How to solve a money problem between college dorm roommates?

It's better to have money problems in the dorm, even though you have a good relationship.

As the saying goes, brothers still settle accounts, not to mention that you are still college roommates. To put it bluntly, college roommates are forced by the school to assign classmates in the same dormitory as you, not like junior high school and high school, friends are your like-minded choice. There's no need to use money to please your roommates, because they're not yet ready to share with you.

In fact, this also depends on the person. What about the majority of people in a dormitory, what will be the atmosphere of the dormitory, if your roommates are concerned with you about money, you will also be concerned with them, if they don't care about money with you, you will naturally look down on money. These are based on the specific situation of the dormitory, and there is no specific standard for whether to care or not.

Also, after all, money is earned by parents who are fortunate to have earned it, every penny contains their sweat, and it is not easy for every parent to send their children to college, their own life is very poor, of course, you should not look at it very lightly. Although there are not many pieces of one or two, you should at least feel distressed when you spend or don't care.

There is also an advantage to being clear that there will be no problems caused by money in the future, which will reduce a lot of contradictions in your future life, so that some people will not quarrel in the future and turn over the previous accounts, saying how many economic entanglements about money there are between you.

If you have a good relationship, you don't need to worry too much, because your friendship is bigger than the sky, and you must get much more from them than you give.

If your financial conditions are not very tight, you don't have to worry too much, but you have to be aware of it, and those who don't count the money in your heart often seem stupid.

In short, let's analyze the specific situation on a case-by-case basis.

Some small money, just two pieces of money, I'm embarrassed to ask for it, but if it's more, I think I should get it back. Because after all, we are spending our parents' money now, and no matter what the family's economic conditions are, the money is not caught by the wind, right?

We can't take our parents' money to discuss righteousness and generosity, because we don't have the capital yet. Roommates should also be conscious, just take the initiative to repay the money owed to others, there is no need to end up making trouble because of a little thing.

For example, I usually ask others to help bring food, and then I come back and give the money to others. This is not more money and less money, <>

The question of whether people have money or not, but whether you have quality and education. If you don't take the initiative to give people money, it's not a small amount after a long time, and if you have a character problem, it is estimated that no one will help you bring food in the future.

It is also possible to forget, so I can remind you. This is really nothing, don't keep it in your heart because of this, and then make the relationship between your roommates no longer get along.

Our dormitory is like this, whoever owes money to whom, forgets it, reminds it and then gives it, nothing. I'm a college student, so it's probably rare for someone to deliberately not pay it back. There is also the cost of going out, we are all AA system, one person pays first, and then goes back to the dormitory and calculates it evenly.

Brothers also have to settle accounts clearly, and it is better to calculate clearly than to calculate clearly. A good relationship does not mean that you don't want money or have a good relationship, if your roommate has something worth celebrating, take the initiative to invite everyone to dinner, which is another story. However, the cost of being together should still be borne together.

The most painful thing about living in a dormitory is meeting people who don't agree with you. Of course, we should also be calm and not be too demanding of our roommates, as long as some of his practices do not affect us, we can be considered good roommates. Most of the troubles of adults come from always wanting to change others, always wanting others to be the same as their own thoughts, which is completely unnecessary and should not be, everyone is different, it is very difficult to change, and it is not necessary, because your ideas are not necessarily right, everyone's life experience and family conditions are different.

What you think is right may be wrong in his world, and what he thinks is right may be a little ridiculous in your return, which is normal, not that you are right or right, but different, and the most common thing in this world is difference and difference. It's not scary not to hurt, don't keep thinking about it.

1. Treat each other sincerely.

Entering a new environment is not only nervous and hesitant inside, but also the other roommates. Someone of us has to take the first step to get to know each other, and we should try to adapt to this roommate relationship, regardless of whether we are more cheerful or slower.

The roommate is likely to be the one we will be with for the next few years, so it is extremely important to exchange sincerity for sincerity. For example, if a roommate's hair dryer is broken, we can take the initiative to lend our own hair dryer to our roommate. My roommate forgot to bring her a meal card, so we lent her a meal. Although these are small things, they are a bridge to bring roommates closer.

2. Don't always try to take advantage of others.

Getting along with roommates, just like getting along with friends, can't always let others pay, and you definitely need to take some action. For example, others always share what they buy with you, but you always like to eat secretly and refuse to share it with others. Once such behavior is recognized, the relationship will break down as quickly as possible.

When you get along with your roommates in college, you must know how to understand each other, respect each other, be able to tolerate each other, when you encounter conflicts, take a step back and open the sky, don't quarrel because of some trivial things, hurt the harmony between roommates, and when you encounter conflicts, you must first calm down, don't quarrel and reflect on your mistakes, and apologize to each other in time.

If you want to solve these contradictions, you must first find out the main reasons for the occurrence of these contradictions, and then apologize to the other party; Mr. Wu, hello, the relationship between us and our roommates, first of all, in ordinary life, we should communicate more with each other, take care of each other, and take care of each other's emotions, which is more conducive to emotional harmony.

When there is a conflict in the dormitory, it is necessary to solve it in a timely manner, and communicate more with roommates, and when getting along with roommates in the dormitory, it is necessary to be particularly peaceful, and to communicate and exchange with both sides, and consider problems from the perspective of the other party, so that you can also have a better relationship with your roommates.