Why can t Xue Baochai get Wang Xifeng s liking?

When <> Baochai first came to Jiafu, Lin Daiyu was very angry, thinking that Xue Baochai had robbed her of her halo. The text says, "I think there is a Xue Baochai suddenly now, although he is not much older, but he has a good character and a beautiful appearance, and many people say that Daiyu is beyond his reach." Moreover, Baochai's behavior is open-minded, and when he obeys, he is not as tall as Daiyu, and he has no dust, so he is bigger than Daiyu and has the heart of others.

It's those little girls who also like to joke with Baochai. Therefore, Daiyu felt a little depressed and resentful in her heart, "There is a sentence in this text that is particularly interesting, that is, "Therefore, it is bigger than Daiyu to win the hearts of people", that is to say, from the master level, Lin Daiyu is more popular than Xue Baochai, can it be understood in this way? I think it's still possible.

For example, Wang Xifeng; Wang Xifeng treats Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai with two completely different attitudes, Wang Xifeng likes Lin Daiyu more, she and Lin Daiyu are more intimate from her speech and demeanor, of course, she does not deny the factor that Jia's mother particularly dotes on Lin Daiyu, but this should not be an absolute factor or a subjective factor. The ancients had a saying that was particularly good, wine is less than a thousand cups of confidants, and words are not speculative for more than half a sentence. Wang Xifeng and Lin Daiyu are both particularly clever people, so they have similar temperaments and close contacts.

Looking at Wang Xifeng's very polite attitude towards Xue Baochai. Let's think about it carefully, there is a particularly interesting phenomenon in the first 80 texts of Cao Xueqin, that is, Wang Xifeng and Xue Baochai have not had a face-to-face dialogue, and the two of them have not spoken directly to such two important women, which should not be in my impression, which is particularly strange.

There has always been such a title in Dream of Red Mansions, which arouses the curiosity of readers. For example, Lin Daiyu is called Miss Lin, and Xue Baochai is called Miss Bao or Girl. In particular, Mrs. Wang called Lin Daiyu a big girl, and Baochai called a treasure girl, and she knew it at a glance.

However, Wang Xifeng's name for Xue Lin Erchai is just the opposite, and the text reads, "Besides, Lin Yatou and Bao Girl are good," Wang Xifeng called Lin Daiyu Lin Yatou, which is a very intimate title, but called Bao Chai Bao Girl. It stands to reason that the relationship between Wang Xifeng and Xue Baochai should be closer in terms of blood, because they are cousins. However, no matter how hard Xue Baochai tried, he failed to get Wang Xifeng's peace of mind, sighing!

First, Baochai and Wang Xifeng's personalities are incompatible. Wang Xifeng is spicy and refreshing, and he doesn't like to hide it. Baochai doesn't care about his own business and doesn't speak, he shakes his head when he asks, of course Wang Xifeng won't like it.

Second, conflicts of interest. Wang Xifeng's current housekeeping rights were given by Mrs. Wang, not because Mrs. Wang took a fancy to Wang Xifeng, but because she didn't have a choice for the time being. The eldest daughter-in-law, Li Kun, is a widow, so the second daughter-in-law must take back the housekeeping when she enters the door.

How could Wang Xifeng, who was greedy for power, be willing? Although Daiyu has the talent of a housekeeper, her body does not allow it, and entering the door will not affect Wang Xifeng. Once Baochai enters the door, Mrs. Wang is afraid that she will not wait for a day.

Deep and deep, less contact. When my sister was flattering Jia's mother, she called Sister Feng and Feng girl", do you say that Wang Xifeng will like this momentum?

Sister Feng and Daiyu are more in love, and they both say that they are more "mean", but in fact, they are quick to react and can always hear the laughter in other people's words for the first time.

In Wang Xifeng's view, Xue Baochai is calm and low-key, too difficult to grasp, unpredictable, who is she, as the general manager, she can only stay away.

Because Xue Baochai's arrival threatened the interests of Wang Xifeng's rights, Wang Xifeng cared too much about her status as a housekeeper and grandmother, and Lin Daiyu had nothing else to think about except for her relationship with Jia Baoyu's children, so Wang Xifeng advocated Lin Daiyu instead of Xue Baochai in Baoyu's marriage!

1, Wang Xifeng knew that Jia's mother didn't like Lin Daiyu at this time, so in order to please Jia's mother, Wang Xifeng chose to support Xue Baochai. And at present, Jia's mother is still in good health, and Wang Xifeng must follow closely for such a backer.

2, Wang Xifeng is overconfident and arrogant. Wang Xifeng didn't know that Baochai had a great ability in managing the family, but because of Wang Xifeng's arrogance. She didn't feel that Baochai would pose a threat to her.

Therefore, another reason why Wang Xifeng chose Baochai is that she didn't take Baochai in her eyes at all.

3. If Wang Xifeng chooses Lin Daiyu, she thinks it will be the biggest disadvantage to her at this time. Because she clearly knew Mother Jia's thoughts and Mrs. Wang's intentions, but she still wanted to go against them, which was very unwise.

4. The issue of status and power. Lin Daiyu's popularity in Jiafu is really bad, Wang Xifeng originally made too many enemies, she couldn't choose Lin Daiyu to make herself the target of public criticism.

From the ancient road: you can't have both fish and bear's paws. It's all a pain of choice, but it's even harder to choose between dislike and dislike.

It is said that poor people must have something to hate, but in fact, Xue Baochai and Wang Xifeng are both hateful and pitiful characters.

originally didn't like Xue Baochai, but later when I grew up, I got more contact with "Dream of Red Mansions" and became more and more aware of Xue Baochai, I can't simply understand her, and I can't just hate her, especially girls.

Xue Baochai is virtuous and considerate, knowledgeable, dignified, elegant and extraordinary, she is "obedient" everywhere, and her every move appears "dignified and virtuous", and she is a standard lady in feudal society. In terms of talent, she is the only talented woman in the Grand View Garden who can compete with Lin Daiyu, but she always restricts herself and regulates others with "a woman is virtuous if she is not talented". In life, she also has a beauty-loving nature and high aesthetic ability, but she often consciously or unconsciously stifles or suppresses her hobbies and tastes.

Since she is a lady of feudal social standards, she is realistic and utilitarian, and Xue Baochai rarely seeks anything for herself.

If I had to choose, I would choose Wang Xifeng.

Wang Xifeng is recognized as an eight-sided exquisite character in "Dream of Red Mansions", taking advantage of Daiyu's first entry into Jia's mansion to please Jia's mother, and has a strong ability to steer the rudder when he sees the wind. Wang Xifeng is decisive in killing, dares to tear his face, and has rich experience. She assisted Ning Guofu and handled Qin Keqing's funeral, which was the most effective proof that her housekeeping ability was recognized.

The fourteenth round: "So the people in the Ning Mansion knew the benefits and disadvantages of Sister Feng." Since then, they have been working hard and dare not steal peace.

Everything is redundant and complicated, and it is difficult to describe everything, so Sister Feng was so busy that she had no intention of tea and dinner, and she was restless, and when she arrived at Ningfu, the people from Rongfu here followed, and when she returned to Rongfu, the people from Ningfu followed her. Although Sister Feng is so busy, she is also competitive, lest she be praised and criticized; Therefore, it was painstakingly planned very neatly; So the people in the He clan all praised it. ”

set up the Acacia Bureau to harm Jia Rui, Sister Feng secretly lent money, forced Brother Jin and his wife, and designed to harm Second Sister You. Wang Xifeng's ruthless and vicious criminal evidence, her fierce personality and decisive actions, the heroine in the proper fat powder team, can't understand the truth of "why should women be embarrassed by women".

I will hate Xue Baochai even more, because Xue Baochai is an eight-sided and exquisite person, who will not give his sincerity to anyone, and is a more hypocritical person.

Wang Xifeng. Because her heart is very ruthless, she killed people, and she also gave away money. is already a mature wealthy lady.

Xue Baochai. Because Xue Baochai is very scheming, and she treats her friends very abnormally, and hates her even more.

I hate Wang Xifeng even more. Because she's so sleek, and she's always very arrogant. And it's also very high-profile.

I hate Wang Xifeng even more. Because I think she has a very rude personality, and she won't show mercy to others, which is very harsh.