29 If you are not married, is the problem really serious?

<> landlord is 29 years old this year and single. Working alone in a small city 800 kilometers from home, the circle is small. When I went home on the weekend, my family said to me very seriously that I was still single at 29, and this problem was really serious!

I'm under a lot of pressure.,The landlord isn't ugly.,It's not too high-spirited.,But there's always no suitable one.。。 Think about what you've done in 29 years.

If you are in your hometown, because the city is relatively small, this age will inevitably be said to be serious, but if you are in a big city, this is normal, my cousin is in her 30s and still single. There is no rush either. She's just as uncompromising as you are.

In fact, judging from the road of a lifetime, it is really impossible to marry and marry, but how to settle every day's life. So, let's find your hitman.

In fact, for itself, the problem is not very big. I have never been married, mostly because I haven't met someone who wants to get married for the rest of my life, and I don't want to give myself out hastily.

But in the eyes of parents, this is not the case, and they will think that it is an old girl and must marry quickly. One of my sisters was urged to marry at the age of 23, saying that if she didn't get married, no one would want her.

I think that if a person can have a good time, it doesn't matter if he gets married later, anyway, it doesn't depend on a man, and it's not too late to get married when you meet the person who makes you want to stay with you for the rest of your life.

Don't marry for the sake of getting married! Someone picks up a random one in order to get rid of the single. But I can't accept it, I can't make a fool of myself. Love without true love is better than not. When it comes to this topic, there is a little bit of a feeling... Squirt too much.

I don't know how to say it, maybe I haven't experienced enough, I'm a man, if I reach 27 or above and don't have a girlfriend, I shouldn't consider being the same age as me or even older than me, how can a man's 27-year-old career be stabilized, with a certain economic foundation, why choose an older one, isn't it better to choose a 24 one, most people graduate from college for two years at this age, and people are also a little more mature, the key is that men don't particularly care about what girls have a high degree and a good job, Appearance and age and personality are the most critical factors.

Well, why should you ask someone else that question? You should know in your own heart how much weight marriage is in your life plan. If it's very heavy, and you have to tie it anyway, then you have to take action.

If you feel that marriage is an experience, and being single is also an experience, and you don't have the idea that you have to have a marriage, then it's nothing serious.

But the small city is very annoying, and if you live alone after the age of 30, you will encounter harassment or something.

And the harassment is mostly 60+ retired elderly men. I wonder if those elderly men are still embarrassed to face their children and grandchildren at this age, and don't they blush when they harass single women who are the same age as their daughters or even granddaughters. I really think it's <> to see this kind of person physiologically disgusted now

Human life is full of countless hurdles and challenges, and marriage is a must for most people.

At a certain age, marriage becomes something that must be done at the moment. In the face of the family's urging to marry, relatives talk about matchmaking one by one, sometimes they are disgusted, but they also have to compromise.

When I was young, I always wanted to meet someone slowly. Later, I finally met, and for some reason, we separated again.

With a person in my heart, the road ahead is quite difficult. I've been hurt, I've suffered enough, and I feel like it's good to be single.

But then I got old and got married. Parents, grandparents, and grandparents are all old, and they are eager to see you start a family.

At first, I may still be resistant in my heart, but I saw my relatives leave one by one. So you have to start getting married, getting married for the sake of getting married.

For adults, marrying for the sake of marriage is no less than a torture.

When you are not married, you are unhappy. When you get married, you may not be happy.

It has become a warm home with a person you don't love, and because of someone you don't love, you have an extra responsibility on your shoulders.

How many nights have you lit a cigarette and wished that it would be nice to sleep next to that person?

It's actually quite difficult to marry someone you don't love and deal with each other perfunctorily with someone you don't love.

In the adult world, it seems that everything is difficult except breathing. It's hard to even go to bed early.

It's the norm to not meet the right person, so I keep waiting and procrastinating. dragged on to the age of 29, faced with the family happiness of friends, and in the face of the urging of parents and relatives, I thought that I must get married in 30 next year.

I was left to myself, probably when I was seventeen or eighteen years old, I fell ill in the second year of secondary school. By the time he was twenty-eight years old, the signature of the circle of friends had already become that sentence, "Everything is fate, and no one can help it." ”

Women who are not married at the age of 29 are a minority group. Arrogant and cold, unwilling to compromise on life, retaining his last stubbornness.

Seeing that most of the people around them are married, they are also a little envious in their hearts. But there is no one around who is suitable for marriage, so wait a little longer!

If you don't get married, your parents, relatives and friends may say, "The eldest is not young, why don't you get married?" "In the face of the label of leftover women, who are forcibly labeled, sometimes there is nothing to be done!

The long road of life, in the blink of an eye28. You suddenly find that everyone around you is married, even if they are not married, they are on their way to getting married. Sometimes it's a little envious to see others in pairs.

There are also times when darkness comes, and it becomes hysterical in a dark room. The boy he once loved deeply has gradually gone away, and the unforgettable love is like yesterday.

23 years old, junior. Seeing others working hard to find a job or go to graduate school, you hesitate, should you work directly or continue your studies? After a few interviews, you give up.

The lack of solid professional knowledge, the lack of communication skills, and the change of heart of your boyfriend have hit you hard. You say to yourself: change the environment, girl.

So, three months before you graduate, you received an offer from your target institution. You are happy, your family is happy, and your friends are happy. The ex-boyfriend who lost the relationship also came to congratulate, you say:

Hehe, fuck off.

At the age of 24, he entered the target college. With full enthusiasm and awe of scientific research, you started the life of dormitory, canteen, and laboratory. The severity of the mentor and the pain of scientific research remind you of a phrase you have seen before:

I am worried about graduation during the day, and I am worried about getting married at night. Many students of the same level have new scientific research results every semester, but they can't help it, grit their teeth and continue to rush forward (although they don't like scientific research very much).

At the age of 27, you graduated from graduate school. You think you can finally live the life you want and find the right person you think is right. Yes, there are indeed many choices for graduate school, and many of them are hesitant to go to the jobs that are passed in the undergraduate.

But finding a partner is not the same as finding a job! A month has passed, half a year has passed, and you are 28 years old. Your parents are anxious and think that no one is chasing you?

No, it's not that no one is chasing, but I find myself with a phobia of choice. 28 years old is no longer an age to play as much as you want, and it is too difficult to find the right person.

In fact, twenty-eight twenty-nine is not married, I think it's better to be later, because you have to be a little later and more mature.