The child is too timid and introverted, how can parents cultivate her courage?

If the child is too timid, parents should encourage the child more every day, have the courage to let the child try something that he has not done before, and encourage the child more no matter how well she behaves.

You should often take your child to play with other children, encourage them more, let them express their opinions boldly, and exercise their courage.

Parents can encourage their children more, and then they can also take their children to participate in more large-scale activities, and at the same time, they should also take their children to communicate and play with other children.

First of all, parents should improve their personality and let their children know that their parents are optimistic and positive. Second, take your child out to play with other children. In the end, let him run for the class cadre.

Take her out for a walk so that she can meet different people and be able to let go of her mind.

1. Accept and tolerate children's personality traits. In the face of new people or things, introverted children will definitely need more time to accept and adapt than extroverted children. At this time, they need to be more tolerant and cautious, instead of being accused of "why are you so rude" and "why don't you take the initiative to say hello".

It makes no sense to blindly compare yourself with a down-and-out extroverted child, and it will only hit your child's self-confidence.

Therefore, when the child meets someone they don't know and needs to say hello, parents can say hello first and then introduce the other party to the child, such as missing the draft: "This is Aunt Zhang, my mother's colleague, sitting next to my mother." "This is Uncle Chen, you came to our house when you were a child, but you may not remember.

2. Guide children to accept new things. For particularly introverted children, parents can start with people and things that they are familiar with and guide them to accept new things step by step. For example, invite relatives, friends, or playmates to the house.

When taking your child to an unfamiliar place or meeting someone you don't know, get a "vaccination" with your child in advance. For example, "Wait a minute, Aunt Wu is coming." It's the aunt who gave you a car on your birthday.

We go to the supermarket to buy groceries first, then go to the bakery to buy some bread, and then come back.

3. Create networking opportunities. It's true that introverted children need more companionship and guidance, but they can't just be confined to a comfortable and wide area. Over-protection can encourage children's rejection of new things.

When your child is young, you can create more opportunities in your life for your child to come into contact with strangers. For example, if you buy something and ask your child how much it is and pay for it, if you eat in a restaurant, ask your child to ask the waiter to order, and if you don't know the direction, ask your child to ask for directions, etc. You can also let your child play with other children in the community, take your child to parties or group activities, invite other children to play at home, etc.

All the purpose is to let the child know that strangers are not so scary.

To guide children to be introverted and timid, it is necessary to bring children to contact the outside world more, criticize moderately, use children's interests to increase socialization, and respect children's temper.

1. Take your children to contact the outside world

Some children are afraid of life, mainly due to less contact with the outside world, so if you want to change this state, it is best to take the baby to outdoor activities, let the child have more contact with different groups of people, let the child participate in it, and slowly the child will not be afraid of life.

2. Criticism should be moderate

Generally, introverted children are more self-reliant and rarely get into trouble, but if they do something wrong, parents must pay attention to telling them what the consequences of doing so are and how to solve them after encountering them next time, rather than excessive accusation and criticism, otherwise the child will be too ashamed and guilty, resulting in the loss of even the courage to try and become more introverted.

3. Use your child's interests to increase socialization

For children who are particularly afraid of life, you can also use the child's interest to increase its existing social networking, for example, when the child is more interested in building blocks, you can help him invite some children to play together, so that the child can feel the fun of cooperation, and slowly improve the problem of fear of life.

4. Respect your child's temper

Some children are afraid of life because they are relatively shy and introverted, at this time parents should pay attention to respecting their character and go with the flow, most shy and introverted children 2 7 years old, will overcome the psychology of shyness and become no longer afraid of life, so parents should also learn to respect their children's temperament.