How can you be sure that your current spouse will be your future marriage partner?

When we reach the age of marriage, we will try to have different boyfriends, so how do you determine which one is your future marriage partner among the many boyfriends? I think the easiest way is to come up with different ways to test him.

The person you marry must be someone you can rely on, who can give you a sense of security and responsibility. Because only in this way can you rest assured that you can entrust your life to him, so there are many ways to test people, in fact, the easiest way is two words time, time is the most able to test a person, to see if he is from the heart, treat you as his marriage partner.

People say that love can be divided into several periods, when you first meet, there will be a hot love period, and if you want to test your object, don't be in the love period, because that is the period when the two of you are about to be good, for you your mind is also very uncool, and you may also be carried away by the sweetness of love, and for your object, he may also just get you to maintain a lot of freshness, so you can't test it at that time.

People say that when you encounter difficulties, it is the time when you really test a person, as long as you are really difficult and encounter big things, you can see which is the person who is really good to you, and that is the person who runs away when you see you in difficulty. In fact, you can see in your daily life whether he is sincere or not.

When you encounter difficulties in life, see whether she encourages you, comforts you, helps you solve it, or puts you aside, when you are sick, he is by your side, takes care of you without regrets, only pays without asking for anything in return, or only knows that it is his burden to complain about you too many things.

Marriage is a major event in everyone's life, so you can only marry him after you have to confirm whether he is the person you are marrying him, which is a responsible behavior for both parties.

Because you first have to determine what kind of marriage partner you want to choose, and then see if your current one meets your marriage standards, because this and falling in love are two things, marriage involves two people's families, you have to consider whether your two family situations match, what is your parents' impression of your current one, and what is your current parents' impression and attitude towards you, the work status of the two of you, the future of **, work economy, The two people in personality hobbies and worldview are not matched.

And whether your age is appropriate, because it involves future fertility issues and pension issues. In addition, the relationship between two people is the most important, if you really have a very good relationship with your current relationship, and it is also very stable, and the two people have common plans and plans for the future, then he can be your goal for marriage.

At the beginning of every relationship, there should be a long-term idea, so that it is a responsible relationship, and the beginning of every relationship should be to hold two people who can continue to have a long-term relationship before starting this relationship, rather than blindly choosing to start this relationship.

Generally speaking, your current should be the object of your marriage, if you don't want to marry him, then what are you in love with someone for, is it that you just like him for a period of time, and after a while, you don't like him.

There is also the issue of marriage, it depends on whether your current age is of marriageable age, if you have reached the age of marriage, then the probability that he is your marriage partner is very high, unless you have conflicts and problems in your relationship now, but if you are still a minor or not yet twenty years old, you will consider this problem, it is indeed a long time away, because no one knows the development of the relationship between the two of you in the future.

It's just that the two of them have been together for a long time, and they know each other too well, I am too lazy to find a new object to adapt, and he loves me very much, and he is sure, and I am sure.

I'm a person with a very poor sense of security, but I talked about a long-distance relationship, it was okay at first, and after a while, the problem slowly came out, I love to think about it very, very much, and I often cry when I hit **, because I think about it in one or two sentences, conceive an emotional drama, and make myself like the tragic heroine in an idol drama hahaha, and my boyfriend, every time he will be very patient to explain me, make me laugh, the last time I watched these is not a way, just after a time to tell me his thoughts, I also understand, That's fine, haha I don't think much about it until now. There are also many little things in life, his care for me, and the cherishing of every time we meet in a different place, make me sure that it is him. <>

There is also a small thing, that is, when we met on this National Day hahaha I wanted to quietly fart in his face, but it sounded, hahaha The air was suddenly quiet in that second. Afterwards, he said that he didn't beat me up, but he really loved me, and I felt like he wanted to get married at this moment!!

You have to see if the other party has the courage and determination to marry you and go on, to see if the other party loves you so much, if the answer is yes, then you can enter the palace of marriage.

I think the best difference is that the two of us love each other, and we both know how to care for each other, we understand each other, and most importantly, we both know how to tolerate each other.

You can go out on a long trip, and the trip can be a good way to know if the life of the two is suitable.

It's not too much of a requirement, since it's the person I want to marry in the future, then I hope that either someone I love and love me, or someone who suits me very well, because marrying these two kinds of people, I will be happier, or have a better life. And I hope that my future marriage partner will have certain economic conditions, not necessarily too good, but at least it should be similar to me, or a little better, but it can't be worse than me, it's not money worship or anything, but this is the realityIf getting married lowers my quality of life, then I don't want to get married.

If you get married, you can't ignore the economic conditions, you can not buy a house first, but we must buy it when we get married, you can buy it with the man and the woman, or the man makes a down payment, and the rest of us will slowly pay it back together after we get married, but in this case, you must add my name, if the man has bought a house before marriage and decorated it, then you can not add my name. The car can be without, I don't mind that. And I don't want to live with my parents after I am married, because I live together, I am worried that the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be easy to handleIf you don't live together, it's okay to be close to each other, because it's not easy to have conflicts if you don't live together, if you live together because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often noisy, it will be very tiring Whether it's me or the man, I'll be tired.

Then I hope that the future marriage partner will not be shorter than me, I don't want to cause our children to grow taller because of genetic problems because of our own height. Although I'm not tall, I think it's okay among the southern girls, if I find someone shorter than me, then how short the child will be in the future, if the daughter is okay, in case it is a son, then I don't think I will be able to marry a daughter-in-law in the future. Don't say I'm asking too much, and there's more.

There is also the fact that the man must be motivated, not an old man, so I am worried that he is actually a giant baby, and I may not be able to support such a giant baby after marriage.

It is also very important that my boyfriend should give my parents enough respect and not disrespect themI know that some people are disrespectful to their parents-in-law, so I hope he is not the kind of person who disrespects his parents-in-law.

My requirements for future marriage partners are mainly as follows:

1. Consistent with my three views, this is the basis for deciding whether we can be together 2. Be filial, after all, filial piety comes first, and you can also see this person's character 3, good character, this is the basis of being a man.

4. You must have a certain ability to think independently, so that it is interesting to live together, 5. Be empathetic, so that you can struggle together and make progress together, so that you will not be anxious at work and deal with things at home.

The person you marry must be handsome, responsible, and truly love yourself, no matter whether you are poor or rich, you will never leave yourself.

Be filial to your elders, take your family seriously, be good to me, be self-motivated, give people a sense of steadfastness and stability, and be mature.

The most important thing is to love each other sincerely, have common interests and hobbies, have tacit understanding, know what you want, understand me, tolerate me, have a good character, and have a sense of responsibility.

You must love yourself very much, the personalities of the two people must be compatible, the conduct must be good, the handling of things must be generous, you can tolerate others, and the relationship is not three minutes hot, so that it can be better.

Mature and steady, wholeheartedly good to yourself, sincerely pay for yourself, good character, responsible, self-motivated, hard-working, willing to work hard, and the most important thing is that the two should love each other.

You must really love yourself, the three views of the two must be consistent, you must have a sense of responsibility, be self-motivated, be willing to work hard, have a good character, know how to understand me, and have a tacit understanding with me.

I hope he will quit smoking, my family and I don't like the smell of smoking, and if he can, I'll marry him.

The three views should be correct, and they should love me sincerely, love my family, recognize my friends, and provide me with good living conditions.

My boyfriend and I have entered the palace of marriage, we are united because of love, and I have never regretted my choice. My emotional road with my lover was not all smooth sailing, my boyfriend was poor and white, the family was very embarrassed, my parents did not agree with us being together, I was almost naked at the beginning, in order to be with my boyfriend offended my parents.

Third, although my husband and I often have conflicts, we still quarrel. Any sweet and loving couple will have times of quarrels, after all, there are no real people with different personalities. For people who love each other, they are willing to show weakness in marriage, give enough respect and space to the other half, and when the views cannot be consistent, they can take a step back and open the sky, which is conducive to the stability of the marriage.

All in all, I am very grateful to my husband for giving me a wonderful family, and I will cherish this hard-won fate.

It is indeed my choice to marry, because he is very mature and steady, and can give me the most protection and the greatest love, which makes me feel at ease.

Nowadays, people are not their own marriage candidates, and I feel that the other party is relatively unreliable in many cases.

My current is my own marriage candidate, and I feel that I will feel very happy to live with my current one.

Yes! I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who is very attentive in every way and can get along with me. What I originally thought was that the ugly man didn't say it, and the three views were the same. It turned out that I really met, we got the certificate this year, and we are preparing to get married!

No, because at that time I didn't understand the difference between love and marriage, and thought that liking was marriage.

It's my choice to get married. Because my current relationship with me is very much in love, and they take care of me in every way.

Yes, I feel that the other party is very kind and reasonable, and they can get along with each other, and they can also achieve the same pursuit of life.

Of course it's my marriage choice, I'm happy with my current one, and he makes me happy every day.

Yes! I feel very fortunate that my first term, my current one, became my wife.

Yes, I hope to be happy together, because to love someone is to hope to be together forever.

My current candidate is my marriage candidate, I love him very much, I want to live with him wholeheartedly, and I am rushing to get married.

What I value most is the other party's character and self-motivation, if the other party has these two points, I will be able to live a happy life with him in the future.

I will value whether the other party is responsible, mature and steady, and whether he is self-motivated in his career, and I will choose such a marriage partner!

I value the other party's character the most, and the other party must be very kind-hearted and have a particularly good temperament.

I value the quality of the other person the most, because good quality is the greatest wealth in a person's life, which can bring good luck and a good future.

When looking for a future marriage partner, I will pay more attention to the other party's sense of responsibility, filial piety, and self-motivation.

I will pay more attention to character, a person with a bad character, even if he has friends around him, is not necessarily the most sincere kind. People with good character can survive better in society and have good three views, so that the two can spend three meals and four seasons together.

I value the sense of responsibility and self-motivation of the other person the most. With a sense of responsibility and self-motivation, his life will be very clear.

When looking for a marriage partner, the character of the other party I value the most, as well as the economic foundation, does it match my three views, can I adapt to my living habits, and my appearance is average.

I value each other's hard work the most, but there must be love for me, work together for our small family, pay together, and look forward to getting better and better together.