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1. The reason why I can't find a partner is that I don't have the time and opportunity to know the opposite sex, most of the time I am working, and the work occasions are basically the same sex, and there is a lack of opportunities to know the opposite sex.

Many people feel the same way, when we were in school, our parents told us not to fall in love, thinking that it would delay our studies, and after we graduated from college, our parents began to desperately urge us to fall in love and get married, which also caused many people to choose to enter the wrong marriage. After we go to work, we rarely have time to fall in love, especially the current way of working, so that our rest time is greatly discounted, and there is very little time to party, let alone meet the opposite sex. The opposite sex at work is either married, in love, or they don't like it, and that's why.

Second, the reason why I can't find a partner is not that the requirements are too high, but because the opposite sex around me does not conform to my view of mate selection, and it is naturally impossible for two people with different values to come together.

Now the requirements of male and female students in society have changed a lot, and the people who adapt to the changes have found suitable people, and the rest are waiting and waiting. Now girls demand that boys know how to cook, take the initiative to take on housework, and be husbands and wives in the new era, and many men are willing to change for girls, and naturally it will become a family. On the other hand, many men do not do housework, their careers are not successful, and they still want to find a woman who washes their clothes, cooks and takes care of their children, and threatens that women in the new era must be able to earn money, how can such men find a partner.

There is no need to rely on men for what women can do, and men should understand this.

3. The reason why most urban young people can't find a partner is that they don't have a clear self-understanding, they think too high or too low of themselves, and finally they miss fate, and it is difficult for two people to meet the right person at the right time.

Whether it is a man or a woman, if you are not clear about your positioning, it is naturally difficult to find a partner. If you're just an average-looking girl with a stable job and family environment, then you can find a man who is a little better than you, but not rich. On the other hand, it is the same for men, but it is difficult to find a better woman than themselves, after all, men are the main economic leaders of a family, and no woman wants to live a low quality of life.

Of course, many men think the same way, so they are still single.

I thought about it. Mainly because I'm used to being single alone, I don't really want to end up single. It's not that my criteria for choosing a mate are too high, it's that I haven't met a guy who makes me feel excited, and I have plans to end being single.

I've wondered what the reason why I can't find a partner is, it's probably because my vision is too high, it's because my criteria for choosing a mate are too high.

Thought. No. It should be that I haven't met someone I really like. There is no such idea at the moment, so there is no object.

When you feel that someone is very close to your three views and has a very pleasant chat, but your material foundation is not so similar, don't hesitate, they are crushing your two businesses and creating the illusion that the three views are the same at first sight. A smart person only tells the truth when he meets someone who is also smart, and when he meets an ordinary person, he only needs to say good things to make him happy.

In this case, it is better to work hard for four or five years first, and find the right person with the right external (money, ability). You know why you don't change it. Either be content with reality and find someone who can live a down-to-earth life, but in your opinion is a little ignorant, or you should struggle for your career first, invest in yourself, and then find a suitable partner after you reach a higher level.

You can ask relatives and friends to introduce you, they will definitely have some high-quality single resources in their hands, say a few good words, or have a meal, maybe they will secretly help you to harvest love. Of course, some matchmaking agencies and matchmaker service agencies can also choose, but these charge a huge service fee, and the reputation is not very good, so choose carefully.

Replace good feelings with curiosity, and treat every chat as an opportunity to get to know each other better; There is no failure only feedback, and the other person's response is seen as an opportunity to improve yourself. Don't just think about finding a partner, it's also important to expand your network and have different community circles. If you don't have curiosity about others and don't interact with people at all, then no amount of teaching books or articles you read will be just on paper.

Start by being curious about others and practicing chatting with them.

Either lower the standard or improve yourself, if you don't want to improve, you don't want to improve yourself, so what's the way, there are really high-quality girls who are dizzy and can't take long to fall in love with you. The fundamental reason why you can't find a suitable partner is still yourself, or that sentence, when you are good enough, excellent girls will naturally move closer to you.

In fact, you know that it is your own problem, you can meet the conditions, you are not unworthy, but you are not as high as before, you have absolute power, the problem is that your floating heart cannot be stabilized. What can change is that you grasp your own direction, whether you want to change or not, or in other words, you haven't met a girl who is worth all your efforts to chase, and you are afraid that you will never get it if you lose it.

That's all for that, I hope it will be helpful to your questions!

There are fewer friends of the opposite sex around me, and my requirements for the other half are very high, although I have always wanted to find a partner but I haven't taken any practical action, so I can't find a suitable object.

Dear, glad for your question. It's a big deal to find a partner, and there are a lot of words that need to be typed, so please allow me to take my time.

If you can't find a suitable partner, you first need to understand whether your needs are not easy to meet by the other party; Secondly, the social circle is becoming narrower and narrower, and there are fewer and fewer opportunities to meet many people; Third, I am more acceptable when I am single, so I don't have the desire to find a partner in a hurry.

Sometimes the right person also needs to get along and compare, and when you meet a pleasant person, you still have to take a step, after all, there are really not many suitable ones now.

It's because you don't want to look for it at all, the object needs to be chased by yourself, not falling from the sky, there is no suitable object from the beginning, only an object that slowly becomes suitable.

My own requirements for choosing a mate are relatively high, what others introduce is not suitable, my circle is relatively small, I have no friends of the opposite sex around me, I say I want to find a partner, but I never act.

As the ratio of men to women is out of balance, more and more men are complaining. It's really hard to get a daughter-in-law nowadays because most women are too demanding. They either need a house, a car, or a deposit.

How can an ordinary man be attracted to a woman if he doesn't meet the requirements at all? There are even quite a few men who complain about why I have such low standards for choosing a mate, but I still don't have a partner. They always blame women for all their problems, and they always say that women worship money and reality, but they never reflect on their own problems.

Why do some people not be very demanding, but still can't find the right one?

Not proactive. In love, there are many men, although they often complain that they have no object, but they always have a good face, they dare not take the initiative to pursue, they dare not take the initiative to confess, and they always wait for fate stupidly, so it is normal to be single. There are many men who take the initiative, but because of a failure, they lose hope in themselves and no longer dare to face their feelings, so they stay alone.

In my opinion, it is not easy to have feelings. Many people have tried a few times, and after a few failures, they really succeeded in pursuing their love. Men have to have their own courage.

In the face of love, they have to learn to persevere, so that women can see your heart.

There is no goal. In a relationship, there are many men who have never been able to find a partner, not because of their poor conditions, nor because they dare not take the initiative, but because they don't know what they really want. Although they keep saying that they are not very demanding, if you really want to introduce him to someone, they will definitely ask for a lot of things.

In fact, many men nowadays may know what kind of object they want, but they don't know what kind of object they need most. So they couldn't go on at all, and then they were left alone.

There are a lot of problems with the self-hermitage.

In romantic relationships, although there are many men who have really low standards for choosing a mate, there are still no women who will look at them, because most of these men have serious problems themselves. Some of them have bad tempers, some are lazy, and some have other big problems. It is for these reasons that they keep women away.

For these men, if they want to find their other half, they have to reflect on their problems first, and then change them. Otherwise, you may never be able to get rid of it, because men have some problems that women can't accept at all, so changing yourself first is the most correct and effective way.

It may be because these people themselves are more withdrawn and unwilling to expand their circle of friends, so they do not give themselves more opportunities.

Because they have high requirements for the other half in their hearts, they just don't talk nonsense, and it is not easy to find people who meet these conditions.

In fact, they have very high requirements in the town, but they themselves think that their requirements are not high, and their own conditions are very poor.

The first is being too picky. Some people are too picky and demanding of the object they like, even to the point of being harsh. As a result, their options become narrow, and it is difficult to find objects that meet their criteria.

Some people may pay too much attention to the other party's height, income, education and other conditions, and ignore other important aspects such as the other party's personality, hobbies, and personality. On the other hand, people who are too critical may also mask their insecurities by holding themselves too high standards due to their own inferiority complex. Therefore, it is suggested that people who are too critical should let go of the "standards" and "prejudices" in their hearts, learn more about different types of people, and give themselves and others some opportunities.

The second is poor social skills. In fact, not everyone with good conditions is a "social cow". Some people are in good condition, but they lack good social skills.

They are not good at socializing with people and are not good at expressing their emotions, which can make them have a lot of difficulties in love. These people may need to practice more social skills, be socially active, and try to make more friends. At the same time, learn to take the initiative to express your emotions and needs, so that you can build a healthier and honest relationship.

The third is that he has a strong sense of dedication, and he puts a lot of time and energy into his work, and it is difficult to have time to manage a romantic relationship. For such people, it is still necessary to learn to balance work and life, not to spend all their time at work, but also to spend time managing romantic relationships, so that they can live a fulfilling and happy life. Because, at the end of the day, work is just a part of life.

When choosing a partner, choose those who can understand and support your career and work together to achieve the value of life.

Finally, because of psychological disorders. Today, there are more and more young people who may have psychological disorders, such as anxiety, depression, etc., which can affect their interpersonal and romantic relationships. I once knew a friend who chose to run away from marriage because of psychological anxiety, and Shin Shu ended up causing great harm to his family and partner.

For such people, it is best to seek professional psychological counseling and ** in time to help yourself overcome psychological obstacles and restore a healthy mental state. At the same time, you can also gradually overcome social barriers and establish healthy interpersonal and romantic relationships by participating in social activities and making friends.

In short, if we want to find a suitable partner, we need to try to break out of our comfort zone, be brave enough to reach out to more people, improve our social skills, and also learn to let go of high standards and give ourselves and others some opportunities. Love is a process of getting to know each other, appreciating each other, and supporting each other, and we hope that everyone can find their own happiness.