It s good to be like this, how to understand the embarrassment in the future

It can be understood that I am very satisfied with the current result and avoid the embarrassment that will arise in the future.

That's it, this is a compromise and a kind of comfort for yourself.

I don't think you need to be sad about this girl, her approach is not sympathetic, I think she did it herself. A good family, no one would have thought of this situation, you can only say that you can start from another angle, this girl is not really the right person for you, give up on her, it's not worth it.

Such a woman, you are still struggling with her, I really convinced you! You are just her spare tire, you can leave the child and go with others, and when you are happy in your new love, you don't remember who you are, and if you are unhappy, I want you to find some solace here. Don't use your children as an excuse, can't you raise them yourself?

Don't say that you don't want your child to lack maternal love, such a mother may not be able to give her child a good and positive education, it's better not to have it! Think about it, she doesn't have a sense of responsibility, she can do it willfully, she can beat your mother in front of everyone without taking into account your feelings, what is the nature of this??? I think she can talk about it if she beats you!

ran away with the new love, has a child, people definitely don't cherish her anymore, think of you, hehe, it's funny, when you break constantly, you will only regret not being at the beginning, so, ruthless, cut the mess quickly!

You can find a chance to talk to him, don't not chat with him, so that everything you encounter in the future will be very embarrassing, at least be a friend, shameless, friends can't do it, this is not a good thing.

The main reason is that the woman is still young and undecided, so it makes sense to advocate late marriage, and the consequence of early marriage is that most of them are children's hearts, their minds are not mature and stable, and they only see the immediate interests of the things they think.

When dealing with existing lovers in certain behaviors, it will often trigger all kinds of behaviors with your ex in your heart, making you feel in love and reluctant to give up. If you can't help it, why break up.

Therefore, it is beneficial for the state to advocate late marriage and late childbearing.

Relationships at a young age are very unstable. Sometimes it's okay today, sometimes it's tomorrow, and it's normal to divide and merge. Because the emotions are unstable, because the goal is unstable, so the emotions are also unstable. This is a process that cannot be done in the first place, and must be undertaken.

Therefore, we have a legal age limit. Why is there such a legal age limit? First, because the woman's body is too young, it is very difficult to have a child, so it is okay to have another child after maturity.

The second is because of the maturity of the character. Why do young people nowadays often divide and merge? Because their character has not yet matured.

If you reach the legal age and get married, your personality will be much better.

Since you don't want to be with this girl, don't be together. But be sure to treat your child well. You have an obligation to this child, but you have no obligation to this girlfriend. Children are your future, and you have to take care of your future.

You can continue to find a new girlfriend in the future, but it is recommended that when you find a mature person, you will also find a mature person. The consequence of immature people is that they will have one child and another.

Treat yourself well, but also treat your children well, yourself is the most important, others are not so important.

The woman who treats you as a spare tire, one thing, you are a dispensable person in his mind, and you can be replaced at any time. He thinks of you when he's lonely, and forgets about you when he's playing. I've already been on a date with you, and when a friend visits or has a temporary work arrangement, he will leave you behind.

He doesn't care and take into account your feelings, he's very selfish, he only cares about himself.

What's even more ridiculous is that if he has other boys he likes, he will also abandon you because of the opposite sex. No one will think of you until you play, which is really pitiful.

This kind of woman is the most annoying. When something happens, come and tease you; When it's okay, he won't pick up any ** you play. Even if you play a lot of **, he is very impatient and doesn't care about you at all.

You're waiting in a hurry, you're worried to death, and people don't care about you at all, do you feel heartbroken?

Don't choose this kind of woman, you are not the one who is loved, but has always given unilaterally. This kind of love, he can't see your good, he doesn't care about you, how can he love you.

Don't be too humble to love a woman who can't see your goodness, how much you love and how much you give, how disappointed you will be.

A woman who does not abide by women's morals is not a good wife, let alone a good mother, this emotion is only up to you to decide whether to accept her or not.

Typical scumbag, it's so damning.

Maybe people think that college is the beginning of their love life. The same university, there are many opportunities.

The world is very complicated, fate lacks rules, and it is useless to fight for what you want.

Don't be afraid of anything, even if you fail, it will always pass.

If you don't hate you, it means that you have a chance, and success is for those who persevere

If you marry the right husband, then your husband must take care of you meticulously, and he is willing to leave the best things to you, such a husband is also worth cherishing.

If your husband can take care of you very much in life, and he feels very sorry for you, and will help you with housework, then it means that he really loves you.

The first is whether he has an obvious position between his family and you, and the second is whether he takes care of you carefully enough.

As the saying goes, "Girls who love to laugh are not unlucky", and I think the same applies to us boys. In our lives, keep smiling at all times; Because smiling not only allows us to make a good impression on others, but also brings us good luck and opportunities. In many cases, a beautiful smile can better dissolve the awkward atmosphere, as well as the resentment and hatred between each other.

For us ordinary people, if you want to maintain a good mood, you can try the following methods:

The first method: smile more when dealing with anythingIn our work and life, let yourself keep a smiling expression at all times; Many times emotions are contagious, and if we give the other person a smile, we may get a polite greeting from the other person. Multiple polite greetings stacked together will brighten our mood.

The second method: do something to make yourself happy every morningWe want to make ourselves in a good mood throughout the day, and the mood after getting up every morning is very important; If you wake up in the morning and have a good mood, you will be in a very good mood and state for the day. So when we wake up in the morning, we can do something that makes us happy and happy, so that we can have a good mood all day long.

There are many ways to stay in a good mood, in addition to the above three methods, we can also watch humorous stories and jokes to get in a good mood.

Do more things that make you happy and less think about things that make you unhappy, so that you can be in a good mood.

Think more about the things that make you happy, and do more things that interest you, so that you can maintain a good mood.

If you want to maintain a good mood, don't put too much pressure on yourself, and find a little fun appropriately. You can choose what you like and do it consistently. You will be able to maintain a good mood.

If you want to open a little bit, don't get too entangled in some small things, you can keep yourself in a good mood.

If you want to maintain a good mood, you must first use a healthy attitude to look at some things happening around us, and don't be full of negative energy.

Usually you must adjust your mentality, don't let too many people interfere with your emotions, do not take things as happy, do not feel sorry for yourself, only in this way can you live a happier life.

If you want to maintain a good mood, then first of all, when you encounter difficulties, you should face them with an optimistic attitude, and then you must be calm and calm, and you must smile to face the mood to get better and better.

Think more about happy things every day and do more things that make you happy, so that you can maintain a good mood.

Maintaining a good mood is to make yourself smile in any situation, no matter how big the difficulty is, you must face it with a smile, so that you will have a good mood.

If you want to keep yourself in a good mood, then you have to discover the beauty in life and make yourself happy.

I think the surprise that this new film has brought me is quite big, and I like it very much.

I think it's good to meet you" is a bit lacking in reality, all the protagonists in the film live every day around falling in love, confessing, arguing, dating to go boating to watch fireworks, and fighting for girls, while ignoring that the most important thing to do is to study, this youth movie exudes a strong awkward atmosphere. ‍‍

Gu Changwei's movies and TV series are quite in-depth.

Gu Changwei, the older generation of directors, has a lot of well-known literary films, but in the new era, they must also find ways to make some non-literary films and make commercial films, otherwise everyone will become Hou Xiaoxian. Hou Hsiao-hsien is not the best sample of filmmakers, the best should be Ang Lee, the kind that is accommodating in literature, art and business, and transparent between China and the West.

Teenagers are always the most fantastical people, especially high school boys, their vigorous vitality, at this time, even under the pressure of the college entrance examination, they are the least concerned about reality, and they are the most fearless of class, character, wealth and other social evaluation constraints. Gu Changwei's "It's Nice to Meet You" has given countless people a catalyst to recall their youth and witness their youth, which can be recalled, but it was already lost at the time, if you can do it all over again, I believe many people will live differently.

At the end of the movie, the theme of the story is strongly sublimated, making the middle-aged male protagonist reminisce about his youth, but it is just an empty sigh, and there is no more dramatic substance**. Also, I have reservations about the casting of this film, because almost none of the actors in the film fit the feeling of high school students!

In the current situation where youth films are similar, "It's Nice to Meet You" actually has a very novel focus, that is, repeat students in the school, in the face of the failure of the college entrance examination, they chose to sprint again, pressure, confusion and struggle are all materials that the movie could have done a lot to ink youth, and how the movie can present these in a comedic way, this is what I especially expect to see, but the movie and everyone made a joke that is not funny at all. It turns the repeater school into a utopian existence, where there is no annoyance, no confusion, and some are just pretentious and funny.

The movie focuses on the life of the senior year of high school, but in fact, unlike the busy senior year of high school repeating life of most people, almost all the young people in the film do not have a state of study, and they are all bored and waste their youth.

The so-called youth in the movie is just the director's screenwriter's barren conjecture of repeating students, and the plot is made up nonsense, which makes people feel only the embarrassment of sitting on pins and needles.

Maybe it wasn't the director's idea, the final classroom has hip-hop and barrage subtitles trying to chase the new, but obviously these are formal proximities, and these will only be more embarrassing before they impress the audience. "It's Nice to Meet You" once again shows that the different logics of commercial films and literary films, in order to really make the audience pay for tickets to enter the theater, there will be no less homework to be done.

Director Gu Changwei chose three of these love stories and chose a three-stage structure to form three independent but intersecting romantic comedy stories. But these ideas are only on the surface, but they have not improved the effect of the finished film, and from the fact that there are eight screenwriters in the film, you can imagine how chaotic the script is.

"It's Nice to Meet You" is another attempt: adaptation, youth film, there have been successful cases such as "The Year in a Hurry" and "The Brother Who Slept on My Top Bunk": Even if the word-of-mouth is controversial, it is not a problem to sell five or six hundred million. This should also be the producer's producer's little ninety-nine.

Directed by Gu Changwei, starring Bai Ke, Lan Yingying, etc., and starring Fan Ming and Jiang Wenli, the movie "It's Nice to Meet You" held a press conference in Beijing the day before yesterday, announcing that the film is scheduled to be released on the first day of the 2018 Lunar New Year. Gu Changwei said frankly that the reason why he chose to shoot such a youth love light comedy theme is actually related to his 17-year-old son, "My son's every move in adolescence is simply a replica of my back then, and I can understand his thoughts very well." At that time, I was a representative of youth and old age, and the beauty of adolescence almost had nothing to do with me, so I made a movie about seventeen or eighteen-year-old young people, which was regarded as compensating for my late youth in the movie, and it was also a gift to my son. ”