Give me a reason! Why do you say break up?

In fact, women are animals that need comfort

Have you ever thought about it? Have you ever comforted her?

You've given him just sweet words.

A lot of people will say that you want to give up this girl If the younger brother gives you some advice, if I were you, I would give her a chance, not to her, but to yourself, to let you do something useful to her, and you say that she lied to you? What did she lie to you? Why lie to you?

Ever thought about it? Did you lie to her? Don't say you didn't lie.

If you have time to talk to her, the misunderstanding will naturally be resolved. I hope you and her can reconcile. Man.

Be generous If she has to break up with you Sometimes this thing is not yours You will never get it In the end it is you who hurts Believe and tell yourself that there must be the best waiting for you Brother I wish you happiness

What did she lie to you?

You should make it clear, it's important!

If she has a hard time, you should understand her, if she is betraying, I think you should resolutely let go!

What's more, you said that you often quarrel, have you summarized the reasons?

It's very painful to quarrel all the time, because you care about each other, so you quarrel, but because you care about each other.

I can't bear to break up! And then quarrel again, such feelings are torture for both people!

There must be these reasons why she and you proposed to break up!

Since there are often quarrels, the points are divided. Don't say you're a masochist, and I'm sure neither is your girlfriend. Two people who don't like each other, don't force themselves together. There is no good fruit to eat.

She lied to you and said that she was going to break up with you, do you think about whether such a girlfriend doesn't have you in her heart. Then be decisive and divide it with her, where is there no grass at the end of the world.

Maybe not, but there must be a reason. When deciding to break up, you don't have to tell the other party the real reason, because everyone's personality is different, and the way to choose to break up will be different. You don't have to say your reasons and make decisions with your heart.

Falling in love and breaking up are both thoughts that come from the heart

Two people may fall in love just because of their inner attraction to each other, without any specific reason, and the same is true for two people who choose to break up, and it is not like returning an online purchase, which requires a certain reason.

Not to mention the reason is sometimes to make the breakup decent

Some couples choose to break up because they find each other's personalities not suitable for being together, but most of the time it is because the other partner is not a qualified lover, but in order not to be embarrassed when breaking up, the other party will not say specific reasons.

Equal love doesn't bother with reasons when it comes to breaking up

If a couple of lovers are very happy with each other, they will also be more indifferent when they are separated. On the other hand, if one party always keeps the other party by paying more, then it will be difficult for him to let go when he is broken up, and he always wants the other party to give a reasonable reason.

It is true that two people should give a reason when they choose to break up, but it is also very normal behavior to say nothing.

Everyone chooses to confess in a different way, so they may choose a different method when they want to break up with the other person. Everyone should respect the way others choose to break up. Even if the other party didn't say anything, he didn't give a specific reason after asking.

1. Life is the process of finding love.

The first is the person you love the most, the second is the person who loves you the most, and the third is the person you spend your life with.

First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love;

Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most;

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, it's just the person who appears at the most suitable time.

How many people will you be in someone else's life?

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he will be with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is—love his good and love his bad

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just to be carefully obtained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

What about you? How many did you find?

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again? This is a letter that has been circulating all over the world, and I hope it can help you get out of your current mood as soon as possible.

The comfort of the soul is like this.

The question of the reason for breaking up is from the perspective of two people:

1. The person who proposed to break up.

For people who propose to break up, they will go through a period of psychological construction before the breakup. During this time, he will make trade-offs between breaking up and not breaking up.

If he finally makes the decision to break up, it will undoubtedly be more comfortable for him to break up than not to break up. Adults have the tendency and ability to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, so even though a breakup may cause him pain, however, the pain is less painful than not breaking up, so he chooses to break up eventually.

In this process of considering the potato hand, he needed a reason. This reason can be made up of one (e.g., I don't love you anymore).

It can also be made up of multiple (e.g., too much resistance between us to be together, friends don't approve of it, we often quarrel with each other, etc.). No matter how small or small the reason is, it all comes down to one thing:

A breakup would make him more comfortable, even if there was a brief period of pain.

So, for people who propose to break up, they need a reason to break up, and the reason will ultimately boil down to one thing: can the breakup make you more comfortable! Transport.

2. The person who was broken up.

In the face of being broken up, many friends will reflexively ask the reason. Such an attitude is a normal reaction, after all, a breakup is the end of a relationship for both parties. For people who have been broken up, breaking up means that their previous management of the relationship has failed.

So, why not ask the reason for the failure!

However, if the customer waits for the breakup, we will find that the person who is broken up does not need to know the reason. From the above analysis, we can see that the reason for the breakup is very simple: the other party decides not to continue to love you, or to put it mildly, the other party thinks that the breakup will be more comfortable.

Whenever there is a breakup, the person who is broken up will have all kinds of speculations. They are like Detective Conan, tracing the clues of their past relationship to prove that the other party still loves them.

It is true that the other person may still love you, but we have to recognize the fact that the other person has decided to break up with you whether they love you or not. This shows that even if the other person still loves you, the other person has decided not to continue to love you. Isn't that clear enough!

Breaking up requires a reason, for the person who proposed the breakup, not for the person who was broken up!