What can make past lovers hate you so much

Updated on psychology 2024-08-01
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's hard for me to see your question, and it's not clear what you have to say about your feelings, so I can't say much. All I can say is that there are two reasons why he faced you in this way after he broke up with you.

    1.There is no quality type, he just wants to vent his inner dissatisfaction with you by doing something to make you ugly, or even scolding you, it doesn't matter if a man like this wants it or not.

    2.Savage boyfriend type, he wants to make you pay attention to him through some radical behavior, a man like this actually still cares about you, but the way he expresses it is a little excessive, or his naturally tough personality makes him not take the initiative to reunite with you, so it can only attract your attention and impress him in your heart. If that's the case, I think it's worth talking to him so that it doesn't make both parties uncomfortable.

    As for what kind of personality he is, you have to learn from some details of what he usually does, or from his friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    He just wants you to have no illusions about him. If he treats you like this, why do you have to be with him? It's not a person's fault that they're separated, since he doesn't know how to cherish you, you have to learn to love yourself!

    There will always be someone who knows how to appreciate you! He loses you, proving that it was his loss!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    There is some truth in what you say on the first floor, but it's not all right, everything has to be divided into people......Have you ever done something to be sorry for him? Do you always get angry with him and play tricks with him? If you think about it, if you don't have any of these, then he really doesn't like to be with you anymore, and there is no drama anymore......Needless to say.

    Forget it then, there are many, many more that are okay and suitable for you, don't hang yourself from a tree, hoho ......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Because he hates you very much now, men like the new and hate the old, and they get tired of it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    At first glance, it's a flowery intestine, even if you are together, will you be happy? Something that doesn't care how you feel at all. It's divided, when is the time to repay each other...You forgot about him, hurry up and start your new life...Wishing you happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    nnd embarrassment back! What the hell is he.

    points, there is nothing to be nostalgic about, he is not worth it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Being together is because we love each other, since we have loved each other, why hate them. Since it is now divided, it is fate that is gone, why hate someone who has truly loved each other. Keep him in your heart as a memory. Bless him. You will live with ease. It's true.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    So what do you have to hate him! Once you figure it out, you may be able to free yourself from the idea that you hate him!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Haha, time can help you, and there is nothing else but time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Caring is related to hate. If you hate him, it means that you still care about him, and you think about hating him all day long, but you are actually thinking about him in disguise. Atmospheric, living for yourself, indulging in the hatred of the past, how to face new feelings?

    Forget it, don't think about it, don't care about it, it's over after all, what can you get back from hating him? What can you expect him to do for you? Or curse him for not having a good life?

    Instead of thinking about him hurting you, it is better to seal the happiness in your memory, and let the hurt go away like sand in the wind, which is the most comfortable for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't love him, you won't hate

    Actually, you're sad yourself.

    It takes time to make it feel like it's gone.

    It is important not to allow yourself to live in pain and to learn to let go.

    Happiness and sadness are all your own, wouldn't it be nice to be more happy.

    It doesn't have to be him.

    Girls don't be so stupid.

    If you can, you can talk about why you hate him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why should you bother? If you can't put it down, you can't say you can't put it down, what is ruthless or not! Tired and wronged, there is enough grievances, there is no need to hurt yourself for a person who no longer loves, this world is like this, feelings can't withstand any wind and rain!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yesterday is gone, today is playing out, and tomorrow is full of hope. Treat it calmly with a peaceful mind, if you love enough, then accept it, and let it go if it is not enough. Sinking into the past has nothing to make up for, and it is what we should do to fly to tomorrow today.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No one can change the past! Why are you holding on?

    When will you be able to get your head!

    The past has already happened, and the future is worth looking forward to! If you go on like this, you will never be happy!

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The past is like smoke, just look down on it! Also, cherish the time we spend together now!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Be honest, don't take the initiative to mention it, and don't care. The most important thing is to be together now and enjoy each other's love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Who didn't order it!! Try to reach out to your current people so that they know about your changes. Feelings are cultivated in constant contact, don't lose to yourself, face it bravely! .Believe in yourself.

    Forget the pain, accept the past and face the future calmly in order to shape a better life, don't hang yourself on a tree, think about your future, there is still a long way to go, come on, remembrance will only make you more inferior!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Only by letting go of the past can we embrace the future If you love now, why care about the past I am not my boyfriend's first love, but his love for me is enough that I don't care.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not easy, you go to your past lover or poach her past lover to be your lover.

    Or you can develop a few new lovers, ready to replace her at any time, and be prepared for a rainy day.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's really interesting for you to ask this question, he is your lover, and he is not your wife, why can't he be someone else's lover if he can be your lover? He's not a good guy in the first place, can you still worry about this kind of thing, just look for one?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    She hates you. Do you still want to be nice to her?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Regardless of hate or love, it's all over, don't turn friends into enemies, don't care too much about this kind of face, maybe people despise it, if you behave freely, people will know that you are doing well, don't worry about you, in front of past lovers, you must not lose your self-esteem, otherwise what is the point of breaking up before.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Well, the expired ones are gone, no matter who is right and who is wrong.

    Be calm. Just let it pass.

    Let yourself go. Spare others too.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal, many people will have a little guilt in their hearts when facing their former lovers, guilt, love is not worthy of being sorry, let go a little, how can it be good for both of you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Let him pass the past, we don't live in memories.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What's not to be facing? If you don't cherish it when you have it, what's the use of feeling bad about it now? Let go and let go, too many concerns will make you more annoying, being a stranger is better than being a friend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What is difficult to face, it is all in the past, you have your own lives, face it calmly and go with the flow!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Let the past be passed. Time will dilute everything, one day you suddenly think of him, you will find that it turns out that I have forgotten him for so long, one day I met him on the street, please give him a smile, because you are not strangers, he made you understand what love is

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Are you sorry for him? Still is? Life is just a few decades in the world, and many people come and go in our lives, and that's it, don't think so much, happiness needs to be fought for.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    That's definitely an outgoing and straightforward girl, he really treats you as a good friend, remembering absolute friends, just good friends.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hehe. I come across it a lot.

    First. Maybe I want to see your reflection, and he's still interesting to you.

    Second. I really want you to help introduce one.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's not normal.。。。 Interesting to you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then she's too invisible.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, how deep the hatred is, how deep the love is, your hatred now means that you still love her, cherish this feeling!

    One of the feelings is unincomprehensible.

    Acacia is sick and only a silk soul.

    Who knows that the wonderful person is far away from the body.

    Hate is nothing.

    Second, the branches of the silver tree are singing in spring.

    A thousand repentances should not be divided.

    Yiru knew that Yu Xin was stupid.

    Just wait for the blue bird to pass on the good news.

    Third, the world has never heard of it.

    Only Aiqing is the only one.

    I'm leaving me alone.

    I'm floating on my own.

    Fourth, the sun is dusk.

    The lone shadow is long and slow.

    The old trees are withered and the vines are empty.

    The crow cries blood and leaves my soul alone.

    Fifth, I walked three rivers and ran wildly.

    The sound of horses trampling on the mud.

    If there is a god in the world.

    We must not let anyone be disappointed.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Confucius said: Only women and villains in the world are difficult to raise.

    The following is talking about husband and wife, let's make it together. It is the husband and wife on "Zhuangzi Xiu Drum Pot into a Avenue" who are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when the time comes.

    The dream of wealth and nobility is a spring dream, and the fame is a floating cloud. The flesh and blood in front of him are not real, and love turns into hatred. Don't put the golden shackles around your neck, and Hugh wrapped the jade locks around you. Pure heart and few desires to get rid of the world, happy scenery duty.

    It's not that enemies don't get together, when will they get together?

    knew that he was ruthless and righteous after death, and asked for his love before death.

    Before death, everyone said that they were deeply grateful, and after death, everyone wanted to fan the grave.

    It is difficult to draw dragons and tigers, and it is difficult to draw bones, and knowing people and faces does not know their hearts.

    What is the grace of husband and wife? See the new and forget the old.

    Just have to cover the coffin and be chopped with an axe, how to wait for the fan to dry the grave!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Most of the poems are love, not hate.

    This is the one that wants to be free and easy:

    The flowers fade and the red green apricots are small. When the swallows fly, the green water surrounds. There are few willows blowing on the branches, where is there no fragrant grass at the end of the world? Swing inside the wall, outside the wall. Pedestrians outside the wall, beautiful people laugh inside the wall. The laughter gradually faded into silence, but the amorous was ruthlessly annoyed.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Virginity for you.

    Why are you not innocent?

    At the beginning, it was a happy relationship.

    Now there are years left.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Title: Capital City South Zhuang Cui Hu.

    Last year, in this door today, the peach blossoms on the faces of the people were red.

    Where is the human face going, and the peach blossoms are still smiling in the spring breeze.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    "Drunk farewell to Zhong Lin for more than ten springs, and saw Yun Ying's upper body again. I am not famous and unmarried, and I may not be as good as others. ”

    This is a poem by the Tang poet Luo Yin. He had never been a monk in his life, and after many years of wandering, he returned to this place and saw an old lover Yun Ying who disliked him back then, so he wrote this poem "Gift Prostitute Yun Ying".

    Of course, there are other stories about this poem, but I think this one is more interesting.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's hard to find poems like this! I advise you not to do the same. Don't take a look at Lu You's hairpin crest.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    One cannot hang on the same tree!

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It depends on what kind of past, for example, he has killed people, gone to prison, and smoked fans, it must be important, such as mental illness, genetic diseases, AIDS, etc.

    In addition to the above points, character is very important, I think you can put a balance of mind, people need space between people, with space and trust, in order to go long...

    No matter what happened to him or her before, the important thing is that you are her other half now. If you live every day now, you will be her other half in the future... Good luck.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Personally, I don't think it matters much, after all, you are in love with him (her) now, not with him (her) in love! Doesn't a person need to be considerate or tolerant of him or her?

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Not important, but not bad as a reference.

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think that since we are lovers, we should trust each other, and as long as we trust each other, it doesn't matter if we have the past.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It doesn't matter, as long as it's for the present.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It depends on what you think, the important thing is the present and the future, the past is gone.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It depends on what kind of person you are, and if you love him or her, don't care about that. If you just want to possess, be careful.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If you really like it, why bother with the past.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The past is in the past, and the key is the present.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Since he has chosen you, you don't have to think about the past.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It depends on whether you really love her or not.

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