After meeting, I became very cold, why is it good to meet and cold to separate?

The problem you need to solve now is how to make the text message status transition into your daily life.

Girls may be a little shy when they talk face-to-face, and they can speak unscrupulously on the Internet, but they can't speak when they meet, so you take the initiative to talk to her, and make more appointments to come out and have fun! More than 1,000 text messages a week show that he doesn't reject you and likes to chat with you. Come on.

Sometimes it's not just a matter of being nice to her, what she likes and doesn't like, and sometimes it's better to listen to what she wants than to talk more.

Well, you're the kind of person who is called seeing the light and is dead. Let's make a substitution. Don't do the useless work.

She likes handsome guys, that's all.

I think you can ask her directly.

Some people meet very well, maybe this is an illusion, of course, people must be smiling when they meet you, it is impossible to say that they have a straight face, which also represents a kind of respect for others, in fact, he doesn't like you in his heart.

In this way, if you finally separate, people may no longer be enthusiastic about you, so it will usually end very coldly.

Of course, this is not absolute, because some people are really good to meet you, and people think that the impression is very good, so they will be reluctant to give up when they finally separate.

The reason may be that you are feeling good when you meet, or it may be that the other person is pretending. Or maybe he's such a character. I'm not very good at socializing with other people, so it feels good to meet each other, but it's cold when I'm separated.

This is the so-called people go tea cool!

If you meet a girl once, the other party will obviously become cold and can't continue to chat. If this happens to you, be sure to talk about it. I'll tell you why, as well as how to fix it.

Three points are the most important. First of all, in this case, even if the two parties have established the most basic sense of connection, so the girl will agree to go out alone with you. The most important thing at this time is not to determine whether he has feelings for you, such as deliberately saying comforting words to him or doing something to him, but to build your trust in the girl's confidence through face-to-face opportunities.

So how do you gain a girl's trust?

The first point is to choose an environment where he feels comfortable when meeting a girl. When the environment itself makes him feel uncomfortable and unsafe, it is difficult for anything you say or do to get into his heart.

The second point is to build trust in the details. For example, when crossing the street and walking on the outside of a girl, when you are in the elevator, take the initiative to stand behind him, etc., to show that you are respecting him and taking him seriously.

The third point is that the most fundamental sense of trust is still ** in your openness, your character and truthfulness, and don't pretend that others have to play yourself, express your own opinions calmly, and don't twist or pretend. Finally, remember that as long as the other person has a sense of trust in you, it is very easy for the next date to have a good outcome.

There is a saying that people are afraid of meeting, and trees are afraid of peeling their skins. He may be able to speak with basic politeness when they meet. So it will give you the illusion that it is good to meet.

After separation, he was very cold, and this is his true heart. Sometimes I really take other people's so-called politeness as care. Treat politeness when meeting with enthusiasm.

That's why it will cause a very cold psychological gap in separation.

Why is it good to meet and cold when separated? This may be related to the personality of the two people, maybe both of them are more introverted, and it is definitely not easy to get along if they are introverted, or they need to communicate more, so as to enhance the relationship between the two people.

This is going to talk about people, some people can't pull their faces in person, no matter how much they are dissatisfied with others, but they will be very polite on the surface. After separation, there is no superficial effort.

It may be that Haian doesn't understand and is unfamiliar, so they separated. If you can't find a topic, you should talk about something, and if you communicate more slowly, you will be enthusiastic and you will understand.