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Many people find that the children of some families are very timid, especially when they want to interact with them, they will hide behind their parents. When seeing these children, many parents must still be distressed. In fact, children who are too introverted and timid are not conducive to their physical and mental health development.
However, some parents prefer such children because they are usually easier to carry. Some people ask, what types of families do most of the introverted and timid children come from? The first type of family is one in which the parents are particularly strict with their children, the second type of family is one in which both parents are introverted, and the third type of family is one in which the parents do not care about their children.
1. Parents are particularly strict with their childrenParents in some families are very strict with their children, and I have seen a child beaten by his parents because he picked up a bottle on the ground, and the reason given by the parents is that the things on the ground are too dirty to touch. Children who were originally very curious about bottles may not dare to touch anything on the ground in the future because of the lessons of their parents. In this kind of strict education of children, children are too depressed, and their personalities will become introverted and timid.
Second, the family personality of both parents is very introverted, and if both parents are very introverted, then their children may also be introverted and timid. Of course, through later training, the child's introverted personality can be changed.
3. There are still some families where parents do not care about their children, and parents basically do not care about their children because they are busy with work. Such children are basically unaccompanied and unaccompanied at home, and there is no one to talk to. Children who have grown up in such an environment for a long time will eventually become less talkative and will be afraid of life.
Children who grow up in these families may be more introverted and timid. Therefore, should parents reflect on their own behavior, in fact, most of them are caused by your improper education that causes children to become introverted.
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Introverted and timid children come from discordant families, most families, parents quarrel all day long, and families from families who only criticize but do not praise.
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Introduction: Many children are more introverted, and the family relationship is related to a certain extent, if the parents are not in harmony, or even have interests, this emotional relationship, will make the child insecure, many times will lead to the child has an inferiority complex, and the personality will be more introverted when they grow up. Some children will be afraid of interpersonal communication and unfamiliar environments without their parents for a long time, which will also lead to introverted personality problems.
You must know that the impact of a good environment on children is very large, for children will have some impact on their lives, if the environment is not good, it is very likely that children will be affected for a lifetime, so parents must pay attention to creating a warm and loving family atmosphere for children, so that children can grow up healthily in this environment, usually give children more opportunities to express their thoughts, but also give children an independent space, let children play freely, Encourage your child to help develop your child's imagination and creativity to the fullest.
Children have introverted problems, but also because children do not have self-confidence, then parents need to help children build self-confidence, to know that anyone needs to be praised, including children. As long as there is self-confidence to help children maximize their potential, for the success of what children are doing, parents must not first take a negative attitude, let children have a little progress, immediately give encouragement, and do not say something to children to hit children, so as to give children equality and respect, so that children feel self-confidence.
Finally, each child's personality is different, you must know that children are not completely introverted, if they are introverted, their learning ability will be stronger, and if they are extroverted, they will be more sociable, parents do not need to worry too much about their children, as long as the children can grow up healthily.
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1. Parents have a flamboyant personality, children will be more introverted, there are backer parents, as long as the child is silently himself, over time, he will not like to socialize; 2. The discord between parents leads to the child's introverted and low self-esteem; 3. Parents go out to work and leave their children at home without the company of their parents, which will also lead to introversion of children.
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It must have something to do with the family environment, parents may be more aggressive from an early age, and then demand their children according to their own standards, and they can't let children have rebuttal opinions, so children are more introverted. It is also possible that in a particularly bad family environment, the parents are constantly arguing, so the child is more introverted and does not like to talk.
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If the family environment is better, the child's personality is better, if the family environment is not good or the parents often quarrel, the child's personality is mostly more introverted, the child is particularly afraid of parental discord, and is also particularly afraid that the parents do not care about themselves, the family environment and the child's personality is inevitably related.
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Introduction: The baby's personality is more introverted, which also has a lot to do with the family environment. If there is a stronger mother, then the baby's personality will be more introverted.
Therefore, parents are also good role models for their children, which also hopes that every parent can get along harmoniously. This can also bring a better performance to the child, and can also make the child feel special warmth. If children are reprimanded by their parents when they are young, it will also make them very introverted at this time.
Therefore, parents should also learn to observe their children's hearts, and never beat and scold their children.
This will also make the child's heart very introverted, and it will also make the child feel inferior. Therefore, it is more important to have a good family atmosphere, so that the child's heart can be more comfortable. Everyone also thinks that parents are the best teachers for their children, so parents also need to be by their children's side.
This can also make the child's heart feel very warm, and it will also let the child have a better character and habits. If there are some parents who quarrel a lot, it is unfortunate that children grow up in such an environment. This will also make the child more introverted and will also give people a feeling of not liking to talk.
Therefore, the education and atmosphere of the family is more important, which also affects the child's life. I also hope that every parent can pay good attention to this matter, so that their children can have a better performance and development. After all, the child's personality is also more important, which also directly affects the child's future life and growth.
Therefore, parents must not ignore these situations, which will also lead to a very bad character of the child. Over time, it will also cause some problems in the child's heart, and it will also affect the child's personality. Every child also hopes to be cared for and loved by their parents, so that they can better satisfy their hearts.
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The baby's introverted personality and family environment are very large, the family environment must be very depressing, parents often quarrel in front of their children, always feel that their children are not good, parents have very high requirements for their children, and hope that their children can develop, and the pressure on children is very great, so the child's personality will be particularly introverted.
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There is a particularly big relationship, it is likely that the family environment is not particularly good, parents do not strengthen education and management, blindly complain or abuse children, and often fight in front of children.
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I think it has a lot to do with the family environment, such as education, quality, spirituality, behavior, and thought.
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Although I have always believed that most of the personalities of each of us are innately determined, this is not absolute, and the acquired growth environment will bring about certain changes in everyone's personality to a greater or lesser extent. Therefore, for those children who are more introverted, some may be born introverted, but some may be formed because of the acquired growth environment. <>
I don't know if you've ever heard the saying: Happy children spend their whole lives being in their childhood, and those unfortunate children need to spend their whole lives in their childhood. This shows how important the environment is for children to grow up.
Although not all children will show their emotions on their faces, it does not mean that those things will not affect them, but some people are better at hiding their emotions. Next, I will talk about the relationship between those children who are more introverted and their family environment. <>
1. Lack of parental love. You must know that not all children can be loved by their parents from birth, and some parents have a really excessive attitude towards their children, they may not realize that there is anything wrong with their behavior, but in fact, it will really affect the fragile heart of the child. Some children really lack the love of their parents since they were young, because they have never enjoyed the love of their fathers and mothers, so they are often sensible relatively early, and it is precisely because they are sensible that they have slowly developed such an introverted character, unwilling to show their emotions in front of others, and unwilling to talk to others more.
2. Not growing up in a loving environment. I think most of those who become introverted because of acquired factors are because they didn't grow up in a loving environment, maybe what they see the most since they were young is the quarrel of their parents, and growing up in such an environment for a long time will definitely have a certain impact on the child's psychology.
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There is a strong mother at home, so it will lead to the baby's personality is a little introverted, and secondly, it may be that when the child is young, he has not done a good job, has been reprimanding the child, and has not taught the child the correct way to deal with things, so the child will become very introverted, and finally it may be because from childhood to adulthood, parents have not been with the child.
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It is very likely that the parents are more obedient to the rules, or the parents are short-tempered and strong, and they will often hit the children, which will cause the child's introverted personality, in fact, the child's introverted personality is also caused by the family environment, most of which are greatly affected.
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On the one hand, it may be because the family atmosphere is relatively quiet, resulting in children not being active under the influence of their parents, and over time they prefer to be alone, so that their personalities are not so active and cheerful. On the other hand, it has something to do with the guidance of parents, who are too strict with their children, causing children to dare not express their thoughts because they are afraid, and over time they become introverted.
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This kind of baby's personality has a great relationship with the family environment, if the family environment is not very good, the child will become introverted, because he is more afraid of timidity, and the parents are always quarrelling.
For the introverted and timid child, the following measures can be used to improve: 1. Encourage more children, for introverted and timid children, parents should try not to simply scold and blame, but encourage children more, so that children's self-confidence will gradually increase, and introverted and timid behaviors will be slowly alleviated. 2. The ingredients of warm bile soup mainly include Banxia, tangerine peel, bamboo ru, etc., which can play a good role in warming the gallbladder, which can improve children's bile deficiency to a certain extent, and a series of symptoms of children's introversion and timidity will be improved.
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