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You find a woman who is married for the second time and has children, but she is still in contact with her ex-husband, you should understand why they are in contact, maybe only because of the children, then you should be generous, after all, the children are constantly parted with them.

What's going on with you two talking?

We all say that children are the hearts and minds of parents, and there are no parents in the world who do not love their children, but if there are more children, the parents' feelings will change, and they will not regard every child as a treasure.

Especially after the parents divorce, remarry, and have children, the feelings for the children in front of them will become more and more indifferent, and human nature is like this.

The parents are divorced and both remarry and have children, and the children they all have no one to love, pitiful!

So don't overestimate human nature, let alone father's love and mother's love. A cruel truth in marriage: whether it is a man or a woman, as long as they still have children after remarriage and have a good relationship with their current partner, then they will love their current children very much, and they often don't love the children in front of them so much.

If you don't see each other often, you won't love the children in front of you even more. Regardless of men and women, after getting married, they generally don't pay much attention to the children in front of them, and the reality is cruel.

If the couple divorces, the child lives with only one of the spouses, and the other spouse does not see the child for a long time. After the divorce, the party who does not have children will only get farther and farther away from the children, because the children are not around, and they have not brought them up. In addition, if this party has another child, the time and energy are focused on the child in front of him, and the more he pays, the more he loves, and his heart is full of the child in front of him.

How can there be time to think and love the child who is not around?

Generally, the more you pay for your child, the more it hurts, the more you see your child, the more it hurts, and the less you pay and often don't see it, the less distressed. Human nature is like this, not to say who is good and who is bad, but all feelings need to be managed, even if it is their own children, the feelings that have not been contacted and managed will gradually become strange over time, and only when they are often together can they have feelings. The reason why people are affectionate is that there is no replacement, and once there is a replacement, they can be forgotten.

Treat them as your own children, or they're going to be a problem in the future.

Pro, your husband's second marriage, and his past, you are clear, that is to say, he will inevitably have something to do with his ex-wife and children. If you are a reasonable person, you should not treat your husband's ex-wife as an enemy, and an open-minded person can also be a friend. This is good for your husband and for yourself.

When your husband's ex-wife comes to pick up the children, you can say hello calmly and hand over the children calmly. No don't give some embarrassing scenes to the face or high, right?

If the other party is half-hearted and the heart of the marital relationship is very unstable, it is indeed necessary to be more careful so as not to trigger the peach blossom disaster.

How to say this, it is understandable that women want to have children, but they should also take into account the mood of their husbands now, and if they are too frequent, they can consider divorce.

You're simply, didn't you think of this time before you married her? If you have to get married, you want to leave, you want to leave quickly, it's really choking, don't think about this kind of problem when you get married.

You can remind your current wife of the correct identity, and if you can realize the problem, you should not file for divorce from her, on the contrary, it will be even more worrying if it has little effect.

You are insecure.

It's because of the lack of trust between you.

If this continues, there may be gaps.

Divorce is still carefully considered.

You can use some technology products to grasp his whereabouts, speak with facts, don't be suspicious, and don't wronged others.

Of course you want to get divorced, what do you think about raising children for others? Why be a pick-up man? And don't talk anything about the sake of the child, it's just an excuse, many women take away the child and wish never to let their father see it!

In the end, there is still no more love! You better pay attention, don't believe you look at Wang Baoqiang's car accident! Pan Jinlian has it all the time!

If you really love your wife, you should help her, and if she doesn't love it, bring it up directly.

You can ask her what she thinks, and if she wants to have a good time, she can talk about things generously and talk to you about every event.

It seems that your marriage has made you very insecure. Communicate with your wife first to see if you can solve it. Don't be too impulsive and think twice.

Before you get married, you understand each other's family situation and social relations, these are facts that cannot be changed. As a mother, you have to give for your children. This is the responsibility and obligation of parents.

If you don't care about your own biological children. Don't you think such people are cold-blooded? You can negotiate with your wife and tell him that your bottom line is in**.

Marriage requires communication and understanding.

When you married your wife, you should know and understand her past, and you should not have been in contact with her ex-husband, otherwise you would not have married her. Now you also know that she has frequent contact with her ex-husband because of the problem of the child. So what do you know about her child?

And for what problem did she want to contact her ex-husband? You should understand these questions clearly. To be sure, if you can face and solve your child's problems with her, there will be no crisis you thought of.

You have to have faith in yourself and believe that you made the right decision!

Second-married couples also need to take their ex's children seriously, their feelings have problems, but their children have not made mistakes, no matter what kind of person they are married to, they need to be good to their children, because they have been hurt by divorce, don't let your ruthlessness hurt your children again, so that the children will hate you for a lifetime.

1 Couples who are married for the second time also need to take their ex's children seriously.

2 You must not harm your children after you marry again.

3 Divorce is the worst option to resolve family conflicts

Second-married couples also need to be attentive to their ex's children, don't let these children hate themselves, which is very bad.

Treat fairly, there is no reason for children to bear the mistakes of adults, children are innocent, as long as you are really good to them, they will also repay you, so you can't treat them as your own, at least you must not hate each other.

Second-married couples, if they do not live with their ex's children, treat their ex's children very well, and if they live together, there will inevitably be some friction, but there are also good children.

Usually second-married couples treat their ex's children as their own and treat them as their own children, and only this kind of getting along will make the family more harmonious.

Since I have no children around me, I treat her children as if they were my own, but, for other reasons, I still haven't been able to live, after all, I am also an ordinary man, I can't be perfect, I can do what she wants in all aspects, I can only face the cruel and ruthless reality, and sad tears can only be swallowed in my stomach.

I think most people treat them as if they were their own children, and they care about them, and some people will see them as a thorn in their side and treat them badly.

In fact, it should be very equal and tolerant of hardworking children, because this can help the life of the couple.