For men and women, you prefer to choose to love or be loved

To be loved is bliss, really! I am a person who has loved, I have loved, I choose a person I love, but just like the song sings, I am a person who has been hurt by love, and I know that it is myself who loves to the end. Later, I met her, she loved me, but compared to the first one, I admit that I love the first one more, but I choose the latter, to be loved by a person is happiness, to love someone is painful!

I want to choose to love and be loved at the same time.

Because 1: With the person you love, maybe you will be happy, but he does not love you.

You don't feel so good about being loved, do you?

2: To be loved, someone loves you, he will give you everything he has, but get along with someone he doesn't love. Are you happy back? The only thing you are better than other women is material happiness, but spiritual ......

Before the age of 25, I will choose to love, if I can't find it, I will choose to love me, how to say, love and being loved have their own merits, but they are both very painful.

On the second floor, it is said that only loving and being loved at the same time can we be happier, but love can be cultivated.

It's hard to be loved and loved.

If I were a woman, I would have both.

If I haven't even tried to love someone in my life, I don't have to experience everything, but if I haven't experienced it, then I think it's a pity.

Well, I think so too, it's all interpreted on TV.

Know. Many men are very attentive, and they all think that even if they treat their girlfriends very badly, as long as they marry their girlfriends, they are responsible for their girlfriends and love their girlfriends, while women think that if men really love themselves, they will feel very sorry for themselves and care about themselves.

I think he will choose someone who loves him. Cangyang Gyatso wrote a poem: "The world is safe and perfect, and it lives up to its promise."

In fact, life is faced with many choices。No one can control everything in their hands, and feelings cannot be perfect. Sometimes, if you want something, you have to lose something.

It feels like it's actually a multiple-choice problem. If you do it right, you will live a happy life. If you do it wrong, you either accept it or change it painfully.

So, in the face of feelings, would you rather be with the person who loves you or would you prefer to be with the person you love? Would you rather be a woman that a man loves and is pampered in the palm of your hand, or would you rather have sex with him and give everything for a good result? A man's attitude towards the woman he loves is very different from the woman who loves him.

Because his inner thoughts are completely different, and his attitude towards each other is also very different. Perhaps many women do not understand that, in fact, in the eyes of a man, the woman he loves and the woman who loves him are fundamentally different. For many men, the woman he loves is an existence that he needs to cherish with his heart, and his attitude towards the woman who loves him will be more casual.

So, what do men think about these two different feelings? With this in mind, I interviewed a person and listened to his thoughts.

Mr. Lee, 32 years old, married, accountant: I prefer to be with a woman who has loved me all my life. If she doesn't love me, I don't know how long I can last.

Luckily, I met her, we fell in love, and I thought it would be simple to walk with her for the rest of my life. Perhaps, many men feel that love should be with the person they love, and that they can only take it seriously if they do. However, in my opinion, I prefer to be with women who love me because I feel that I am more inclined to be kind to myself than to my own efforts.

The woman who loves me will definitely be more willing to pay for me. I don't have to spend as much time with her, and I don't have to worry about whether she will love me enough. People are selfish.

Since they have all lived for the rest of their lives, why not live with the people who can give them happiness? I was lucky. I met a woman who loved me.

It is my happiness to have her by my side in my life. I will cherish it. That's why I think they will choose the woman who loves him.

I think if it's true, a person will choose the woman he loves.

He felt that the woman he loved was perfect.

He felt that the woman he loved should love him too.

Those who can advance and retreat in a certain way are very wise.

In fact, this does require a big decision.

It seems that in the impression of many men, if they like a woman, they should take the initiative to explain their minds, thinking that this is a mentality that they should have to take responsibility for themselves and women. It sounds like there's something open-minded.

Actually, no, there is nothing wrong with liking a woman to confess, but a blunt confession can only scare a woman, and being rejected by a woman under hunger seems to be the only result. Confession is never a clarion call to charge, but a signal to win. If you like a woman, don't confess, just give the woman her own lifelong love steadily, and it is better to confess than to confess.

Many men usually make a mistake when pursuing a woman, feeling that they like her, so it is a matter of course to be good to her, and there is no problem in being good to women, but most men can't grasp the degree of goodness, so that "being good to her" becomes "please". A woman likes a man who is good to her, but she has little affection for a man who is "flattering". This seems to illustrate that the sentence that what cannot be obtained is always in turmoil, and the favored is unscrupulous.

For men's "please", women are mostly insensitive, because this kind of man will never understand what women like, and only use their own way to "please" girls. Therefore, for men, when pursuing a woman, it is necessary to have a clear understanding of her hobbies and not blindly "please".

It is normal to pursue a woman, many men show the spirit of perseverance, and the more a woman refuses, the more energetic he pursues. But this practice will only make women feel that this man is very "tasteless" and "tasteless". Once you give a woman this kind of impression, it means that there is no possibility for the two of you.

A person who has been rejected by herself, and she is the kind that makes a stand and says it out, if she is still entangled in herself, her position in a woman's mind will plummet. Therefore, don't dwell on the woman who has rejected you. Gradually, it calmed down, and everything was empty and wrong.

Do not stick to flowers and grass, and keep a suitable distance from the opposite sex; Don't be stingy, dare to spend time and energy for the people you love; Do not shirk responsibility, dare to face reality.

It seems that in the impression of many men, if they like a woman, they should take the initiative to show their minds, thinking that this is a responsible attitude for themselves and women. Don't take the initiative to please many men When pursuing women, they often make a mistake, feeling that since they like her, it is a matter of course to be good to her, and there is nothing wrong with being good to women, but most men can't grasp the degree of goodness, so that "being good to her" becomes "pleasing her".

Women are not allowed to do housework, women's freedom is not restricted, and women are not allowed to have intimate contact with other members of the opposite sex.

I think the concept is the same, because to fall in love with someone is to want to spend a good life with him, and to have him to accompany him in his daily life.