I don t get along with my husband, but my relatives and friends around me persuaded me not to divorc

One day husband and wife 100 days, 100 days husband and wife like the depth of the sea.

Although I do not support far-fetched marriages after an emotional breakdown, I do not disagree with this statement。Marriage is never a matter between two people alone, but involves several families.

If you choose to get a divorceTwo people themselves will definitely be hurtFrom the perspective of your parents, I think it's right that they advise you not to divorce. Because the people of their time came over like this, a lifetime of fighting, ups and downs, and the happiness precipitated by time is the most worthy of cherishing.

And from your personal point of view, if there is no affection in a marriage, continuing to do so is tantamount to torturing yourself. But feelings are such a thing as a difficult thing to figure out.

Maybe you feel that your relationship is unreliable now, and you especially want to divorce, but after the divorce, you are likely to regret it and miss your previous married life.

People are so hypocritical and contradictoryWe are always in this contradiction constantly choosing, choosing what is good for us, choosing the direction of making our lives better.

You just said that you and your husband are not in harmony, but have you considered the root cause of the relationship between the two people? Is the problem still solvable? If you get divorced, what is the best way to make your life better?

If you haven't considered any of these issues, then your so-called desire for divorce is just an impulse. Give yourself a moment to calm down and ask yourself what is going on in your deepest heart.

Divorce is an escape, and escaping is hard to solve. Face the marriage of two people, solve problems and solve them, don't turn divorce into a means, divorce is just an ending. Life must learn to make yourself happy, and life will be better.

After all, it is the ...... of persuasion and not persuasionThis is the best advice for all married people!

In fact, if you take a step back and look at the problem, you may suddenly understand why the feelings you are talking about are incompatible???

Do you always require the man to take you as the starting point in any of his actions???

Do you often complain about the various inconsistencies of your parents-in-law in front of men, intentionally or unintentionally???

Do you feel that your man is good for nothing, and from time to time he knocks on his face or sideways???

At the same time, you should ask yourself why you always feel that the other party is good before marriage, and after marriage, you are still the same person, why are they so different???

This is the ...... that your expectations of the other person are too high and are always beyond the capabilities or conditions of your own manYes or no???

Whether this marriage can be maintained or not depends on you. You want to stay afloat. That's it. If you don't want to get by, you can't sustain it. You take the claim yourself. It's better not to get a divorce!