Why can t the remaining men and women find a partner?

Updated on society 2024-08-12
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Don't worry. It's normal for a 23-year-old not to be in a relationship.

    I haven't been in love before, it just means that you have invested too much energy in other aspects, such as study, and you don't have the heart to fall in love.

    I haven't felt any boy yet, but also because, with the continuous improvement of your education level and own quality, your appreciation for the other half must be higher and higher, if a girl, or a relatively good girl, will casually fall in love with a boy, then there will not be so many leftover men and women in this society.

    You must know that among the remaining men and women now, only a small part of the people who can't find a partner with poor conditions often have good conditions and have not found a suitable partner because of pickiness.

    Besides, the real leftover men and women, now they are all in their thirties and still single, you are only twenty-three, even if you are twenty-seven or eighteen, in the current era, it is also a good time, don't be in a hurry to marry yourself, don't bend your young mentality into a leftover woman all of a sudden, you haven't started yet, how can you be a leftover woman. A lot of time can be "squandered" for you, and a lot of time can make you fall in love, as long as you meet someone who is lovely, it is really lovely, not ...... for the sake of falling in love

    Don't be afraid, I myself got married at ...... age of twenty-nineI had never been in love before the age of twenty-eight, and I am just as happy now! Good food is not afraid of late ......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    The reason why the leftover men and women can't find a partner should be that most of them have a high vision or they don't meet a suitable one around them, so they become leftover men and women.

    Most of the leftover men and women are caused by high vision. You will feel that your conditions are very good, or you will want to find someone who is better than your own conditions. When you first meet someone you like, get in touch with someone for a while and don't think about other issues.

    First of all, take a fancy to the person and don't think about anything else. In this way, you can better find a friend of the opposite sex, and then contact for a while. After discovering the external and inner beauty of the other person, after that, consider some other aspects of him.

    Such as family, material, financial, work, housing, etc.

    Everyone's criteria for choosing a mate are different, but one thing is almost the same. They all want to find conditions that are better than their own, or that are beneficial to themselves. In this way, there are a lot of leftover men and leftover women.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Giving birth to boys and girls is now a very common phenomenon in big cities, the reason why these leftover men and women can't find a partner is because they themselves are also very good, they don't need anyone to provide their economy, they can live well in the city, so their goals are relatively high, in this way, they can't find their other half for a long time, and those who meet their requirements may have been married and have children now, It is possible that those who are not married and have children are not very different from him, so as they get older, it becomes more and more difficult for them to find a partner.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    There are many reasons why the leftover men and women can't find a partner, and the leftover men may be in poor economic conditions, short, ugly, and have high vision! Leftover women may be short, ugly, high-eyed, and bad-tempered!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Young boys and girls can't find a partner, and now there are two reasons, there are young men and girls with lichens, they themselves are in good condition, not that they can't find a partner, but because they don't want to find ordinary people in their eyes, they won't look at it, so they would rather choose to be single and wait until that person who is particularly good in the future, and there is another aspect of men and women left, because their own conditions are too bad, they don't want to find because they really can't find such a person, They may be in poor condition in all aspects, so they can only wait until they meet someone with special bad conditions to be able to be together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The main reason why the remaining men and women can't find a partner is because they can't see themselves clearly, they always feel that they can be worthy of anyone, and their vision is too high to see those who are really suitable for them.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is precisely because he may be left at this time that his mentality may change, and he feels that he can't find a suitable one, so he will slowly become more and more unable to find a partner as he reads bigger.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The leftover men and women are idle because they are too busy at work or their standards are too high to find a suitable object, why they can't find a partner, mainly because the age of the leftover men and women is relatively old, and they have a framework for their favorite other half at this age, and it is difficult to succeed according to this framework, and the age is there, they have no more choice.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is not that they can't find a partner, but that they sometimes don't look for a partner for a while because of various reasons or because they have high requirements for the object.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think it's to say that you can't find a partner, but you don't want to find a partner, or that you haven't met the right one, because I think that marriage is a more important thing in a person's life, and you can't do it hastily.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The reason why the remaining men and women can't find a partner is because they have too personal requirements, and many of them are too demanding, so that they can't get married. They have a marriage partner, and they don't think much about it, and others are not the only choice, so they don't contact each other anymore.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dear, the reasons why the leftover men and women can't find a partner are different, the leftover men can't find a partner is generally because they can't do it financially, and the leftover women don't get the object first because they are too demanding.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello, because the requirements for the other half of the leftover men and women are very high, so it is not easy to find a partner, and it is correct to lower the standard.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not that you can't find it, it's that you find each other, then again, why do you have to look for it, a person can also live a very fragrant life, it's not that you can't find it, it's that you find each other, then again, why do you have to find it, a person can also live a very fragrant life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The reason why the remaining men and women can't find a partner is because they are very strict about the local requirements.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Leftover men, leftover women, why can't they find a partner to say that boys and girls are generally picky, and then there are relatively high educational qualifications. It is caused by the relatively long number of years of schooling.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The remaining men and women are left for various reasons, which may be because they have flaws or they are not willing to find a partner, so they can't find a partner because of their own reasons.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not that the men and women can't find a partner, but they feel that if their standards are not lowered, they can only say that they are getting older and have more and more ideas.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The reason why Wanshengrui can't find a partner is because their conditions are very high, so it's hard to come across it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The reason why the remaining men and women can't find a partner is that they have too high requirements for the object, and they prefer to be single and free, so it is difficult to find a partner.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The remaining men and women can't find a partner, on the one hand, the requirements are relatively high, on the other hand, the desire to get married is not very strong, and some people just like to be single.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello friend, you said that there are so many boys and girls now, and you can't find a partner, mainly because the requirements are high, so you are demanding, and I feel that the other party is also more demanding, and it is difficult to find the right one.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because they are too demanding of the other party, and they are not proactive. That's why there are only men and women left who can't find a partner.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Judging from the current environment, the phenomenon of surplus men and women is indeed becoming more and more serious, especially the majority of male students. There are two main reasons why older leftover men fall into this predicament: one is that they are always unconsciously affected by their identity as leftover men, and feel that it is difficult for them to have a sweet love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The reason why the remaining men and women can't find a partner is because they have too high requirements for the other half, so they can't find a suitable partner and have been single.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because the remaining men and women have not met a destined person who is willing to get married, they would rather live their own lives alone, rather than have a lover world in reality, which is also not easy to fall in love after being older, because they are afraid of a little bit of love danger distance, first refuse a little bit of debt after that, don't like it is not rare, rare and reluctant to run to him quickly, she is none other than you, there are some dilemmas, this is also the rest of the inappropriate, but suitable for adaptation.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Just because the conditions are good, so they have a high vision, everything is looked down upon, and they always feel that the object they are looking for is not as good as herself, not worthy of him, more and more like this, and finally Liu became a leftover man and a woman, in fact, they did not have a high vision at the beginning, as their own conditions are good, they ask others to be as good as them or the same as them, so they are more and more unable to find the other half, <>

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There are many reasons, on the one hand, the remaining men and women are generally highly educated, so they prefer to find a high-level spiritual object to feel happy, on the other hand, they have not met the right person, so they are delayed, and there is that the current person pays more attention to the material aspect, and would rather not deal with the object if he does not meet the requirements of his heart.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Leftover male, leftover female. Now a lot. There are also many people who don't look for a partner. It can only be said that the requirements are very high. And then they all lost their time.

    Some people will look at the conditions, and some people will not look at the conditions. Men and women in the past, perhaps very feudal. Will consider the right match.

    Today's young people are not like that. All have the psychology of comparison. Not content with the present.

    That's why there are too many boys and girls now.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The main reason is that to a large extent, these leftover men themselves do not have good conditions, but they are still eager to find young and beautiful girls to marry. They have no self-awareness, and they are unwilling to admit their own shortcomings, and they are blindly whimsical, and the final result is definitely that no woman wants to marry them, and they have to be single.

    It is impossible for a woman to marry a man who is full of shortcomings, but refuses to change, does not work hard, and has no sense of responsibility.

    Therefore, in a sense, the reason why older leftover men can't find a partner is really because women are becoming more and more high-quality, so they don't look down on them.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Now there are many handsome men and women. My own conditions are not bad, and my family conditions are not bad, but I just don't want to find a partner. That's for several reasons.

    The first reason. Accustomed to being alone, going their own way. The second reason.

    Not used to living with another person. I don't want to be dragged down by the trivial things of life. The third reason.

    I don't want to do so many chores. I can cook and do my laundry. Why bother finding another person to control yourself.

    The fourth reason. Be financially independent. Buy whatever you want.

    Don't be controlled by others. This is the number of leftover women now, although the conditions are good. But still the reason why I don't want to get married.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello! Nowadays, many leftover men and women are in such good conditions, not because they can't find a partner, but because of the development of society, economic independence, the emancipation of personality, and the change of the concept of mate selection, it is not easy to find a more suitable, satisfactory, and favorite object, so there is such an embarrassing situation!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Nowadays, there are many reasons why some older men and women can't find a partner, mainly because: First, they haven't met their true love, and they would rather be single than settle, which is responsible for their own happiness. The second is that at the beginning, the work pressure was too great and there was no time to fall in love, and I missed the best age to fall in love, and became a leftover man and a woman.

    The third is that now that I am married, the burden is too heavy, and the price of houses and cars is too high to bear. So there was a situation where the object could not be found.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because I haven't met the person I feel about, I want the best in love, and I want to find someone I like, and he likes himself, which is very difficult, so there are many people who are single.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Many people care more about their own feelings and are reluctant to make changes for others. Also, fate hasn't arrived, and he hasn't met anyone who makes him willing to give everything.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because now many men and women are constantly changing themselves, improving their personal abilities, and constantly creating wealth. Who knows that there are more things and contacts in contact, and the horizons are also broadened, and they are generally reluctant to compromise. Will choose if you can't meet your own heart and like your own then would rather give up than do this, ask them if they are not afraid, the sense of security comes from themselves, and they are no longer financially dependent on others, so they are fearless.

    Even if you don't want to live with someone you don't like for a lifetime, you feel that life is happy and you live in the present, and it's useless to think so much about things in the future. Therefore, there is no longer the same way that it used to be, and it is said that when you reach a certain age, you will get married and have children.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your use of words is incorrect. There are so many men and women left, why are the conditions so good but they can't find a partner? It's not that they can't find a partner, it's that they are unwilling to lower their conditions and are unwilling to make do.

    Today's children have a very high ideological realm, just because of their own good conditions, so they want to find someone who matches, has the same three views, and has a common language. So I searched and searched, and I was getting older. There are also many girls who don't want to look for it, their own conditions are very good, they are busy with work, and they don't have time to find a partner, get married, and have children.

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