Should I marry him? Help me!

Since you're here to ask these questions, it's proof that you're hesitating, well, you should think about it.

I've only known each other for four months and been in love for a month, and at this time I'm thinking about marriage a little earlier, and you have to spend more time to get to know him, and this relationship! Also give the other person some time to get to know you and see if they are a good fit, such as: the real reason for his divorce from his ex-wife?

Do you accept this reason? What does he like about you? What do you love about him?

Is your relationship based on trusting each other and being willing to give for each other without expecting anything in return? If your family doesn't agree, what is his reaction? Is he ready to face the odds with you?

Are you ready to marry him? Does his son accept you? Are you ready to be a stepmother?

How much faith does he have in your relationship? Do you have the confidence to face the days after marriage? Regardless of the pain of the disease?

10 years? What about 20 years from now? If he still has a relationship with his ex-wife, or maybe sometimes needs to give his ex-wife material support, will you care?

Hehe, maybe you should enjoy the time of love wholeheartedly now! Don't think too much, after all, it's not easy to fall in love. Let time tell!

You can stop talking about marriage first, and after a year and a half, or even a year or two, you will think about whether to marry him or not, and then face all your worries! How is it? Maybe you'll have the answer for yourself!

People in love, I wish you happiness!

Be cautious and understand why he divorced his former wife.

After all, he has a child, and the next time that child goes into puberty, it will be a very hard time for your marriage ......

It depends on the level of feelings, and this kind of thing cannot be explained by a simple introduction.

No, you're still young, find a good one.

If you really get married, there will be a lot of problems, be careful.

You've known him for four months, you've been in love for a month, where did you meet, if you don't know him very well, and you're too short now! You are too young to be cautious, but I have no objection to you pursuing the happiness of the year, nor against your age, but you must be clear about his character! I advise you to think about it now!

Marriage is a lifelong thing, there are many things to consider, don't get married on the spur of the moment! Hope you are nice and happy!

How long have you been around?

Why do you love each other.

True love doesn't care about age and whether he has a son or not.

Figuring out why would be fine.

If you think so, I suggest you don't stay with him, being together will only waste your time with him, because you will not be fruitful.

1. It's always sweet at the beginning of love, you will stick together every day, inseparable, but after a long time, the differences and contradictions between you are gradually reflected, what you want is a man with ambition and ambition, and he is just a man who is content with the status quo and seeks a stable life, and the difference between reality and ideals will make you make a difficult choice.

2. Because he has a house, he is not considering buying a house now, and he will not consider it in the future, and you are against living with his parents, when the marriage date is approaching, you will quarrel more about the house, and in the end you will be very tired, and he will be very tired.

3. You feel that others are very good now, on the one hand, because the contact time is not long, they don't know each other, and the advantages and disadvantages of the other party have not had time to show in front of you, on the other hand, because you have just started to fall in love, so all the shortcomings of the other party are not in your eyes, and all the advantages of the other party are magnified, and there is a blind spot in the line of sight.

First of all, you study hard, complete your studies, continue your studies, your path has just begun, understand?

Secondly, can you be with her, it's not a matter of the house or whether you're handsome, understand? Don't know what kind of person you are, love money or people? Or are you realistic??

It feels like what you've written already says you, and you don't want to be with him, right? So what else to ask? Or can't you convince yourself?

Then the answer to you is, what should you do, just tell him that it is not suitable.

As for your conduct, I don't dare to compliment, he is rural, nothing, no house, you two provide together, it's nothing, shouldn't it? Otherwise, you will help a lot of money, and you will have a house and a car, and your own is your own, not your own, and you are rare if someone else gives it??? Hehe, you don't have the idea of working on your own, earning money, buying a house, buying a car???

Time is not a problem, it is very realistic to repay the loan first, don't look for reasons.

Finally, calm down, study hard, don't look down on anyone, no one may be able to tell who is better than who in the future There is nothing to be better than someone with a high education, the key is the mentality, hard work and not admit defeat

I look at it myself, I speak ugly, and I can't help it if I don't like it

Until the moment you graduate and find a regular job, marriage is a long way away. The jobs of the two have not yet been decided, so what to talk about marriage. It's not that you necessarily need money to get married, but if you don't have money, you can get married.

College graduates, don't be a house slave easily, that kind of life is something you never want. It's too early to talk about marriage, if you love him, tell him, it's too early to talk about marriage, and when we all stabilize, we can talk about a result at that time, otherwise if we talk about it ten thousand times now, it's all one result: empty talk.

Chase your dreams, it's still a long time, no one delays anyone, and love is also experienced in time.

If you want to continue your studies, then you should focus on your studies, otherwise it will be your biggest loss if you delay your studies. This period of time is the biggest test for you, judging from what you said, his family's concept should be very traditional, the idea of inheritance is very serious, his mother is anxious to hold her grandson, can you do it?

I think in fact, housing is not a problem, you are still studying anyway, you rent a house outside to live, now the house price is so expensive, it is not easy for him to buy a set, if the two people really have a good relationship, everyone will make money and buy it together. As for studies and family, I think it's normal to get married when you're studying now, and seriously, women will be twenty-seven or eighteen years old when you come out of graduate school, and the recruiter will inevitably consider the question of whether you are married or not, if you get married and have children, it is easier to find a job, otherwise many employers don't want it, and girls will suffer from this.

Contradiction, it means that you have a good impression of him in your heart. If you love, give each other a chance, but now you have to apply for graduate school, the future is your own, you can't give up, and you shouldn't give up. I feel like you can tell him how you feel, identify your relationship, and let him stay in the city where you went to graduate school.

He works, you study, see his ability to work, if the ability is strong, your relationship is still stable, you can be together again. A house, a car, and later have the ability to have it. If he can't accept it, he can only say that you have no fate, and women should have their own future.

Hope it helps.

From your words, I don't think you love him, and if you don't love him, why should you sacrifice your ideals for him? All compromise and tolerance must be based on love.

Love is to be managed slowly, and it will only be strong after wind and rain (like TV dialogue. Love is organized into small things, and careful care is considered love happiness. Now the most important thing is that he is self-motivated, good to you, filial to his family, so he is already a good man.

Don't be so demanding, nothing is perfect from the start. It's all done step by step.

Emotional matters cannot be measured by material things. According to your description, do you not want to be with him anymore because you have no material basis for your relationship with him? And you don't want to hurt him, do you?

Don't forget that you're no better off than he is now! Since he can't give you what you want, why be together? Just reject him, maybe both of you will find a significant other who will give you material satisfaction, okay?

China's current development situation has created the problem of difficulty in buying a house, so why bother to buy a house for a lifetime, like most people? Wouldn't it be nice to abandon material burdens, live in a big house, take it easy all your life, and enjoy an ordinary life?

I think it's too early for you to get married, after all, you haven't finished your studies yet, let alone take on a family while you're in school.

I think you can wait until you finish your studies to think about this, and you can also communicate with him, after all, you just graduated and got married, no matter the financial ability and psychological endurance, you can't be fully prepared!

It is recommended not to be together, the burden on both sides is heavy, to be honest, if you still have a dream and believe in love, just work hard together, if not, work your own, it is better to rely on no one than on yourself, don't find a burden for yourself.

I've seen the snail house, and I'm still thinking about the house, the reality will ruin everything you envision, cherish the present, provided that you like him, there is no family reason.

After all, the reality is very cruel, you have to think about this problem, my idea is that it is better not to get married now!

Now you don't have to care about this matter, if you are a filial person, put your studies in the first place, read the book well, and graduate first, and whether you think about the debt how to solve it in the future, and see if the previous problem is really like this!

Your decision now is a little hasty, you should get along for a long time and get to know it again!

Yes, but it's not right now, at least come out to help your parents pay off the money they borrowed outside for a year or two.

It is recommended that you really don't marry him, because you won't be happy with him under his conditions, you haven't entered the society yet, the reality is like this, you must not be confused for a while, because this is your life's event.

Don't be with him anymore, life is very realistic, find someone with better conditions and fight less for many years. But if you're sure you love him a lot, then what else to think about, get married.

It is better not to marry such a man.

1. The difference in academic qualifications is too large, the gap in the level of education is large, and there will be problems in the communication of many things in the future.

2. He has a bad temper, because he has no higher education, his cultural level is not high, and he should not know much about the truth.

3. If you are scheming, you will find a way to trick you out if you are going to be engaged to someone else (but you will actually be fooled), and you will not know if you are sold in the future.

4. His family has a bad impression of you, you are not very welcome, and you don't look at other people's faces every day when you marry in the future.

Hurry up and divide it, or you will die miserably, there are so many good men, if you really follow him, your bitterness will really begin, or leave quickly, happiness will be waiting for you at the next stop.

Let's not talk about the two of you, you haven't gotten married yet, the relationship between the two families is like this, you can't get married for the sake of getting married, quit early, otherwise there will be a lot of contradictions in the future People can't love someone for the rest of their lives.

How do I feel like you're so struggling? You are a college student, and you are also a literate person, how can you make such a thing as a joke like a relationship, if you don't like it, you don't like it, what's wrong with him lying to you? You don't know you're back, do you?

All of this is caused by yourself, how old you are, you should pursue the life you want. Don't be afraid of the jokes of the people in the village, let others say, you have to have a backbone, be on point, don't let others laugh at you, this boyfriend, do you think it's necessary to be together again? You can allow your parents to go around talking about the girls you love, such a man is not a man, so don't want it.

If you don't have faith in a marriage, it's better not to enter, if you want to marry, you should marry a man who reassures you and has confidence, you are shaken now, and if he does anything inconsiderate in the future, it will deepen your thoughts, and his parents, if you can't like it, it is impossible to have good fruit to eat after marriage, unless you think you can get their favor, you should focus on yourself before marriage, and after marriage, you must focus on your family, you think you can do it, you will marry, and if you think you can't do it, don't marry.

First, if you marry him, your parents will not give you a good look, and you will not be happy;

Second, this man's quality is too low, but you are also funny that others lie to you and you will follow?

A man who can swear and abuse himself will use foul language to you in the future to quarrel, and a man who is self-abusing has a tendency to be violent, and it will be you who will not be able to abuse it one day.

Thirdly, the man is not self-motivated and cannot afford the responsibilities of a family.

Fourth, without leaving Him, you will never find someone who is more caring and considerate to you.

Conclusion: You won't be happy with him.

Why did he go out and run away with others as soon as he lied to you, to be honest, you asked for it! Forget it, this kind of man just wants to trick you home, and he's still the kind of unkind person, who likes to talk nonsense, and you won't have a good life after you get married. Do you think you can communicate with a man of virtue like this?

If I were you, I would resolutely ignore him, he likes to bump into him, and he will be killed cleanly. If you don't plan for your life, sooner or later you will regret it, and while you are not too old now, you can talk about it yourself, and if others can introduce a good one, you can introduce a good one. Marriage is a lifelong thing, so let's do it for yourself!