Do people live for others in this life?

Updated on society 2024-08-08
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Yes, it seems to make more sense if you take it broadly. Because of the giving, there will be a very warm return, this return is not necessarily a material thing, but a stable heart, because it will help others and be happy.

    There is a baby at home, and I think about cooking three meals a day for her every day to grow up with her, which is also a sweet day. It's not a big deal, a healthy and warm life will be very good.

    People have a certain responsibility in life, and the greater the ability, the higher the responsibility. That doesn't seem like a bad thing.

    If there is a day when you want to rest, you can also lie on the grass, look at the white clouds and blue sky, enjoy the beautiful scenery, and nourish your heart, it will also be a good day. <>

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Divide people, some people live freely, freely and spontaneously, without scruples. Some people really live for others all their lives, only afraid that the people around them are unhappy, but others have regrets, when they are young, they study hard to make their parents happy, when they are young, they work hard to make their lovers dignified, and when they are middle-aged, they do their best to let their parents spend their old age in peace, so that their children can grow up happily, and they are still worried about the future of their children when they are old. There are really such people who have given good things to their parents, wives, and children all their lives, and have not lived even a minute for themselves, as long as they open their eyes, they are for others, they are frugal and live like beggars, let their relatives eat the best, use the best, and live too humblely, until the moment when they close their eyes forever is considered liberation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    No, many times it is for others, in fact, it is for yourself, everyone has selfishness, just see what degree,

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In this life, people have always lived for themselves.

    From coming to this world to leaving this world, decades have passed in a hurry, and everyone will have too many regrets in their hearts. Throughout our lives, we always feel that we are living for others, but in fact everyone lives for themselves.

    Every compromise in your life is for a better life. I remember that after graduating from the college entrance examination, there was a huge difference between what I wanted to fill in and what my parents wanted me to fill in, and after a fierce quarrel, I chose to compromise and go to university according to my parents' wishes.

    When I reached the age of talking about marriage, I actually didn't want to get married at all, but life was really stressful, and there were too many people around me urging me. After thinking about it, I still chose to compromise and found a suitable person to enter into marriage.

    Every node in the process of life seems to be influenced by others. Step by step in my life, I seem to be living for others, but in fact this is not the case.

    Every compromise I make is just to escape the pressure of life, but to make my life more comfortable.

    People are always living for themselves, but we always want to make excuses for our failed lives. When I was young, I lived for my parents, and when I grew up, I lived for my children, and when I was old, I finally wanted to live for myself, and I was restricted by my children. This may be the life in many people's hearts, and in fact it seems to be true, but this is not the essence of life.

    The reason why some people think that we live for our parents when we are young is because our parents always educate us with their concept of life, and we are powerless to resist; The reason why some people think that we will live for our children when we grow up is because we have given up many dreams in life, chosen compromise and reality, and chose to work hard for our families.

    But if you think about it carefully, the parenting and education of our parents is actually the foundation for us to live a better life, and fighting for our children is just an excuse, we are still for our own life after all.

    This is actually a reality that many people don't want to admit, because most people can't talk about success in life, and we don't want to blame ourselves for failure.

    Everyone is living for themselves, and the success or failure of life depends on themselves.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I believe that people live for their families in this life. When we were young, we were carefree. When you become an adult, you have a family and children, and you will work hard for them.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    For yourself. Parents will grow old, lovers will leave, children will go away, any relationship will deteriorate, any relationship will have a purpose, any promise will not stand too many tests, time will dilute the relationship, and contradictions will crush the relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In this life, there is no illness in the body, no disasters in the family, and the writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke revealed that physical and mental health is a blessing.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Live for yourself, and all other people are precious people in your life, and because you are alive, you interact with them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It must be for ourselves, our own life is not for ourselves, but for whom. Life is our own, and the decision is also in us, how to choose how to live and how to survive.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The question is, are you content with this life of your own? Do you work hard all your life and are you willing? If it is contentment and willingness, then the meaning of your life is to achieve the result you want.

    Either way, you're content with what you've had, and that in itself means a lot. Because you have lived a life without regrets. On the contrary, you have been complaining about the work you have to do, because life is compelling, the work is barely supported, and you are unwilling, such a life is really meaningless.

    In fact, most of the time in a person's life is meaningless, but it must also be lived, for the sake of the family, for the children, in order to be able to realize their dreams, they continue to work and work hard, just to achieve a better life and dreams. In fact, the current social pressure is too great, the pressure of the house, the pressure of children, including the pressure of life, which has led to the tighter and more tired life between husband and wife. I think the life of the big eggplant should be happy, enjoy life, enjoy the joy of family, if too much pressure is too unsatisfactory, then this kind of life is difficult to persist for a long time, there will be a lot of troubles, a lot of pain, so most of the time is spent on work, but also to achieve a good life as soon as possible, young tired and nothing to do, old must be relaxed.

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