If my friend is unhappy in his marriage and often drinks to kill his sorrows, should I encourage him

<> personal opinion, comfort and comfort are good. As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs. You just listened to your best friend's words, and you don't necessarily know the specific situation.

Your best friend calls you ** because she wants to be comforted by you, so you don't want to be a magistrate, it's better to be a tree hole. It is not a good thing to rather demolish ten temples than break a marriage, and persuade people to divorce. It is normal for husband and wife to quarrel, and divorce as soon as they quarrel, will there still be marriage in the world?

It's not easy to get married, it's hard to get divorced, what will happen to divorce? The relationship is very broken, and there is no hope for life, and then the idea of divorce appears. Can you be sure that your girlfriend and his wife are emotionally broken because of this incident?

If not, if you persuade people to divorce, you will be a wicked person, and you may be hated by your girlfriends and husbands at the same time, and they hate you for not helping them when there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, but breaking them up. Do you want to face such an outcome?

Why don't you make peace? For example, people know that they are warm and cold when they drink water, and in marriage, the relationship needs to be judged by the parties themselves, and what others see and hear while standing aside may be different from the personal feelings of the parties. Therefore, it is better to feel the feelings of the people, and the suggestions of others will more or less interfere with their own judgment.

Therefore, it is recommended that the girlfriend think clearly about whether the life is really unbearable, and she will weigh whether to continue by herself. For the present, what we can do is to listen attentively and understand her feelings at the moment, because for your best friend, what she needs most at the moment is your support, because for this marriage, it is not easy to come together, and it must be cherished, but at present, their marriage has encountered a bottleneck, but it has not reached the point of dissolution. Each other can review their sweetness in the past, and after the relationship calms down, find the reasons that lead to the present, and then change each other, don't get involved in other people's emotional entanglements, and don't be a magistrate.

Make a tree hole, listen carefully, and comfort well, this is what girlfriends should do.

Personally, I think that if your friend is constantly like this, then you can really consider divorcing him, because only then can your friend be happy.

I think of course it should be encouraged, after all, if marriage does not bring happiness, then there is no need to exist.

I don't think so, because in case he regrets the divorce, he will blame you later.