How to control children playing with mobile phones to play with mobile phones by mistake, donate 1 7

There are many ways to control your child's play with the phone, and I think there are several ways to do so.

One is not to buy a mobile phone for your child. Today's children basically have their own mobile phones, and most of their mobile phones are used for entertainment, such as watching movies, playing games, etc., and few of them are used for learning. It is not necessarily the child's fault that children love to play with their mobile phones, because children are always curious about new things, and they cannot control their hands.

Therefore, parents are also responsible, parents should not feel that their children should also have their own mobile phones because other children have their own mobile phones, otherwise they will make their children unsociable and so on. There is no basis for such an idea, and parents should not love their children spoiling, but should be rational love.

Second, parents should control their mobile phones. The reason why children like to play with mobile phones is that parents like to give their mobile phones to their children to play with. For example, if a parent wants to play cards or watch TV, he will give his mobile phone to his child to play with if he thinks his child is noisy, and let the child sit there obediently.

The parent's purpose is achieved, but it will have a bad effect on the child. Parents should not only blame their children for their children's love of playing with mobile phones, but also parents themselves have problems. Parents hold a mobile phone all day long, it will have a subtle impact on the child, parents play with mobile phones, why can't I play.

Therefore, parents should take care of their own hands, play less with mobile phones, spend more time with their children, and set a good example for their children.

The third is to set up a student mode on mobile phones. Student mode is a mode set up by mobile phone developers for children, parents can turn on this mode, and then give the mobile phone to the child, then the child can no longer operate at will on the mobile phone, such as browsing unhealthy **, playing games, etc., unlocking these requires the parent's password. It can make parents feel more at ease with their children.

First of all, it is to educate them, tell them what is right and what is wrong, when to play, how to play, and not to indulge in ignorance.

Then, it is to set the time for how long you can play in a day, and tell the child that if you want to continue playing, you must abide by this time agreement, so that you can play when you should play, and when you shouldn't play, you won't play.

The next thing is to tell children what to pay attention to when playing with mobile phones, those can't be clicked, and those will be harmful after clicking, but I think the best way is to set those software with passwords that are the safest, only you and your lover know. <>

Usually, you have to be more reasonable, tell them the dangers of always playing with mobile phones, and sit down with them patiently to talk maybe there will be more discoveries, will understand their hearts better, you have to tell them, if you are disobedient or continue to play with mobile phones, you will become myopia, how ugly it is to wear glasses.

In the end, I think that the most important thing for parents to be a good example for their children is to say that parents are children's teachers, and only when parents do it, children can do it, so please don't always play with mobile phones.

1. Causes

Since noon yesterday, a large number of reports have appeared on the Internet about "children playing with mobile phones and mistakenly donating 10,000 yuan: mistaken donations will not be returned", causing some confusion and trouble to the public. The China Poverty Alleviation Association attaches great importance to this matter, urgently investigates and verifies, and now announces the results and process to the public.

2. Verification results

Ten thousand yuan has long been returned, and the details are like this:

The refund of 10,000 yuan was completed at 11:59:13 on June 2, and it was returned to Mr. Liu's account in the original way, and was confirmed by Mr. Liu in the background at 14:13.

3. The details of the matter

Let's sort out the whole thing in chronological order.

On May 4th, the customer service staff of the China Poverty Alleviation Association received a call from Mr. Liu in Jiangsu, saying that a child had mistakenly donated 10,000 yuan to the association when he used his mobile phone to play online, hoping to get a refund. According to Mr. Liu, this is a mistaken donation and abnormal payment, and the staff of the association will inform Mr. Liu of the refund process and the required supporting materials;

In order to maintain the irrevocable seriousness of the donation and the attitude of being responsible for the donation, we will have a certain identification procedure for the refund of donations, which requires the submission of corresponding supporting materials and the review of relevant departments.

On the afternoon of May 4].

The staff received the refund application, screenshots of the donation and identification materials provided by Mr. Liu;

May 5-15].

The staff of the association verified with the project implementer, the donation platform, and the payment platform respectively, and launched the internal refund process on May 15;

May 17-19].

When the Internet donation staff reviewed the refund materials, they found that there were suspicious points. The main reason is that there is no proof of abnormal payment as Mr. Liu said and sufficient materials to prove that it was an 8-year-old child's mistakenly donation. Subsequently, the customer service staff communicated with Mr. Liu and hoped that he could supplement the supporting materials;

May 19-31].

Mr. Liu repeatedly contacted the staff of the association to ask for a refund, but failed to add new supporting materials;

On June 1st, the person in charge of Internet donation took the initiative to contact Mr. Liu and explained the refund requirements and process in detail again. Mr. Liu then submitted new supporting materials. In view of Mr. Liu's new materials and my detailed description of the incident, the person in charge of the Internet donation of our association passed the refund process;

June 2] I will return 10,000 yuan to Mr. Liu and get Mr. Liu's confirmation.

Fourth, the process and principle of returning unintentional donations

This mistaken donation caused by the child's misoperation is not an isolated case, but a situation that will be encountered in online donations. In the past two months, the association has processed 4 donation refunds, of which 2 are accidental donations caused by system abnormalities, 1 is a mistaken donation by a mentally ill person, and 1 is a mistaken donation after the account password is stolen. The above three types of refund applications were refunded after the donor provided a certificate of system abnormality, a psychiatric evaluation certificate, and a certificate of public security case filing.

When dealing with this kind of work, we adhere to two principles: first, if we can confirm that it is a mistakenly donation, we will generally process a refund; Second, it should be handled in accordance with the existing procedures to prove that the donation was made by mistake, so as to maintain the irrevocable seriousness of the donation.

Remind us to spend more time with our children.

The reason why bear children are bear children is because of improper parental education. Watching "Where Are You Going, Dad", I have a feeling, that is, how can the children of celebrity families be educated so sensibly? Whether they are three, four, five or six, their children's speaking and expression skills are much better than ordinary children.

The reason may be that they pay attention to education, and they have the conditions to create the conditions to educate children well.

I remember once taking the high-speed rail, and the high-speed train still adopted a seating mode like a train, that is, two rows of seats facing each other, with a small table in the middle. Sitting opposite me, there were two bear children, jumping around there, and the parents were eating melon seeds and playing with their mobile phones. When the flight attendant passed by, the parents symbolically said two words, and when the flight attendant left, they let the bear child affect the passengers.

Parents spend all their time playing with their mobile phones, and their children are naturally getting wilder and wilder without anyone to teach them well.

As a parent, we should put our children first and give them a little more company. When you have free time, you should play more games and read some books with them, instead of giving them a mobile phone to play, and then adults also hold the mobile phone to play. Children who lack companionship don't know what to do and what not to do.

If you don't have a good education when you're young, how do you know that there won't be other problems when you're older?

Please spend more time with your children, this is something we should and can do.

It is necessary to pay attention to children playing with mobile phones, and do not let them fiddle with mobile phones at will, otherwise not only will they have financial losses, but also a child who is addicted to mobile phone networks.

Although mobile phones have brought a lot of convenience to our lives, they have also brought a lot of troubles, such as telecom fraud, mobile games and other bad behaviors, among which mobile phones are being occupied and fascinated by more and more children. And children's obsession with mobile phones has reached the level of addiction, and some children will use mobile phones to do some bad things. My neighbor's kid was addicted to playing games with his father's mobile phone, so he used the money from the bank card linked to his mobile phone to buy a lot of gaming equipment.

Because he deleted the reminder text message sent by the bank, his parents found out that it had cost about 20,000 yuan, you may think that 20,000 yuan is not much, but it is a lot of money for his family at the time when they need money.

It's because the family uses money for medical treatment that they find out that there is less money, otherwise it will be all spent, and the family doesn't know. His parents regretted it a lot, saying that they shouldn't give him a mobile phone to play, hit him, he is not in good health, and it is unrealistic for you to ask someone else's game company to come back, because you are buying something, so the family didn't treat him well, but the mobile phone will not play with him anymore, and the bank card will be unbound.

Nowadays, in order to let children play quietly, some adults have the opportunity to give their mobile phones to their children to watch movies, play games, watch anime, etc., and slowly the child will become addicted to the mobile phone, and you can't play with him if you don't play with it. For the sake of their own purity, parents will compromise with their children. If the child is obedient, it is okay as long as you don't let the things you play with never touch, but some curious children, or some bear children, will play and forget themselves.

Because it is not uncommon to spend money in the parents' bank card to play games, and some even threaten their parents to die if they don't give them a mobile phone. Therefore, it is very necessary to pay attention to children's mobile phones.