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Anonymous users2024-02-15I don't know how to comfort you to give you a satisfactory answer, I'll just talk about my thoughts: not all topics between boyfriends and girlfriends have to be consistent, and not every topic of conversation finds a lot of resonance, even if it is a good friend and confidant, it can only be said that most of the hobbies and interests are in tune, people's life background, life experience and all aspects of education affect people's personality, habits, and hobbies. If the temper between boyfriend and girlfriend is appropriate, it is not necessarily necessary to be a discussant in the conversation, and it is not bad to be a listener once in a while.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Actually, you just need to talk to him about your future plans or something. People always have to have some goals. He didn't say anything to comfort you, maybe he just wanted to talk to you and find someone to talk to.
You can listen to what he has to say. In fact, when people are in the country, they always feel that they are in the middle of their responsibilities, and there will be some pressure.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13It doesn't matter who you're with, as long as the two of you plan to be together, you're going to talk about the problem, you're 21 years old, you should be able to think about how you're going to live in the future, and then tell him what you think.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12This shows that he is giving you a guarantee! Rest assured that he is a motivated person! Have faith in Him! Bless you all!
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Fate is destined by nature, it is yours after all, it is not your forcible request and it may not be permanent, and letting go will help you have, let him go, if it is not yours, he will leave sooner or later. Let's calm down!
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Anonymous users2024-02-10How do you say it As far as you describe it, I don't think you are suitable A man has to work hard when he goes out, but you are only 21 years old, and you two have only known him for a short time. So let him go, and I think you'll meet a better one.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09After getting acquainted on a blind date, if you want to further develop your relationship, you can consider the following:
1.Keep in touch: In the early stages of getting to know each other, you can maintain a moderate amount of contact, such as through **, text messages, social **, etc., to understand each other's lives, interests, and ideas.
2.Understand each other: In the process of Sun Pin's communication, you can understand each other's personality, family background, occupation, hobbies and other aspects of information through conversation, communication, etc., and further understand each other's inner world.
3.Dating: You can agree on some suitable times and places for dating, such as watching movies, walking, eating and other activities to enhance the relationship.
4.Respect each other: In the process of communication, respect each other's opinions and decisions, do not force or oppress each other, and maintain mutual respect and understanding.
5.Express feelings: If the relationship gradually deepens, you can express your feelings at the right time, such as saying "I like you", but don't rush or take the initiative.
In short, after getting to know each other on a blind date, you should gradually get to know each other through communication, dating, etc., respect each other, express your feelings, and slowly develop a romantic relationship.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08In my opinion, blind dates do not mean that they immediately become boyfriend and girlfriend, because two strangers need time to contact, communicate, and understand each other to determine whether they have a crush on each other, and then decide whether to establish a romantic relationship. Hope mine is helpful to you.
1. A blind date does not necessarily mean that a romantic relationship is established.
In traditional Chinese culture, blind date is one of the ways in which marriage is introduced, with the purpose of giving both parties the opportunity to get to know each other and decide whether the relationship can be further developed. Blind dates are usually not a process of determining a relationship immediately, but rather a process of trying to establish initial contact and understanding.
2. Blind date is the process of determining whether you have a good impression of each other.
In the process of blind date, both parties need to establish initial contact and understanding. Through communication, both parties can learn about each other's occupations, hobbies, living habits and other basic information, and see if there are common topics and hobbies. If you have a good feeling, you can go on a date to learn more about the other person's personality traits, family background, and other information.
Only on the basis of mutual understanding can a real emotional foundation be established with each other.
3. The relationship needs to be confirmed by both parties.
The final form and process of establishing a relationship needs to be decided by both parties and the wishes of the other party should be respected. If both partners have a crush and the other person is willing to enter into a romantic relationship, the relationship can be further developed.
To sum up, blind date is just the process of establishing initial contact. The final form and process of establishing a relationship needs to be decided by both parties and the wishes of the other party should be respected. Hope mine is able to solve your doubts.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07If both parties are satisfied, the relationship is confirmed under this premise, and it is love, and if the other party does not take a fancy to each other, it will not be counted.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Answer: Blind date refers to the process of two people who do not know each other meeting on a specially built matchmaker or blind date platform, and then determine whether to establish a romantic relationship. In traditional Chinese culture, parents often play an important role in their children's love affairs.
Therefore, blind date has always been an important way to make friends in the traditional Chinese view of marriage and love. However, I think it varies from person to person as to whether or not you need to confirm a relationship.
The essence of a blind date is to help two people who don't know each other get to know each other through matchmakers or platforms, establish connections and have the opportunity to become lovers. Through continuous communication, you can gradually understand each other's interests, family background, beliefs, and personality traits to judge whether they are suitable for together. A romantic relationship can be built gradually when both parties feel comfortable and are willing to get to know each other better.
From this point of view, it is part of the blind date process to confirm whether or not a romantic relationship is established.
Whether the blind date needs to confirm the relationship should depend on the specific situation, first of all, both parties are voluntary, and secondly, both people have their own thoughts and feelings, such as some people, in the blind date process, they have a good impression of the partner they talked about, and they need to express their sincerity in time to determine the relationship. For some people, it may take more time to think about whether to start a relationship, so that they can get to know each other gradually and avoid hasty decisions.
Blind date is a way to get to know others, so whether the blind date is suitable and whether there is an emotional basis is related to the outcome of the blind date. Establishing a romantic relationship is an emotional matter between people, and how to choose between the two parties requires their own rational thinking. Before deciding to enter into a romantic relationship, you should carefully consider your psychological, economic and social status, as well as the qualities displayed by the other person, in order to avoid unnecessary psychological and physical distress and emotional damage.
Therefore, I believe that whether it is necessary to confirm the relationship in the process of blind date is different from person to person, depending on the feelings and specific circumstances of both parties, and it can be carried out if both parties are willing, but the consequences need to be carefully considered. Everyone should pay attention to their feelings, cherish their right to choose, keep growing and refining their inner qualities, be rational in love, cultivate trust and respect, and accumulate more wisdom and energy for their future life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-056 principles of blind date and love, harvest two-way love!
1. The core needs of getting along in loveTo be worshipped. Gentle.
is supported. Security.
Romantic. Pampered and coaxed.
2. The problem of getting along with each other in loveEconomic problems.
Problems with communication.
Three views of the problem. 3. Three more people who get along in lovePay more attention to each other's changes.
Discover more of each other's strengths.
Say more positive things.
4. Three young people who get along in loveComplain less. Less blame.
Less misunderstanding. 5. Fall in love and get along everywhereThink more about the other person's benefits.
Appreciate each other's strengths.
Be considerate of the other person's difficulties.
Be tolerant of each other's shortcomings.
6. The four commons of love and getting alongA common purpose in life.
A common living environment.
Common life topics.
Friends in common life.
ps: know how to cherish, only deserve to have.
I wish you all the best of luck!!
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Anonymous users2024-02-04The love of a blind date is very unstable, because when you go on a blind date, neither of you know each other, nor do you know who the other party is, so there will be a lot of contradictions between you when you fall in love on a blind date. If both of you are very rational people, you can have a very romantic relationship through blind dates, and if you are both more emotional people, you may be hurt by this relationship. So when you fall in love on a blind date, you must think clearly about your relationship and don't let yourself regret it.
If both of you are very realistic people, then you don't fall in love, because when you are in love.
I'm glad to answer this question for you See your description of this question My personal opinion and advice to you is this: First of all, you describe whether you need to confess when you meet on a blind date, and then see your description below, You have known each other for more than a month, and you have met six times, but you feel that now, two people can't break through that layer of relationship, and they have been getting along with each other like ordinary friends, and you want to break through this layer of relationship, and you are thinking about whether you can only break through after confessing, or continue to get along with ordinary friends in this way Your description of this problem Well, first of all, confession must be a very good thing, and it is a very formal ceremony, right? Yes, you know each other on a blind date, and it proves that the two of you don't hate each other, at least, because there is still a certain difference between blind date and falling in love, and falling in love may go from a colleague, from a neighbor or from a classmate, to a good friend, from a good friend to a boyfriend and girlfriend, and it takes a process to determine the relationship, and the blind date is generally going to get married So since two people can talk for more than a month, and you have seen each other six times a month, it proves that you have a good impression of each other, and if you want to break through this relationship, it must be that you are in a hurry, so my personal advice to you here is not too abrupt, too abrupt to confess, and suddenly say, hey, do you want us to be together, then the two of you are now together Because you are in contact with each other after a blind date, you are both rushing to get married, and the two of you are going to meet now with that feeling, but what There's no real development, not even holding hands, not hugging, these are the things, I think you shouldn't rush to confess now, and don't get along with this ordinary friend, but make an appointment, don't think about it so much, just talk to him casually, don't take him too seriously, the more you take it, the more nervous you are, the more you don't know how to talk about it, talk about life, talk about something, get in touch more, let you both get to know each other, and then you can tactfully say to him, hey, you see we've been in contact for a while, what do you think of me, you go and ask him like this And then if he asks you in turn, you just say to him, hey, I think you're pretty good, and then I think you're quite suitable for me, and our values should be very compatible, and I still like you, and I like you like this, and I say it, and I think you're not bad, so you say, for example, I think you're good, then you say, well, should we confirm the relationship now, and then give me the opportunity to let me protect you, let's two of us together, one style, say this, so to confess, Ji has confession, and also expresses his feelings, this way is still relatively easy to accept So I personally think it's better for you to do this, and the above is my personal answer and advice to you, I hope this answer can solve the confusion in your mind, solve the doubt in your heart, and finally wish you life
I've been in this situation for a while, and it ended in failure. It's the same as you. Since it is a blind date, it will be successful if it is in the phase, and it will not be successful if it is not in the match. When she says this, she means that she doesn't have a match. Saying that he was a friend was just a polite refusal. >>>More
This one cannot be generalized. Relatively speaking, the love of childhood sweethearts has an emotional foundation, and the interests are light, and the blind date is very pragmatic from the beginning, to see the economic conditions, appearance conditions, educational qualifications, character conditions, etc., and then slowly cultivate feelings, during this period the bond between the two is mainly reciprocal, of course, this interest is not only money, but also the ability to take care of each other, satisfaction with life, expectations for the future, the degree of difference in living habits, etc., In short, such a love or marriage becomes easy to measure in terms of things (real or imaginary). And there is an emotional foundation, there are good memories of the past and the fit of life habits formed together for a long time between the two, relatively speaking, they are more able to withstand the test of life crisis, and those who come together from a blind date are more likely to fly separately in a big disaster, the most important thing is that the blind date itself has a great probability of failure, because two people are not necessarily suitable, but this is not suitable for you to get along to a certain extent to find out, so the blind date itself is not so reliable, so many people have to meet many times. >>>More
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Then you just hold on for a month, I also have your experience, don't hit ** say some boring nonsense, care more, she has a strong psychological defense line because of a single parent, in other words, she doesn't get enough love, don't dare to give your emotions easily, this requires you to melt slowly, hold on for a while, and then you can see it in a month or two, there are three situations 1, she was moved by you, changed for you, 2 took the initiative to share with you, 3 still don't believe your feelings for her, If she is still in love with you as always, it means that she is a sullen melon, you can weigh it, if you really love her, then you have to adapt to her, if you don't love much, break it up as soon as possible, if she can't change it for you, it will be like this life when you get married in the future.