How a woman should be a familial

Every adult woman hopes that she can be a good wife, and the first condition for a good wife is to be a good housewife, and being a good housewife is both so difficult and so important. How can I be a good housewife? It is important to be clear about the following:

First, most women are idealists, often taking imagination as hope and reality. The family in the wife's mind is all rose-colored, and the husband in the wife's eyes is "Prince Charming"; In the eyes of a mother, her children should become dragons and phoenixes. Too much hope often leads to greater disappointment.

As a result, the hostess is always dissatisfied, always feeling that reality is not as good as imagined, and it is difficult for a woman in this state of mind to become a good housewife. Only by lowering expectations and being content can we be a good home.

Second, a woman must still be able to maintain herself after marriage, and must not become a victim of the family. If you don't have your own time interests, hobbies, entertainment, etc., except for your family, husband, and children, then it is very easy to feel lost and depressed if you have some slight dissatisfaction from your family. After marriage, a woman should keep one or two hobbies of her own, have an independent spiritual garden in her free time, and have a space for her own friends in real life.

A woman who has a happy marriage is not necessarily a very smart woman. But a woman who lives with a confused mentality will only be farther away from herself.

Girls want to be housewives because they want to make their families more harmonious and happy. Because, for a woman, what she wants in the end is a complete and harmonious family. Therefore, many women especially expect to be able to spend all their time taking care of their families.

There should be very few such girls at present, and women nowadays like to pursue independence more than to be housewives. If a girl is the kind of person who values the family, husbands and children, and has a strong traditional concept, she may have this will. Personally, I think that although housewives do not go out to work, they are very tired to keep a family, and they are also worthy of respect.

I think that's a normal thought.

Everyone's pursuits are different, and the life they want to live is different. So some girls like to live a working life, and what they pursue is economic independence and freedom. There are girls who just want to cook, take care of the children, and want to take better care of their families, which is nothing to blame.

So it's totally a reasonable choice, and I think it's normal.

I think it's very good, respect her choice, in today's society where men and women are equal, whether girls put their minds on the family or choose to work hard outside, there is no problem at all.

I think it's a great blessing to be a housewife, and to be able to feel the joy of living a simple life.

Everyone has their own choice, whether they are housewives or continue to work, what exists is reasonable.

For girls who are not yet married, I just want to say to you: think carefully and think twice before making any decision. It is not an easy task to become a qualified housewife, and a stay-at-home wife may mean a disconnection from society, and if you regret it later, it will be a little difficult to return to the workplace.

I think that girls who want to be housewives may have great longing for the family, hoping that they can play the responsibility of a good housewife, cook food for the man they love, give him warmth, and let him see the warm scene when he comes home, I think such a girl must be an extremely gentle person.

As a man, of course, I hope that every time I come home from work, my wife can clean the house and eat with me, so that I can feel the warmth of home. And a wife doesn't have to be a housewife with a particularly high salary, in fact, she can satisfy the well-off of the family. After all, I prefer a plain and warm life to a successful career.

Isn't it a bit unambitious to be a man, hahaha. Personal opinion.

A person's pursuit, don't think that girls become housewives without interest or anything, you must know that it is also difficult to be a housewife, well, not everyone wants to go outside to break out of their own world, some people will feel that a stable life is very good, and they will be satisfied with living a good life.