Are you still in touch with your ex? What about your current incumbent? Do you mind?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I have no contact with my ex, I don't have a current one, and I don't plan to look for it again, maybe I'm disappointed in men, and I think it's better not to look for it if there is no suitable one.

    I've only been in love once when I've grown up, and it's only been three years since I realized that I'm in love to get married and then divorced, but these three years are the most painful and I don't want to think about.

    I'm a conservative person, I've been very obedient from elementary school to college, I've never done anything against the school rules, other students go to the Internet café game hall, I've never been there, I've always been a good student by the teacher and classmates, and in high school, there were classmates in the class who started to deal with them, but I felt that they were not wrong, not good students, and I never played with them.

    When I got to college, I could deal with a partner, but I saw that my classmates around me had boyfriends one by one, but I didn't know how to talk about it, and then I felt that my college life was also very good, so I didn't think about finding a partner.

    After graduating from college, I still don't have a boyfriend, watching the girls in the neighborhood take their boyfriends home one by one, my parents were anxious, and found someone to introduce me to an object, we chatted online for a few days, and then we started to fall in love when we met, and we got married a year later, a lot of things happened in the middle, how long did it take to divorce after a year, this marriage made me no longer believe what men say, all sweet words are useless, an irresponsible man, even if you take out your heart to him, he will doubt.

    We have only been divorced for a short time, so I don't have a current one, and I don't really want to find a current one, I think no matter how good a man is, he will become after marriage, maybe I'm a little extreme, but if I can't meet a real suitable one, then I'd rather not find a boyfriend, rather than dealing with life, it's better to live a wonderful life.

    I don't know if you mind what you ask? Is it what to mind about.

    If asked, would you mind contacting your ex again? I can tell you clearly, I mind, I will not have any contact with my ex in the future, not because I hate from love, but because there is no need, I will never get along with him, we still have a child, I will not let the child see him in the future, if I can find a current one who is good to the child and me, then my current is the child's father, and in the future, no one is allowed to mention that the child has a father. Anyway, now that the child is small, she doesn't remember, as long as the child grows up and no one says it, the child will always regard my current father as his own father, and let the child forget him forever.

    If asked, do you mind the current contact with his ex? I can also tell you clearly, I mind, before I met my ex, I may think that the two people who broke up can also be friends, but now I tell you that the two people who broke up can never be friends, if you still want to contact your ex, it proves that you still have him in your heart, or you didn't have much conflict when you broke up.

    But it didn't happen that there was much conflict and they broke up, and there must be a possibility of rekindling the old relationship, so I don't mind that my current and his predecessor are disconnected.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm still in touch with my ex. I don't have a current position, maybe I'm waiting for an ex, maybe I hope that the person who is my current person will show up.

    Actually, if my ex and I hadn't developed a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, we would have been good friends. Maybe it's because we talk about it that our relationship has gone beyond being good friends. The two of us had intermittent contact, sometimes months apart, sometimes weeks, and we said things that didn't hurt, but almost every time he asked me if I had another husband, I didn't.

    I may still have a little bit of trouble to let go of him, I don't give him another chance, but I don't want to be with others There is still someone in my heart. <>

    I made another bet with myself that after I forgot, I had a new love; I still can't forget it, old love has become a new love. I sometimes have overflowing feelings, and I also know that girls must learn to restrain themselves and hide their love under their skins, after all, love must be restrained. The connection between us was almost the beginning of him.

    He would ask me how I was doing, talk about our former classmates, and sometimes, when we got to a bottleneck, we would be silenced as if we had said yes. Without the following, it's like it hasn't started, and sometimes, I feel like everything is what I imagined, but looking through the chat logs, what he said is still there. <>

    I still have a transcript of our chats, and every time he said in that vague tone, I guessed. He also said that he couldn't forget me, and I didn't want to look back, so what, we didn't know how to start over, just like we didn't know how to end it, the relationship between the two of us was like a mystery, how to say it, do whatever you want, sometimes the love is strong, I want to be with him so much, the love is quiet, we will hide until the other party can't find it, I also know that he has me in his heart, and I still like him, even if I don't admit it. <>

    Our contact is only to determine whether there is a posterior around the other party, but once we find out that there is not, we will be inexplicably happy, after the happiness, there is no follow-up, none of us know how to speak, this relationship has been maintained for three years, we are divided and combined, so that the body is injured by the other party. We have very few memories, we haven't held hands, we haven't celebrated birthdays together, we haven't announced our relationship together in front of everyone. That's it, it's not like a couple at all, but it's not inseparable from each other at all, you see, people like us deserve to be single.

    What I'm actually hoping for is that my ex becomes my current one, then my current one won't mind. I'm smart, but if you procrastinate, then I don't mind if you keep being my ex, that's all, you know? If you don't understand, pull it, my ex, my stingy ex.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think I should be in contact with my ex, because the two of us have broken up without any entanglement, and I will not contact my ex.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I don't think I should contact my ex, because after all, that relationship has passed, so I shouldn't miss it, and I won't choose to contact my ex.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on whether you have a new relationship, if not, you can choose to continue to contact, most people can be friends after a breakup, if there is a new relationship, then don't contact, this is not only disrespectful to the object of your new relationship, but also irresponsible to yourself, I will not contact my ex.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There should be no contact with my ex, I have no contact with my ex.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You shouldn't contact your ex, because the two of you have broken up, and if you continue to contact, it will also affect the lives of the two of you, and I won't contact my ex, because I don't think it's necessary, the two of you have no feelings, and continuing to contact will only add some unreasonable troubles.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't have a current one, then there's nothing wrong with finding an ex, but if you have a current one, then you shouldn't find an ex.

    No, because I already have someone I love, and I'm a very responsible person.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course not. I won't get in touch because the two people are no longer related, and there is no need to entangle each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Dear, hello, I am very honored to be able to answer for you, there are current and contact the ex is generally speaking, there will be two mentalities: one is lost and regained, looking forward to the expectation of one day to be able to continue the front edge.

    The second mindset is stubbornness. thinks that it is not their fault after breaking up, and feels that it is unreasonable for the other party to break up, even if they are separated, they must be stalked, expecting the other party to admit their mistakes and return to their side. Whatever the reason, at least disrespect to the incumbent, never believe that you can be friends after a breakup, it's all, these are all excuses for wanting to step on two boats.

    A breakup is a breakup, although you don't have to be an enemy to be a stranger, don't disturb each other's lives, for her good, but also for the current one. That's my answer to that question, I hope I can help you.

    Dear, hello, I am very honored to be able to answer for you, there are current and contact the ex is generally speaking, there will be two mentalities: one is lost and regained, looking forward to the expectation of one day to be able to continue the front edge. The second mindset is stubbornness.

    thinks that it is not their fault after breaking up, and feels that it is unreasonable for the other party to break up, even if they are separated, they must be stalked, expecting the other party to admit their mistakes and return to their side. No matter what the reason, at least it is disrespectful to the current Liang Xianliang, never believe that you can still be friends after breaking up, it's all, these are all excuses for wanting to step on two boats. A breakup is a breakup, although you don't have to be an enemy to be a stranger, don't disturb each other's lives, for her good, but also for the current one.

    That's my answer to that question, I hope I can help you.

    Dear, how long has this been the case?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Question: My ex suddenly knew my current number one.

    But I didn't tell him.

    So are you still in touch with your ex?

    Now it's time to find out if your ex and your current one know each other, and if they know each other very well.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The attitude of life should be correct, and it should be divided thoroughly, and everything in the predecessor should be deleted, and the memory should be at the bottom of the rest. Don't leave anything to think about yourself, be responsible for yourself, be responsible for the present. Mind, explain it as soon as possible, so as not to be more sad in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If someone can do it without minding the way their boyfriend keeps his ex, it's really not loving him anymore. At the beginning of a new relationship, it should be broken clean to welcome the beginning of a new relationship. What we need is a boyfriend without spiritual betrayal!

    Keep the way of your ex! It means that he can't let go, and he may still be a stand-in for his ex-girlfriend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are willing to give up, you will have to give to you. The big giveth is big, the small giveth is small, and the reluctance is not giving. Those who can give up everything can get everything, and those who don't give up anything will not get anything.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If there is a new relationship, there is no need to contact the ex again to avoid misunderstandings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I was curious about who he would marry in the future, so I kept it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think two people should be more honest together, no matter in anything can express their own opinions and opinions, there are many things to be able to actively tell each other, but I think not everything should be said to the other party, not everything, when you say it, it will be better than you deliberately conceal it Maybe for this matter, everyone will have their own different opinions, so today I will share with you my personal views. <>

    First of all, I think that two people together should really have a heart-to-heart relationshipBut there are a lot of things, if you say it, that may not achieve the desired effectJust like my ex after contacting you, I don't think it's necessary to tell him, because for this matter, I think I have the ability, I can handle this matter, since we are over, then the ex will never be more important than my current space, and I will not take this matter to heart, as long as I make it clear to him, and there will not be too much connection in the future, even if it is just a friend, I don't think there is any need, I must let him know, if it is to be a friend, Then I can tell my current one, hoping to get his understanding, if the two people are complete strangers, then there is no need to tell my other half. <>

    Secondly, I believe that two people should have their own space even if they are together, and this private space refers to the ability to be able to accomplish something independently

    And I have a certain amount of space for myself, and I think I have the ability to do it in this matter, and I also have the ability to do it independently, so I don't think there is much need for him to know. <>

    Finally, there may be a lot of people who will be more mindful of these things, if your other half is indeed more mindful. I still suggest that you tell him so that you can avoid some unnecessary troubles and misunderstandings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I won't tell the current one about my ex contacting me, because I don't want the current one to worry, and I won't pay attention to the fact that the ex took the initiative to contact me, and since I have the current one, I won't do anything to worry him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, everyone has their own story in their hearts, some memories that cannot be erased in their hearts, so these things do not have to be said all, some things can be said, and some things really can't be said.

    If your ex takes the initiative to contact you, if it were me, I wouldn't tell the current one about this, and I will take care of it. I don't want to cast a cloud of contradictions and doubts over my current feelings. Don't want to hurt my incumbent.

    Although you feel that two people should be honest with each other. But there are some things that have been said, but it makes him think that you are not in the twilight? is not with him steadily, but more obviously, you still keep in touch with your ex, so he is still more suspicious of you, everyone is very selfish about feelings, he is absolutely unwilling to share his emotions with others, especially a very sensitive ex.

    Fate is like this, since you miss it, you have no fate. If the ex is good to you, there will be no current one, so we have to cherish the person in front of us. Cut off all contact with your ex, blacklist him, and then let him never find you again, so that the current one will not have some misunderstandings and suspicions, and will not disturb your peaceful life.

    It's good for everyone.

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