I was bullied by my classmates when I was a child, and then I didn t want to talk to people

It was the first year of elementary school, the first day of school, and the first class was math.

During class, the teacher explained the math knowledge points, and everyone else understood it, but I didn't understand it at all, so I could say that I was confused. After talking about the knowledge points, the teacher began to write the questions on the blackboard, and the students went to the blackboard to write the answers.

Looking at the teacher holding the roster in his hand, I was extremely worried in my heart, "Don't click me, don't click me, don't click me" and prayed in my heart. However, the prayer didn't seem to have had time. "Wang, come up and do this question," the teacher shouted.

My heart raced, my whole stomach felt like it was churning, and every step on the way to the blackboard seemed difficult.

When I came to the blackboard, I couldn't think of anything about this math problem that I didn't understand, and I was habitually nervous and scratched my head with my hands, and I could only silently look forward to the time passing quickly, but at this time I felt that time passed very slowly, "Wang Moumou, you go down, it's so simple, you can't do it, listen to the class." When the teacher said this, it was as if time had passed the four seasons.

In this way, I left the blackboard in despair amid the slightly harsh sarcastic words of the teacher, and even when I sat back in my seat, my tumbling heart still rolled and I couldn't stop at all.

However, this storm for me was only the beginning and not the end, and the teacher kept staring at me and asked me questions every time he talked about a topic. But when I was fighting, I really didn't understand any of them, and I couldn't answer them all. Feeling the storm beating mercilessly on my thin body, after class, I couldn't hold back and started crying.

The teacher who learned about this situation quickly came to my desk and asked me to repeat the grade to preschool, because I had only been in preschool for half a year before I was in first grade, and I didn't learn a lot of things taught in preschool, so I can't keep up with work in first grade now. It's best to go to preschool and re-study, otherwise you won't be able to keep up with the work.

At that time, I didn't understand and felt very ashamed, crying and refusing to go to preschool. As a result, the teacher took my school bag and dragged my crying relatives from the first-grade classroom to the preschool classroom.

At that time, the first grade students all came out and stood at the door of the classroom looking at me in embarrassment, and felt that they were laughing at me.

When I walked into the preschool, I was crying and I was stared at by my classmates inside, and I felt their ridicule, but unfortunately there was no crack in the ground at that time, otherwise I would have to get into it and never come out again.

For a long time, this became a laughing stock for my classmates and a black history for me, which I still can't forget.

Because in the genes of human beings, there is a fear gene, especially when humans are small, this fear gene is very powerful, the reason is that human beings are in the process of continuous purification, the danger is very great when they are small, especially in ancient times, weak human beings are often attacked by beasts when they are young, and this fear gene is still continued today, so we will find that many people will be bullied in the class when they are young, especially interesting. Many children who grow taller will also be bullied by some people who are not as affectionate as him, which is also caused by the fear geneOf course, the harm to children is also relatively large, because school violence is one of the most important factors affecting children's psychology, so it is recommended that parents pay attention to the following points when educating their children:

1. Don't be afraid

First of all, we have to educate our children that if you are bullied in school, don't be afraid, because a fear may make the bully think that you are very cowardly, and the next time you are bullied, it will definitely get worse, and it will become more and more frequent, so we must be brave, so that others will think that you are a very tough person.

2. Be brave enough to ask for help

Many children will not ask teachers and parents for help if they are bullied in school, because they are afraid that after asking for help, the bully will become worse, so when we educate children, we should directly tell children that they should have the courage to ask for help when they are bullied, and seek help from teachers when they are in school.

3. Don't bully others

Many children are slowly distorted psychologically after being bullied, so they will bully others, we educate children to bravely refuse this kind of behavior at the same time, but also to educate children not to bully others, because bullying others itself is a very bad behavior, and the impact on the child's future is also relatively large.

Because they didn't dare to fight back, they were afraid that if they fought back, they would be hurt more seriously by the other party, so they were very timid in their hearts and didn't dare to tell anyone.

Maybe they are more introverted or cowardly, or they may be afraid from the bottom of their hearts, so they don't dare to resist or tell their teachers or parents.

Because I was young at that time, I was very afraid of things, and sometimes I didn't dare to fight back, I didn't dare to hit others, I was afraid of making a mistake, and I didn't dare to resist.

I was bullied, and then I mustered up the courage to fight with him, so that no one bullied me in the future, and other classmates saw how hard I fought, but they didn't bully me, and people were bullying the soft and afraid of the hard.

Now I'll laugh it off, after all, it's all a child's business, and I've always kept it in mind. Seeing each other is fate, but if the other party is still like before, it can't be bypassed. In childhood, it is called a small fight, and when you grow up, it is a personality problem.

Please eat, **there is oppression** there is resistance, you used to bully me, now I want to slaughter you fiercely, so that your flesh does not hurt and feel distressed, talk about things when you were a child while eating, ask what psychology was at that time, behave well, write off the old accounts, perform badly, eat and eat to death.

I would smile politely at them, let them see my gentlemanly behavior, and then I would say something to them to thank them for their "special care" of me that made me who I am now, which will make them feel ashamed and even regretful, and they will take a bad breath for themselves.

Now, when I meet him, I will talk and laugh with him, talk about our experiences over the years, and joke about him bullying me again. In short, I won't let him easily turn over the bullying of me, at least let him invite me to a meal or a cup of milk tea.

What, I'm already my boyfriend. (I'm a man).

Now that he's my best friend's husband, what do you think I can do to him?

In elementary school, I often sat at the same table, and I always punched me with his fist for no reason. He's still a fat man, and he's very heavy.

Call him in the face in the past and take revenge! As the so-called gentleman takes revenge, ten years is not too late. But I don't have the guts of this dog, and in reality I will be cowardly.

When I was a child, the female class president was always jealous that my grades were better than hers, and she used her power to force other classmates not to play with me, and this oppression by her continued until junior high school. Then we broke up. Her high school grades dropped fast, and I was better than her.

If we meet now, I will treat it as if I didn't see it, like a stranger, and then secretly mock her in my heart for not having a better life than me.

I think classmates who used to fight together when they were children grow up to get along better, because they have been together since they were children, and there are a lot of topics to talk about when they grow up. When I was a child, I didn't know anything and fought each other together, and when I grew up, I could turn the old little stories into the topic of conversation after tea and dinner together. If you can really meet, you can sit together and have a good chat.

Ignore him, because now he is a parallel to my life path, and there is no more intersection.