends on your personal feelings, I personally feel that the Internet is unreal, just like you said, he is like this to you, maybe he is like that to others, isn't it? You will never really get to know a person on the Internet, if you really want to be with him, let him come to China to really get to know him and then you are making a decision.

To be honest, it's not suitable, what you see on the Internet is each other's advantages, you don't know each other at all, work, living habits, environment, family, and many reasons, all of them are black-eyed and black-haired, and the differences between the north and the south are still very big, not to mention that it is a foreigner, and after you are really together, there will definitely be problems!

After only a few conversations, I let ?!! hereYou are too easy to be deceived, don't listen to his rhetoric, don't let him come, I have seen many girls deceived by these so-called officers, and you will regret it when the time comes!

Try to find out!

And then decide what to do next.

There are fake ones on the Internet, but there are real ones, give others a chance, and at the same time give yourself a chance.

It's better not to trust the Internet. Add me and I'll send you an article to see. Although online dating looks very beautiful, there are a lot of helplessness and illusion in it...

How to say it, give each other some time first, get to know each other again, and wait.

The Internet is all about courtesy. There is no truth to speak of it.

Sister. Don't trust these people.

The Internet is not reliable. ~

The Internet is not real, you are all college students, is it bad to find one in real life?

The fake component of the network is too high.

How much is the authenticity of the Internet!

Think clearly. Don't be fooled.

In fact, what she loves is not the current you, but the better you in the future, and if you can't do it, she will be more and more disappointed......Since she likes material things, and you like simplicity and ease, you have a bit of a disagreement. You insist that you are not wrong, people are different, your situation is to face up to the differences, it is recommended that you talk to her in depth, if she just can't accept your attitude to life, then don't be patient with each other, after all, you can't always endure a person you don't agree with in your life.

My own emotional experience is not rich, but there are couples in the circle around me who are familiar with me, and the woman complains that her husband is unproductive all day long, and she is very disgusted when she says it, and she feels that her husband can't hold her head up as she says.

If you are willing to tolerate her from the bottom of your heart and are willing to change yourself for her, then you can continue to love her; But you yourself feel like you're putting up with her, and you suspect that your change isn't sincere. There is a big difference in the attitude of the two of you, she is a person with higher requirements, whether it is work or life. But you are a more casual person, and you pay attention to work and life, and you are all about going with the flow.

In this way, you will feel pressure and discomfort with her, and she will feel that you have no pursuit and are not motivated when you are with you. When you are together, one of you must have to make a compromise with the other, and it seems that you should be the one who compromises. It's up to you to make compromises calmly, otherwise you won't be able to stay tuned.

From your situation, you can see that the values of the two of you are far apart, and if you deliberately change yourself to cater to her values, I think this is very bad, because it is not a change from your heart. If you change your life to suit her values, I can say that you won't be happy in the end. And for the sake of her values, to change your life of being happier and more comfortable is not called tolerance.

To put it mildly, the woman wants you to wear a mask that she likes and puts this mask on your face, but that mask is not you, and she ultimately likes the mask over you.

I don't think you need to change your current happy life for her, there are two reasons, one is that the direction of change is not what you like, and the second is that even if you have changed for him, you will not get a happy life in the end, because those are not the life you want in life.

Finally, I advise you, the values of the two people are too far apart, and you will not be happy even if you are together.