Those who talk about divorce lightly, are they really better off after the divorce?

People who talk about divorce lightly are actually not mentally mature enough, so they are nervous as soon as there is a little turmoil in the marriage, and even ask for divorce immediately after a dispute. In fact, such a person probably needs to suffer a lot of setbacks and tribulations after the divorce before he can experience his mind step by step and become a better person. Such a person is very difficult to live well at first after the divorce, but as long as he can focus more on the future, I personally think it will not be too bad.

Some people have a worse life after a divorce than they did before they got married, but there are also people who are finally relieved after a divorce and find more joy in life. Everyone's experience after a divorce is different. We have to see how the person is doing after the divorce, and we also have to see how the other party's life is before the divorce?

If this person lives a very sweet life when he gets married, and he opens his mouth every day with clothes and food, but after the divorce, he loses his financial support, and his life may be very bad.

However, many people have independent financial ability before they get married. Therefore, even after the divorce, they can successfully find a job and maintain their basic personal expenses. However, if some people find it difficult to get out of the emotional trauma after the divorce, it will naturally be difficult to live a prosperous life.

For some people who talk about divorce lightly, they are often accustomed to doing things impulsively, and this type of person is not calm enough in the workplace or in life, and it is easy to suffer. Therefore, the days may not be so good that they will go.

Jade is not cut into a tool. Those who divorce lightly, after leaving that home, even if they encounter setbacks for a while, they can only move on. Otherwise, wouldn't the previous insistence be a joke?

So they can't make themselves a joke, so they work very hard and assiduously to learn the skills to survive. In addition, they will be more cautious than before when looking for their significant other. Because, they don't want to be in the same predicament again.

So according to this level, in fact, the impact of divorce on them is still quite large, and life is indeed not as easy as before compared with before.

I think those who talk about divorce lightly have no better life after divorce than before, because they are too willful and choose divorce rashly, in fact, they are even more sad after divorce.

This is not necessarily, these people will be very floating, and sometimes they will do things that they regret, but there is no regret medicine in the world.

This is also divided into people, some people are indeed better off after divorce than before, and some people are even more miserable after divorce.

There are not many people who live happily after divorce, good men will not marry second marriages, and strong women will not marry second husbands.

In addition, because men are strong, they must have a woman when they get married, and they are more beautiful than a woman and more liked by men.

Because, a man's money can change everything, especially marriage, a man's advantage over money is relatively large, money for a man, is to determine the happiness of a lifetime, as long as a man has money, he must start with his marriage first, looking for a person he admires the most.

Female diggers are not good, they get married once, and once they are old, they are not old, and their age is not too old, as long as they are married, rich men will not appreciate them.

If a woman has been married once and has children, it is even worse to marry with children after leaving the side to bury the marriage.

In the past, the parents ordered the matchmaker to say that they would marry a chicken and a dog and a dog.

Nowadays, people pursue a high-quality life, and their feelings are unwilling to settle, and if they have the capital to divorce, they will leave the marriage if they want to.

In the past, marriage depended on fate, and the current partners were all chosen by themselves, why did they still jump and fight after marriage?

Is it because we chose the wrong one? Would it be nice to change one?

With dissatisfaction with the status quo and expectations for the future, many people choose to divorce, but are they happy after divorce?

Was the original problem solved? The vast majority are not happy, so the likelihood of being happy after a divorce is extremely small.

Some people live happily after divorce because they are miserable and tired in their original marriage. Some people live unhappily after the divorce, because the result of their unhappiness is not caused by the original marital relationship, but by their own reasons.

When the fish live in the water key fight, they always want to see the outside world and experience the outside life, but they don't know that it is difficult to survive without the water. This is like some couples, although there will be some minor conflicts and disputes occasionally, but it does not affect their entire married life, and even in this seemingly discordant situation, in fact, they have become accustomed to each other's existence and companionship, in this case, divorce will only bring them a sense of lack psychologically, and will not be happy. Some wheat seedlings always like to grow in piles, and like to be close to their own kind, but they don't know that this is actually consuming each other and competing for each other's nutrients, which will only lead to their own and their companions not being able to grow healthily.

This is like some couples, in daily life conflicts occur one after another, two people together are either noisy or noisy, and even domestic violence will occur, although this kind of marriage is ostensibly a family, but in fact, it is consuming each other, is alienating from each other, then, in this case, divorce is also a choice to save yourself. The above two situations tell us that the probability of being happy after divorce lies in the reason for the divorce and the reason for the unhappiness in our original marital relationship.

Divorce is due to various reasons, and they are not happy in life.

Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.

Here's why:

First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.

You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.

Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.

Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.

The third is that after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home. Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it!

When you meet someone who is destined, boldly go to the manuscript to accompany love! Enjoy life!

In short, after the divorce, there are many opportunities, and happiness may come to you!

After the divorce, I think that there will be a peaceful life.

I think so.

Hehehe. At least there's a new attempt.

I saw netizens asking, "Will divorce be better?" ”。Judging from the examples of divorce around me, there are still people who are better off after real divorce, but there are very few.

A hundred years of repair to cross the same boat, a thousand years of repair to sleep together. It's fate to come together, if it's not for the other party to make an unforgivable mistake, try not to mention the word divorce.

Two people who grew up in different family environments living together will inevitably have conflicts or quarrels due to different interests and hobbies and different living habits.

In the event of a conflict between husband and wife, one party should take the initiative to admit his mistake and apologize, or give the other party a step, actively communicate and solve it, reconcile in time, and not be angry and cold.

When husband and wife get along, they should look at each other's advantages and strengths, tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, seek common ground while reserving differences, and make progress together.

The most taboo is to turn a blind eye to the other party's advantages, but magnify the other party's shortcomings. Or compare the shortcomings of the other party with the strengths of outsiders. This approach can only lead the marriage to a dead end.

Divorce is not a panacea for all problems, and there will be many problems when you get married by another person, such as housework, children's education, and honoring the elderly.

If you can't swim, you still can't swim in a different pool, and you can't swim in a swimsuit.

When the marriage lights up red, both parties should reflect and step on the brakes together. You must be cautious about filing for divorce, and there are really few people who have a better life after divorce.