I usually talk to girls very openly, but today I don t know what s wrong, and suddenly I can t chat?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Sometimes it also depends on the mood, since you usually talk to him is very devoted, it means that you have a common language, the same personality, and have become good friends, maybe today you are uncomfortable or tired, so you don't want to chat at all, of course, it is also possible that you have some feelings with the girl herself, and today suddenly like the feeling of coming out, and I am a little embarrassed. Ask yourself if you like him in your heart, and if you like him, you can confess it. If you just want to be an ordinary friend, then chat normally, and it doesn't matter.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Since you usually talk well, it means that it is not your problem. Most of the time the girl's mentality has changed, and eighty percent of her is worried, absent-minded, and unhappy today.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It may have something to do with your mood today, because you are too sad and in a bad mood today, so you won't chat, it doesn't matter, you can chat if you adjust your mood.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You usually have a good time chatting with girls, but today I don't know what's wrong, and suddenly you can't talk anymore. It means that you are not in a very good mood today, so you can't find a topic to chat with.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Maybe I don't usually care, but I feel very happy when I talk to girls. But my hometown may be my mobile phone really like him, and the feeling of being a boyfriend and girlfriend is a little nervous about unity, resulting in not being able to chat, and the words that don't matter are the beginning of the performance.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Usually chatting with girls, and if you are happy to say it, it means that your mouth is sweet and your emotional intelligence is high, if you may not be in the right state today, or you have that kind of heart-warming feeling for him, but you can't talk.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Everyone will suffer from gains and losses in front of the person they like, some will be afraid of saying the wrong thing, some will be afraid of making him unhappy, in short, all kinds of things for the sake of each other, so they will feel nervous, and they will feel that they don't know how to speak.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You usually talk to girls on weekdays, that's the mood to let go, you chat with girls on weekdays, that's to let go of the mood is calm, you don't necessarily want to fall in love with these girls, you talk about this girl in love, you talk about this girl in love, it means that your heart is moved, this girl has a feeling, in your heart has secretly fallen in love with him, so today you have this feeling, so today you have this feeling, you can't lose it, don't come again, if you say you have this, if you say you have this feeling Then you have to work hard because he cares about him, helps him, has a good impression of you, and then you have achieved your goal.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Chatting with girls every day, it is normal to suddenly have no topic, and the sudden silence may be that there is no tacit understanding between two people, there is no topic of interest, slowly adjust, and find the feeling.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm glad to answer this question for you, and I see your description of this problem, my personal opinion, and the advice to you is like this, first of all, you describe that you usually chat with girls and chat very openly, and today I don't know what's wrong, and suddenly I can't chat, so first of all, you must have met this person who is different from other girls. So, you may be a little shy and embarrassed, but the more people you care about, the more you have to relax. The most usual state way and method can talk to him, no problem at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I used to be very good at chatting with other girls, because you didn't treat these girls as the girls you liked, and you won't talk to girls today, which means that you like this girl.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This situation shows that you are too nervous, or it is easy for you to pay special attention to the other person's feelings, and if you let yourself feel this way, you should adjust your mentality.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's because you've met the girl you crush and you don't know what to say to make her happy, so you feel like you can't talk anymore.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Today you are not in shape, tired, hurry up and recharge.

    Take a break and recharge your energy so that you can fight again.

    The way of civil and martial arts, one by one, the strings should not always be tightened, if they are too tight, they will break.

    You can read some books and learn some new knowledge when you are recharging and resting, so that your chat level will go up to the next level and reach a new level.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It may be that the occasion is different, or the crowd facing is different, and if it feels different, it will also be affected, and the topic must be consistent, if you can't chat, you can be casual, or maybe it will return to the original state another day.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's the call. Sometimes, the more you like it, the more you can't express it. If this happens to you, it's probably because you like the other person and you're overly nervous. Smiling and looking at the other person at this time may be a solution.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You usually talk to girls, and you can talk very well, but suddenly you don't know how to chat, and I think you should be attracted to this girl.

    There are often people who are usually very talkative and apply the skills of chatting freely, but often when they meet their beloved, they may have an inexplicable sense of distance at this time, but they want to get close and don't know how to chat, which should be considered a normal thing.

    So I think you should take the initiative to chat, put some of your worries aside, try to have it, and don't regret it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The character who usually chats with girls is definitely a good boy. Suddenly you can't talk anymore, and that's because you have people you care about.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You said that you usually talk to a girl, but today I don't know why, suddenly I don't know how to chat, that's when you say everything you say. It's a little annoying, he dislikes him, well, I don't know what to say, so I don't have anything to say. In the future, you can talk to other people, you can play by yourself, so that more and more people you draw, you can talk, and the test tube, um, so you don't know no, you shouldn't know what to say.

    Then you give it a try.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I usually have a lot of fun chatting with girls, but I don't know what's wrong today, so it proves that you usually chat with girls. I'm in a good mood and relaxed, so I'm very happy, and today is because you're in a bad mood.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Usually chatting with girls is very generous, that's because the original idea is very simple, just a simple chat, today suddenly can't chat, it must be a change in the girl's feelings, it may be that you unconsciously like the girl, afraid of saying the wrong thing and being rejected, so it will be very restrained, this is a normal performance.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you usually talk to girls very openly, but today you don't know what's going on, and suddenly you can't chat, I believe it's not that you can't talk, but this girl is different from other girls, so you don't know what to talk about. So, you should pay more attention to this girl.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Suddenly I won't talk about whether I have met a master, or I am not in the mood. Or the other party suddenly doesn't want to talk, since you don't want to talk, talk about the reason why you don't want to talk, if the other party can't talk about something temporarily, then just change the time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I usually talk to girls very well, but today I don't know what's going on, and suddenly I can't talk anymore. Ordinary chatting is treated with a normal mentality. Today.

    Touched by the beauties. It's your heartbeat, girl. You don't dare to talk and can't let go.

    Afraid of saying the wrong thing, the beauty gets angry. Chat normally and treat it with a normal mindset.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because your mood is relaxed, there is no distraction to talk to the girl very open, today your mood has changed, want to perform well to win the girl's favor, but the spirit is nervous and don't know where to start, so I won't chat, I hope you relax and go with the flow.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because you usually don't have any ideas when you chat with this girl, so the chat is very natural, and the chat can be let go, when you have an idea about the girl, or when you still have a love for it, you may not be able to let go, the chat is a little unnatural, and you can't even chat, and the identification is complete.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Usually chat with girls very openly, today suddenly will not chat, indicating that you have met the girl you like, because you care too much about her, you will be nervous, can not be as casual as before, so I will feel that I can't talk.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe sometimes my brain suddenly short-circuited, nothing else, it's not scolding, because I'm like this sometimes, (crying and laughing), and then I will observe how others chat, and then think back to how I used to chat with girls, and learn that I should know.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1.Boyfriends and girlfriends will be more cautious when they first start dating, and it is this kind of caution that will lead to a more awkward situation between the two parties, but they want to talk about something but don't know what to talk about, which may make the girl feel that they are not happy enough to get along.

    2.Take the initiative to find topics, boys can take the initiative to find some topics at this time, but it should be a relatively broad topic, because after the topic is too narrow, maybe girls will not be interested, or you don't know what kind of topics girls like. Of course, boys can also talk about things that happen to them or something interesting, which can not only set the mood but also keep the conversation going.

    3.You can ask about your girlfriend's hobbies, or you can talk about your own hobbies, of course, you have to remember it, don't have a perfunctory attitude to complete this date, but should happily accept some of the things mentioned in this chat with a sincere attitude. So as not to be overwhelmed when you need to give a gift in the future.

    4.You can talk about what you have done together, for example, you have just watched a movie, you can talk about the plot in the movie again, interesting places, touching places, etc., you can also talk about your feelings when you have just been to a place, which can not only relieve the embarrassment between each other, but also deepen the communication with each other.

    5.When talking, you are willing to observe whether your girlfriend is interested in these topics, if you are not interested, or even feel very boring, then you have to think about whether you should change the topic, pay attention to the words, sometimes the other party does not want to discuss the topic, but because of the elation you said, I am embarrassed to interrupt, but this kind of relationship will definitely not be very pleasant.

    6.Pay attention to the tone of speech at some times when chatting, as well as the content of the speech, don't talk to death, so that people don't know how, this is especially important, consider the girl's position, don't say something very hurtful.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It depends on whether you want to continue to find a topic, or give up, if you think it's not appropriate, you have nothing to say, then you can give up, you don't need to find a topic to talk about, if you feel good, you have a good impression of this girl, then find a topic, hobbies, everything to talk about, study and work, interesting things in daily life, you can talk about it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    1.Learn about the girl's hobbies and find what she likes and is interested in; 2.Lead the direction of chatting, learn to take the initiative to chat with girls; 3.Be humorous and make a joke with girls from time to time; 4.You can share your daily life with girls and share interesting things that happen around you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Seek some new topics, if the two of you want to talk about common topics, there is definitely no way, there are too many common topics, so you need to talk about some topics that you or the other person personally like, which will also help you understand each other better.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When boys and girls are chatting, when they feel that they are not interested in the topic and can't interject, or when they have no topic to talk to girls, they can listen to girls quietly and talk more, and they can be a guide.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You have to learn to take the initiative to find topics, such as taking her to drink tea, explaining the way to drink tea, or having interesting topics in ......the company, etc

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you don't have a topic, you can find a topic to talk about, you can start with the interests and hobbies of girls, you can also share your life with girls, and you can also share some interesting things you see.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I've been talking to a girl for two days and I'm not talking about it, what should I do? This is easy to do, you can ask her some questions at any time, and as soon as she answers you, this is the topic.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because everyone's social circle and lifestyle are very different nowadays, it is normal to say that there is no common topic, so to speak, some things that happen in life, or things that are encountered, can be done.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Boys and girls chat, feel that the topic is not interesting, do not enter, or have no topic to talk to girls, listen to girls quietly, talk more, and also be their own guide.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It may be that you don't like this girl, so you don't have anything to talk about.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Finding a topic to talk to about with girls is actually a very simple thing, and we can make use of the natural environment around us in moderation.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If a boy can't talk to a girl, it means that the boy is not interested in girls. In the final analysis, it is because this boy has no motivation to chat and needs to increase his motivation.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I used to chat with girls, and there were endless topics to talk about, which means that you have no problem communicating with girls at all, and you are also skillful. But now I don't know how to talk to girls, and in this case, it may be because I haven't met someone I like.

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