What causes children to be introverted?

Parents always like to use verbal violence to educate their children, resulting in a particularly timid and introverted personality. The first is the living environment of the child's family, it is that parents often blame the child as usual, the child is psychologically timid, which will lead to the child being introverted for a long time, and the child is often not recognized, which will make them very introverted. Have you found out what the world thinks of introverts, when making friends, the world mostly chooses character, followed by character.

Just like meeting netizens, we can only look at faces and understand a little about the characters, but we don't know the characters.

It sometimes takes decades or even a lifetime to get to know someone, and most people don't like to talk to introverts. They don't like to talk. In fact, the world does not know that many introverts are eager for others to talk to or say hello to them first.

Introverts don't say hello first, they need your initiative. Since introverts can't set the mood on the spot, they need you to liven up the atmosphere. Introverts don't necessarily talk less than you, but they don't like to talk more, but they like to think.

Life TriviaWhen everyone is in full swing of conversation, introverts may know more than you do. But they don't want to talk about these things, because a lot of people talk about topics that everyone knows, it's an introvert's idea. They like to talk to others about unfamiliar topics like things they don't know, or they are willing to listen to things they don't know.

Some introverts don't like to say hello. They have already greeted you in their hearts. Just pay attention to his eyes and you can see it.

An introvert is an equal standard for people, and he either talks to anyone. Either don't talk to anyone. You need to know a logic that may seem strange:

It's not that an introvert doesn't talk to you, it's that you don't talk to him. An extrovert usually mingles with everyone, but when something big happens, he is likely to hide far away, and there is a kind of introvert, although he usually has little contact with everyone, but when there is a problem in principle or something big happens, he will suddenly stand up to help you, which is very strange and different.

I think it may be that the parenting style of the parents has caused the child's personality to be more introverted, and it may be that the parents are too strict with the child.

It may be because of family factors, or it may be because the child's personality is born this way, or it may be because of external factors. And it could be because the child was being bullied at school. But I think it's probably because of the child's insecurity.

Therefore, when the child has this situation, we must pay attention to the child in time and do not bring unnecessary trouble to the child.

It is likely that the child's original personality is also affected by the family environment or the parents' attitude towards the child, and the child's personality is more introverted.

The original family is unhappy, parents will always quarrel in front of their children, no matter what the children do, parents will always deny the children, and it may be that the genetics will cause the children to be introverted.

The child's personality becomes introverted because the parents have not been with the child since childhood, so the child's personality has deviated. And it can also be seen that there are many reasons for the child's introversion, and parents must know what the reasons for the child's introversion are in order to improve this phenomenon. Moreover, children will also experience some psychological blows in the process of growing up, and if these blows are not channeled in time, then the child will have a psychological shadow.

At this time, the child does not like to talk and is unwilling to communicate with anyone, so the child will eventually become introverted, and some children have this phenomenon at birth. When pregnant, the pregnant mother was frightened, at this time the child will perceive this scene in the attached middle school, and then lack a sense of security, after the child is born, this sense of security will gradually weaken, then the personality will become particularly introverted.

And when parents educate their children, they must not protect their children excessively. Because of excessive protection of children, it is impossible to communicate with the outside world, so at this time children will have a lot of introverted performance. In fact, children are the most difficult existence in the world to understand, because many of the emotions of children cannot be felt by everyone.

At the same time, children are very stubborn and unwilling to say what they think, so parents must enlighten their children's hearts when educating their children. Then let the child learn to tell and share his thoughts with others, so that the child will change this introverted behavior.

Then the child's future will become particularly outgoing and lively. Learn to be more open-minded and make more friends. At this time, children will not make people feel introverted, in fact, introversion is not a derogatory term, but it is not a positive word, between derogatory and praise.

Introversion sometimes feels calm, but introversion can sometimes make people feel difficult to get along with, and children can only become the best version of themselves when they cross this gap.

Parents may be very introverted, or their children will always be oppressed in life, so they will become introverted, or parents may fight in front of their children.

Family environment, school factors, personal factors, economic factors, genetic factors, these reasons can all lead to a child's introverted personality, reluctance to contact others, and preference for playing alone.

Family factors, environmental factors, genetic factors, and stress are the causes.

Usually not very gregarious, do not like to play with children, love to play by themselves; Work is very serious and meticulous; Don't like to talk, don't like to communicate with people, and are easy to be embarrassed in crowded situations; Easily shy and likes to hide behind crowds; I don't like to listen to other people's opinions and like to be alone; I love to hear praise and praise, and I want to be recognized.

1.Introverted children love to play on their own and are not very gregarious.

2.Introverted children are very conscientious and meticulous in their work.

3.Introverted children are taciturn and do not like to talk to people.

4.Introverted children are easily embarrassed in front of the public.

5.Introverted children are easily shy and often hide behind crowds.

6.Introverted children are shy about doing things, often worrying about this and that.

7.Introverted children are less willing to accept orders from others and go it alone.

8.Introverted children love to hear praise and need their approval.

In China, children's education has always been the most concerned issue for parents. The expectations for the deceased Jackie Zan and the female peak have never changed naturally. But many parents try to educate their children, but in the end they put in more effort, and even the children develop in the opposite direction of their parents' expectations, which greatly troubles the parents.

Sometimes cheerful parents educate children with low self-esteem and cowardice, and sometimes gentle parents educate extremely rebellious children. The child's personality is influenced by the personality of the parents, but it is more dependent on the education of the parents. So let's talk about parental education today.

What makes children inferior and introverted, children are inferior and introverted characters, most of them are because parents don't give this kind of thing, so don't take it seriously, parents don't give their children enough love, you know, although children are young, they are very sensitive to their parents' love, and enough love from parents is the child's sense of security, and it is difficult for children with a sense of security to form an inferiority complex. What kind of love is enough love? For example, if parents cannot spend all year round with their children in order to earn money, even if the parents love the child's material satisfaction, the child will not feel the full love of the parents, and may even feel that the parents do not love him.

There is a family that is not financially well-off, usually lives very frugally, or often cries with the children and lives poorly, the children are financially far away from other classmates, in addition, if the parents are not negligent in time, the child's self-esteem will be hit at school and at home, and he will feel inferior. The latter example is that parents do not seem to give their children enough love, but in fact timely psychological counseling is also a manifestation of parents' love for their children. If a family is poor, but often tells him that poverty is only temporary and that he can live a good life, then the child is not prone to inferiority complex either.

Parents often discourage their children.

Children need encouragement, and psychological research has shown that among the four groups that do the same thing, the encouraged group has a greater effect than the criticized group. As mentioned above, the child's heart is very sensitive. If parents do not often encourage or even criticize their children, children are prone to develop an inferiority complex.

For example, children have their own ideas and suggestions on everything. Not very mature, but most parents ignore and say to their children: "You are a child, what do you know?"

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It is because parents are very strict in their education and put a lot of pressure on their children, so they will cause their children to be particularly introverted.

Generally speaking, it is mainly the influence of the family of origin, which may be because the parents have little to say to each other, or often ineffective communication and disputes. It may also be because parents do not take time out to spend with their children, resulting in children not having someone to talk to. Leads to introversion in the child.

It is likely that the child is very introverted because of family reasons, or because of genetic reasons, or because the parents do not like to talk, or because the child lacks self-confidence, so it leads to introversion.

Introduction: Everyone is born with different personalities, and the reasons for the formation of these personalities are different, but it is because of these different personalities that the world is so colorful. So in this process, there are some personalities that seem to be not very suitable for social development, and even parents will not like them, such as children's introverted personality, so what are the reasons for introversion?

Some children are indeed more introverted than others, even if the acquired environment is not affected, this is probably due to the influence of innate factors. For example, all the children in a family are particularly optimistic and outgoing, but there is only one child who does not like to talk and is relatively shy. It can be seen that it may be influenced by innate factors.

Parental education is the reason why the vast majority of children are introvertedBecause there are some parents who are more aggressive and do not respect their children's opinions in the process of educating their children. Often belittle the child and force the child to do something he does not want to do. In such a situation, the child will become more reticent, and he does not like to talk when he sees the living, and he is very introverted.

In fact, this is also related to family education, and it can also be improved through family education.

The environment in which children grow up may also be introverted, for example, some children will change their temperament after entering school, because they cannot adapt to school life. And there may be some school violence in the school, which leads to the physical and mental destruction of the children, and in the process there is a change in personality. If parents can't find and solve it in time at this time, they may let this character accompany the child for a lifetime.

However, there is nothing wrong with such a trait as introversion, and the most important thing is to maintain an attitude of understanding. Besides, everyone's personality is different, there is no need to force it, everyone's personality is optimistic and cheerful.

The first reason is influenced by parents, the relationship between parents is not good, they often fight, quarrels will affect the psychology of children, causing them to be introverted, and the second is congenital reasons. Thirdly, frequent attacks and criticisms of children can also lead to introversions.

Children are introverted because they are more afraid, afraid to contact others, and afraid of life, which is caused by these problems.

It may be caused by genes, parents are introverts, and family education is caused by family education, the family doesn't talk much, doesn't know how to express emotions, and doesn't know how to share.

A child's introverted personality may be caused by family factors, environmental factors, social factors and other reasons.