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Generally this situation means that he does not want to disclose your relationship, either there is something unspeakable, or there is something unsavory to hide from you, and a normal relationship should be supported and blessed by everyone, so I think it is still necessary for you to talk to him properly.
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There are two possibilities, one is that you are too beautiful and afraid that his friends will make you bad. The second is that he has a lot of things that his friends know, and he doesn't want you to know.
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It should be that you don't want to be open about your relationship, or maybe you don't think you're beautiful enough, you're afraid of losing face, or you're just a spare tire, waiting for something better.
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You may not trust your relationship, you may not feel the need to know his friends for a long time, you may feel that it is not time yet.
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Maybe everyone thinks differently, or your boyfriend doesn't feel that close to that point, and may be reluctant to let you into his circle and share everything about him.
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Only your so-called boyfriend knows why, what do you like about him? How slow is he to you? He doesn't care about you?
You are obviously a princess in your family, how can you change your personality for the sake of a man? You have almost no friends in common, what do you think that means? He doesn't want anyone to know about your existence, so think about your relationship.
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He doesn't love you, come to experience.
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She didn't really treat you as his girlfriend, she just hung up, just playing, didn't pay attention to you, or broke up!
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Why doesn't he take you to see his relatives and friends?
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has been dating her boyfriend for half a year, but he has never taken him to see his friends and family, this is because the other party does not fully trust him, does not want to integrate himself into his circle, and does not attach great importance to this relationship.
The boyfriend has been dating him for half a year and has not thought about introducing himself to his friends and family, which means that the other party has never thought about having a future with him, and his future does not have his own joining. For such a person, he will not take himself to meet his friends and family without complete certainty, and for him he will not be recognized, and he will not have a suitable identity to meet them.
If the boyfriend really attaches importance to this relationship, he will not have such a practice, and at first it is understandable that the other party does not take him to meet his friends and family, because the relationship between the two people is not very stable at the beginning, but half a year is enough to prove the sincerity of the two people. The girl is insecure, and after half a year of love, the other party still does not let him participate in his circle, which can only show that he does not take his feelings seriously and does not pay attention to himself before he treats himself like this.
I believe that many people are eager to tell the world after falling in love, and accept each other to their friends and family, and the boyfriend's behavior shows that he has a hand in his feelings, and he does not regard himself as the final belonging. Such a boyfriend is often just having fun, and doesn't take himself seriously, just enjoys his time with him, and doesn't give himself any guarantees.
When the boyfriend has not brought himself to see his friend for half a year, the family member shows that the other party does not attach importance to the relationship at all, and he does not have himself to act like this. If he truly loves himself, he will not only enjoy the life of two people, but hope to get any blessings from the people around him, he must have a big problem.
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In the process of interacting with a man, if he truly approves of you, he will be eager to take you to meet family and friends. It may be that he has not fully recognized you yet.
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Maybe it's because he doesn't want to marry you so early, or because he hasn't approved of you in his heart, so he doesn't want to introduce you to his relatives.
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This is because he has not yet recognized you, and he has not yet recognized you as a true partner.
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Personally, I don't think he doesn't like your performance, maybe he doesn't think he will take you to meet your parents when the time comes; I think you should communicate with him well, and then the two of you should be okay and calm, talk about this matter, understand his inner thoughts, and then think about whether to meet his parents.
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The friend who doesn't take you to see him doesn't necessarily dislike you, it's possible that he didn't take you there because he wasn't ready. And whether he likes you or not depends not on whether he will take you to meet his friends.
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It is indeed a possibility. Because if the average guy likes you, he wants everyone in the world to know that you are his girlfriend. It's not going to hide you like it is now.
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It may be that you don't like your performance, but it may also be that you don't want to share it with others and are very possessive. So you should talk to your boyfriend. Find the reason.
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A year is not a long time, it is not a short time, it stands to reason that you should have met with friends and parents a few times in such a situation, but you still haven't met, which really makes you feel very embarrassed. So for such a situation, we can directly ask our boyfriend to meet; You can also knock on the side and let him know that I want to meet someone's friends; Of course, we can also start with his friend and surprise him. Anyway, since it's been a year, you should let his friends know about you, of course, it feels like the road needs to be paid by both parties, so don't care about anything else, we just have tried.
1. Ask your boyfriend to meet directly
Of course, you should choose a suitable time and a suitable reason for your boyfriend to agree. Of course, we also need to understand why he hasn't let me see his friends for a year, and if we find the reason, we can better convince my boyfriend. Of course, most boyfriends will arrange these things on the agenda if they have the heart.
2. You can also knock on the side and let him know that I want to see his friends
If it is directly difficult, we can take a roundabout approach, which is to knock on the side. After all, men are more face-loving, and we can break through through guidance or some side attacks. After all, it's been a year, and your boyfriend may have his own reasons for not letting you see your friends.
It is still very necessary to give him some face.
3. You can start with his friend and surprise him at the right time
This may be relatively difficult to do, after all, he is reluctant to let me meet his friends may have his thoughts, and it may not be appropriate for us to be anti-customer-oriented. But if you don't see it all the time, it's very embarrassing. We can start with his best friend, get his thoughts, and then open gaps from there.
But also take into account his feelings, only in this way can we grasp love.
On the road of love, both men and women should work hard, and don't think it's a man's business. Only when we are proactive, can love be in our hands, and only in this way can we better maintain our feelings.
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You should become gentle and considerate in your daily life, and you should also understand each other more, and only after you have this awareness will the other party be willing to bring you to meet your friends.
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You should talk to your boyfriend and make your stand and tell him that you don't mind it. This solves the problem.
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What do you want to see his friends for? If he doesn't take you to see your family, it's only true that you should think about where your relationship is going.
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You should take the initiative to talk about it with your boyfriend, and you can also talk about the future, so that your boyfriend will have this awareness.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year, but he never takes himself to see friends and family. This is because the other party does not fully trust himself, is unwilling to integrate himself into his circle, and does not attach much importance to the relationship. The boyfriend has not thought about introducing himself to his friends and family for half a year, which means that the other party has never wanted to have a future with him, and his future has not joined by himself.
For such a person, without full certainty, he will not take himself to see friends and family. For him, he was not recognized and did not have the right status to meet them.
If the boyfriend really valued the relationship, there would be no such practice. At first, it can be understood that the other party does not take himself to meet friends and family, because the two people are not very stable at first, but half a year is enough to prove their sincerity. Girls don't feel safe.
After being in love for half a year, the other party still does not allow him to participate in his circle, which can only show that he does not take his feelings seriously and does not pay attention to himself.
Although the two of you have been in love for a long time, if you don't get along well in the process, there will often be some small conflicts and quarrels between you, or a man, after getting to know you better, feels that you are different from what he thought before, and it seems that you are not his ideal partner. At this time, it is easy for men to have an attitude towards us. He can't make up his mind to spend his life with us, so he needs a lot of time to think about the relationship between the two of them.
During this time, of course, he would not take us to meet friends. If so, what we have to do is to reflect on the past between two people, identify the core issues and contradictions in their relationship, and give them changes and promotions. If we can make a real difference, it will be easy to break the current impasse.
In fact, there are many reasons why your boyfriend doesn't take you into his circle, but whatever these reasons are, this phenomenon has shown that there is a big problem in the relationship between the two of you. If it is not dealt with in a timely manner, it is likely to become irretrievable eventually.
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It could be that your boyfriend doesn't approve of you, or it may be that your boyfriend doesn't particularly like you and your boyfriend feels like it's not time to meet his friends yet.
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This is most likely because he is more introverted and is afraid that you will not associate with his friends after you see him, and he is afraid of losing you, so he does not take you to call his friends.
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Maybe he's not sure if you'll be able to accompany him to the end, this person may not love you enough, and he's a little skeptical about you.
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It may be that they don't like your performance, or they may feel that the time is not ripe. In real life, many people will have some confusion, men don't understand what women are thinking, and women can't guess whether they love themselves or not. While we know a lot of truth, these principles seem useless when we actually face it.
Many boys never express their love in the circle of friends, girls always don't understand the problem, sometimes they think it's a sign that the other partner doesn't love you, but the boyfriend is still nice to himself, so if he doesn't show love, he won't show it. Some boys never take girls to meet their friends, which makes it difficult for girls to understand.
We all know that when a boy likes a girl, he is very happy and he wants to declare to the world that she is his other half, it is a declaration of pride and territory. If a boy doesn't take you to meet his friends, your heart will be a little bottomless. As a boy, if his girlfriend is ugly and fat, to be honest, I won't let more people know about it and don't even want to go out with her.
It's not love, even if there is love, sometimes boys care more about their faces, it's not that I don't love her, it's that I'll be good to her.
If girls know that boys think so, they must feel uncomfortable. They will feel that the boy does not love her. Therefore, they will consider whether or not to break up.
If you're not ugly, he still doesn't want to take you to meet his friends. Maybe he really doesn't love you, and you can consider breaking up. If you really don't look good, or you don't think you deserve him, he won't take you to see your friends.
In this case, you should consider breaking up because it will break up sooner or later.
There is a more serious situation where the two of you are walking on the road and meet acquaintances. His first instinct is to let go of your hand and deliberately pretend not to know you. In this case, you have to break up.
He was definitely not shy, but guilty. He may be close to the other girls. He was worried that acquaintances would not be easy to know, maybe I just felt that you were not worthy of him and lost his face, no matter what, I don't love you, I want to break up.
In reality, if a boy doesn't take you to meet his friends, you have to think about it.
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Everyone has their own private space, and it's not that your boyfriend doesn't take you to meet his friends, it's not that he doesn't care about you. It's just possible that he feels like this is his own private life and doesn't want to let others interfere too much. After all, you are dealing with the lives of the two of you, and it is best for us not to interfere too much in each other's private lives, so that the relationship can be lasting and healthy.
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It's true that I don't like your performance and don't want to be responsible for you.
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Personally, I think that if your boyfriend is not willing to take you to meet his friends, then it means that he does not particularly like you.
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If you've been with your boyfriend for two years and he never takes you to see his friends, then the answer is obvious, you may not be his only girlfriend!
No matter what lame reason he doesn't give you to meet his friends, doesn't post photos of you in Moments, and doesn't declare that he is not single, it can only mean one thing, you are not his ideal girlfriend. In addition to you, he may have a second, third, or even more girlfriend in existence. The reason why I haven't broken up with you yet is because I haven't gotten tired of it.
When you say you want to marry him or meet your parents, then you may have to face the outcome of a breakup.
If you really love someone, you can't hide this feeling, he will treat you as a treasure, he will share you with everyone, put his unique mark on you, and declare his territorial sovereignty. Everyone who is caught in love is possessive, and if you don't feel this possessiveness in him, it only means that he doesn't love you enough. A girl's youth is the most beautiful, There are a lot of beautiful things waiting for you to discover and complete, why bother to love this crooked neck tree?
If you already have the answer in your heart, but you are still reluctant to part with him, then please communicate with him face-to-face and in-depth communication, so that your boyfriend can face the problem squarely and do not avoid it, because everyone is an adult and is responsible for what they do. If your boyfriend's attitude is still ambiguous and vague, then it can be understood that he does not love you as much as he thinks, at least not as much as you love him. How would you choose someone who doesn't love you?
Long pain is better than short pain, and it is also a good choice to turn around and leave in style. Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, if you bloom and the breeze comes, a beautiful life beckons to you in front of you, and strides forward bravely! After all, in the long river of life, two years is just a flick of a finger, come on sisters!
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Take the initiative, what you need, take the initiative to say it, let him know, don't always think about it, let him guess what you want, don't put yourself in too high a position, many times, we do too much by ourselves and let a lot of good things become bad, a good relationship slowly cracks, you don't like what your boyfriend does, take the initiative to say it, the two discuss, first salute and then soldier, some men are more nervous, he has you in his heart and cares about you very much, but in some behaviors may not show it, or even self-defeating, Then at this time, don't blindly complain, tell him honestly what you think, your hope, and believe, many problems can be solved.
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