What is the experience of a friend with a poor character?

My friend often habitually flips through my stuff without my permission, and doesn't tell me, the point is that he has to comment after he sees it, even though she doesn't understand, every time I know that she flips through my stuff, I'm very upset. Then I bought a suitcase with a code and never let him see it again.

I consider myself my best friend, I sent her a message when I was sick a few years ago, she was in love, ignored me and didn't reply. Later, after giving birth to a baby, the relationship with her husband was not good, her husband abused her, she wanted to leave home and had no place to live, and called me ** when she was in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and she wanted to come to my house to live! And the reason is that she came to Shanghai and didn't have money to live in a hotel, and she wanted to live in my house, so she could save hotel costs!

I immediately refused! I said that it is okay to come to my house to live, and I have to pay 8,000 yuan in rent! Netizens, I have also seen through this kind of person, and the retribution is not happy!

A colleague in the unit, she hurt all her friends, borrowed other people's money and never thought about paying it back, borrowed as if nothing had happened, and then we cut off contact and stopped talking, how can this kind of person have friends.

My friends are all very good people.

There is a colleague at work, who doesn't do anything by herself, licks her face and lets you do a lot of work for nothing, and finally pretends to be in front of the manager, and when she sees the experience, she hurries to work, why don't I like her so much.

I was unfortunately assigned to a class with her in the first year of high school, and I was surrounded by strangers, and she knew me, so she pestered me every day, and I especially didn't like her, because she was so bad, stealing things, making things bad behind her back, and finally tearing her face, just like a stranger. Didn't want to see her.

My roommate's character is very bad, I remember when we were in college, we were the kind of balcony to dry clothes, his clothes hung on the balcony for more than a week and confiscated, everyone waited to do the laundry, asked her if he still cleaned up, the whole dormitory people didn't like him very much.

One of my former friends was a very bad character, she had no friends, she was very selfish, and she never thought about others. The people around me hate her, I didn't know at first, I didn't want to play with her after a long time of contact, and I didn't like to be with people with bad character, and I felt ashamed.

The ex-boyfriend is, he doesn't talk about credit, he doesn't keep punctual, he loves to take advantage of small things, he betrays his friends, he asks me to pay every time he goes out to eat, you are a dignified man and let a woman pay, and you break up when it's enough.

The best best friend, on her birthday, opened her mouth and said, "You don't need to buy gifts, just give money!" "I didn't take it seriously when I thought she was joking, but who knew that after I bought her a gift, she told her classmates that I was more picky.

I was very angry when I heard this, didn't I just not give her money? She's just like this, and she doesn't want this kind of friend.

Friends are rarely related to whether the character is poor or not, because few friends do not directly reflect a person's quality, to a large extent, it may be caused by people's personality, living habits, working environment and other factors. So we can't simply conclude that people who have few friends must have inferior qualities.

1.However, not having friends may affect a person's social circle due to certain limitations, such as loneliness, social phobia, etc. The personal limitations of rolling can be changed, and by actively participating in social activities and learning positive social skills to improve one's communication skills, so as to meet more friends.

In this process, we can meet a lot of interesting people, and can set up a platform for in-depth communication and experience more life experiences. Dealing with people allows us to expand our network and access more resources and information, which is beneficial for our career and life.

2.In addition, the lack of friends can also be due to a person who is busy with career development, family affairs, etc., and cannot spare much time to maintain his social circle. In this case, we need to pay more attention to maintaining those friends who can maintain long-term contact, strengthen ties through SMS, **, social networks and other channels, share each other's life experiences, and help and support each other.

3.Therefore, having few friends does not directly indicate whether a person's qualities are problematic or not. In terms of interpersonal communication, we should focus on equality, respect, trust and understanding, and establish a long-term, healthy and mutually beneficial friendship relationship.

The in-depth development of interpersonal relationships requires the efforts and friendship of both parties in order to achieve a win-win situation. <>