Why is it that in love, everyone is tempting and weighing the pros and cons?

Updated on society 2024-08-05
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Because in a relationship, there will always be things that hurt each other, and nothing can be reasonably resolved, so everyone will test each other at the beginning.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Because this will not hurt yourself or the other party, it is good for both parties, and you can try to be together slowly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Because everyone doesn't really love each other, they all think about their own interests.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Weighing the pros and cons of love means to observe whether the other party is suitable for you, whether you can meet your requirements for your partner, and repeatedly weigh the pros and cons before deciding whether to love. Some people think that this kind of "love that weighs the pros and cons" is not love at all.

    Weigh the pros and cons to make a sentence:

    1. No matter how beautiful things are, there are always shadows, and it is very important to weigh the pros and cons correctly. We can't face everything with a calm mind, but what we can control is how we should face it when we are calm.

    2. Do things with prioritization and priority, weigh the pros and cons, and don't do the kind of stupid things that shake hands and make peace, kill chickens and take eggs.

    3. Before making a decision, I have to weigh the pros and cons.

    4. Love at first sight, it is obviously a desire to see the color, and it is just a matter of weighing the pros and cons.

    5. For the coking cycle of the furnace tube, it should be determined based on the principle of economy and scientifically weighing the pros and cons.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Weighing the pros and cons means that when doing something, you should take into account all factors, and weigh whether it is beneficial or disadvantageous to you from all angles, and then decide whether to do it! The trade-off in love refers to the fact that in love, it is necessary to consider the family, work, education and other factors of both parties, and weigh whether these factors are helpful to your love! If these conditions are good for you, do it, otherwise, don't do it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello. Weighing the pros and cons, the Chinese idiom, pinyin is quán héng lì bì, compare which one is beneficial and which one is harmful. From "Strategies for the Work of Guizhou New Area".

    Idiom explanation: right: called 砣. Scale: Weigh the rod. Trade-offs: compare, measure. Pros: Benefits.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Weighing the pros and cons is to make yourself think about various reasons, whether it is necessary for two people to be together.

    A love that is going to the end is to balance the benefits of the person and the disadvantages of oneself.

    When many loves are not together, they will also consider whether they can meet each other's requirements, and repeatedly weigh the pros and cons before deciding whether to love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Weighing the pros and cons of love means that love has nothing to do with the pros and cons, but marriage is related to the pros and cons, after all, marriage is a contract, and interests are long-lasting. Love is a feeling, there is that sense of joy, and a sense of lovesickness is love, but unfortunately love or this feeling may not last long, it depends on the continuous efforts of both parties.

    Weighing the pros and cons of love means that love has nothing to do with the pros and cons, but marriage is related to the pros and cons, after all, marriage is a contract, and interests are long-lasting. Love is a feeling, there is that sense of joy, and a sense of lovesickness is love, but unfortunately love or this feeling may not last long, it depends on the continuous efforts of both parties.

    Weighing the pros and cons in love means observing whether the other party is suitable for you, whether you can meet your requirements for your partner, and repeatedly weighing the pros and cons before deciding whether to love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, weighing the pros and cons means that before doing something, all aspects of the matter will be weighed before making a decision, and this decision may be right or wrong, so this is the meaning of weighing the pros and cons.

    Love is a very wonderful thing, when you like someone, you will do everything for her, whether these things are good or bad, all for her, this is the greatness of love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As a middle-aged person, my view of love is: when you are young, you will be desperate for love, but when you get older, you will definitely weigh the pros and cons.

    This is because when I was young, I always thought that love was better than everything, but when I got older, I knew that the main content of marriage was nothing more than firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, how could there be so much romance and love, and the most important thing in the end was family affection.

    It can also be said that love eventually becomes family affection. It's not about beauty or ugliness, what matters is whether two people can get along.

    There's an old Chinese saying that "the right person is right", and when you're young, you scoff at it, but in reality, it's really, very, very true.

    For example, a poor man and a rich man get married, which is very much like a fairy tale. But what will happen in reality, most of the time the poor are looked down upon by the rich. If you don't believe it, you can see what happens to many, many celebrities after marrying into wealthy families, some of them are facts, you can see for yourself.

    And the gap between celebrities and giants is not too big. If it is replaced by the poor and the rich, the gap is definitely greater than theirs, and the consequences can be imagined.

    For another example, the difference in cultural level is too large, which will lead to a great discomfort in the outlook on life and values after getting along for a long time after marriage, and after a long time, it will also become the fuse of the disagreement between the two. Can a graduate of a prestigious university and a junior high school or high school graduate have a common language?

    There is another problem, many people think that what their parents say is wrong, in fact, their parents use their own experience to tell you that this love is not good, whether you can get married, the future of love is marriage, and the quality of marriage does not depend on love.

    Fortunately, most of today's young people have their own ideas and judgments, and will carefully consider the issue of marriage.

    Of course, some special situations are not uncommon, such as some choose marriage for money, some marry for power, some are considered successful, and some lose miserably.

    My point of view is that you can give up some things for love, but remember that the gap between the two parties cannot be too big, otherwise you will hurt yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I am a more emotional person, and when I meet someone I like, I will give my feelings unreservedly. Therefore, I don't think too much about my feelings in love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, I will think about the future of the two people, I don't want to talk about a relationship that breaks up after love. I'll weigh the pros and cons, and if he's not worth my care, I'll probably choose to let it go in advance.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In my love, I don't weigh the pros and cons, if I like someone, I will love her with all my heart, and I won't affect my feelings because of material or other things.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In my love, of course, I will weigh the pros and cons, because when I encounter things, I think carefully and be able to treat each other sincerely, which will make love more complete.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, weighing the pros and cons is not only in love, but also in other aspects. There will also be moments of trade-offs in love. Sometimes there are problems. Be sure to consider the importance of the matter, which is light and which is heavy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, if you encounter two things that you can't choose in love, and you have to choose one of them, then I will weigh the pros and cons and give up the one that has a small impact for the time being.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If I love him very much, then I probably won't weigh the pros and cons, after all, love is impulsive, and I like him very much, then I'm not so rational and I won't think about the pros and cons.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, in fact, pure love is to love desperately and move forward. But when it comes to marriage, love still needs to weigh the pros and cons.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I would choose to weigh the pros and cons, as there is hardly any particularly pure love these days, so weighing the pros and cons is a good option.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In my love, I don't weigh the pros and cons because I'm a very impulsive person.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Weighing the pros and cons of love means to observe whether the other party is suitable for you, whether you can meet your requirements for your partner, and repeatedly weigh the pros and cons before deciding whether to love. Some people think that this kind of "love that weighs the pros and cons" is not love at all.

    Love is when two people tolerate each other, have the same three views, understand each other, and have common hobbies coming together. True love relies more on a feeling, and it is two people who are in agreement. In layman's terms, it means that two people look at each other, and now if your love is obtained after weighing the pros and cons, then this violates the most basic principle of love - feeling, I think that real love should not be so calculating, not accounting for the gains and losses, it is like from the heart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Answer hello, love is two people who tolerate each other, have the same three views, understand each other, and have common hobbies.

    Generally speaking, two people agree on the same thing, and now you say that the love between you, after weighing the pros and cons, violates the most basic principle of love - the feeling, I think true love should not be calculated like this, it doesn't care about gains and losses, it is love from the heart.

    True love is for you, afraid of the cold in winter, afraid of heat in summer, mosquitoes, afraid that you sleep well, sleep, tired, worry about your body, just like the Wang Han language, Yang Lele, their declaration of love is Wang Hanhan's place, Yang has Yang Lele, and Lele's place has Wang Han happy. Listening to this declaration of love, how sweet it is, not a calculation, but a feeling.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Weighing the pros and cons, the Chinese idiom, pinyin is quán héng lì bì, compare which one is beneficial and which one is harmful. From "Strategies for the Work of Guizhou New Area".

    Idiom explanation: right: called 砣.

    Scale: Weigh the rod. Trade-offs: compare, measure.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The answer means that you should rationally analyze from various angles, such as family background, financial strength, degree of affection, and weigh the benefits or disadvantages of being with him, or being in this relationship.

    In fact, in a relationship, emotional people can't weigh the pros and cons, if you are a rational person, or even in love can talk rationally, then it's another matter, but this is sometimes very tiring, and feelings will become a commodity, not pure. Although most people in modern society are like this, but when you meet the one who really loves you and has a good quality, your rationality, your trade-off is still slightly lower, look at the long term, do not look at the present, I wish you love like a fish in water, smooth and smooth.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In my love, I will weigh the pros and cons of ideas, because there is no need to force feelings at all, only if both parties like each other very much, then they can really be together, so I think I will weigh the pros and cons of ideas.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I also weigh the pros and cons, because everyone can be selfish, so they want to be nice to themselves, and then they definitely need to weigh the pros and cons before making inferences.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course I would have thought so. Because only such an idea can make the relationship more balanced, and will make the relationship between two people more harmonious.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, I will always weigh the idea of weighing the pros and cons, because in love, many things must be fair, and the other person must not feel wronged in his heart, so weigh them.

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