Did he misunderstand me and didn t love me, or was he afraid that he wouldn t be able to give me hap

Updated on psychology 2024-08-11
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Is he misunderstanding you and not loving me and you, or is he not able to shoot you happiness and drag you down: your boyfriend has a very bad temper no matter whether he has money or not! Even if he is not in business and is under a lot of pressure, he should not be called to you and leave immediately.

    People who love each other should tolerate each other and understand each other, instead of using you as a gas bucket! Even if he really loves you, you have to think carefully about whether or not to be with him!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    According to your description, I think it is still that he has a misunderstanding of you and does not love you, because in his most difficult time, you played a joke on him that he should not have made, and he could not understand.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    He has his own misunderstanding of you, so he feels that you are sorry for him, so he doesn't love himself, or he may feel that there is no way to give you happiness, he doesn't want to drag you down, and hopes that you can find a better person to give you the future you want.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He doesn't trust you. You are not someone who can help him in his difficult times. You can't do it, either in life or spiritually. When he has a successful career, you are a cutie who can talk about love. When he's in trouble, you're in trouble.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everyone has their own difficulties. Since this guy did this, maybe he did misunderstand you. But at the same time, he is afraid that he will not be able to give you happiness and drag you down, so he will do this to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It doesn't matter if he doesn't love you, or he can't give you happiness, he has left you, it has everything, don't worry about it. Strive to find your Prince Charming as soon as possible to give you happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This relationship entanglement is somewhat complicated. So his feelings for you are also complicated, and you can't say love or don't love it. But it's hard to stay together, and it's even harder to be together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think he must have misunderstood me, so he took off a cafeteria like this.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There will be no happiness between you, let yourself go, and hurry up and get the money back to prevent financial losses.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you give up your ex-boyfriend to be with him, it means that he must have the advantages you like, and look at his advantages more.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't love you anymore, it's not because I'm afraid of dragging you down, but because he wants to give you all the good things, but you don't have the ability to bear it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When he knows what you like, he will always remember it and take the initiative to give it to you. No matter how much the thing is worth, what is more important is the heart in his heart.

    He will also silently write down what you say, and strive to become the perfect boyfriend in your heart. Even if sometimes he's not perfect, he's always working in the direction you like.

    He puts you very important in his heart. When you are in difficulty, when you need him, when you are sick, he is willing to let go of what is at hand and go over to take care of you.

    Maybe he may be more clumsy, rarely say I love you, rarely say love words. But he will take the initiative to share your worries for you and help you lighten the burden. In fact, this is the best way to confess.

    People who really love you always do more than they say, and the love of actual actions is more real than the love that is spoken.

    A man who just likes you will continue to say all kinds of sultry love words and ambiguous words to you, and say one vow after another that moves you, making you think that he really loves you so much.

    He likes to write blank checks for you the most, first to make you happy, and then not again. His blank checks were never cashed either.

    When you are sincere to his desperate dedication, you slowly realize it. It turns out that his vows to you only exist in his words.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He is afraid that he will not be able to give you happiness and that he will delay your career, so he will let go for your consideration and make you happier in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He wants to leave you, but he really loves you, and the most helpless thing is to meet you in the most beautiful years and want to take care of you for a lifetime! Helplessness and pain have given you happiness, and resolutely do not be a stumbling block to your happiness!

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's love for you, since you can't guarantee the future, or recognize the reality, of course, it may just not want to, you need to think about it yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not that he doesn't love you, he's afraid of hurting you, and it's because she loves you that he hurts you

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No one knows what will happen in the future! You must go through it before you know!

    When he does this, he is obviously tired of you and no longer loves you! You change people as soon as possible, so as not to harm others and yourself!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are a few people who love so great, afraid of dragging others down, think about what you love him, what he loves you, do you care about your feelings,,, love is to feel sorry for the person you love to be hurt, to care with your heart,

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He pushed me away like this, I was because I didn't love him, I was still afraid that I wouldn't be able to give me happiness in the future, he should be afraid of dragging you down, and then he couldn't give you happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A man's career is indeed a big deal, if it really fails, it is indeed a blow to him, so he wants to vent these things, it is not a simple thing for a man, a man must be serious if he wants to readjust, it is not easy for a man to get up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When his business is very unsuccessful, he himself has no pressure and is very big, and if you accompany him at this time, he can help her relieve a certain amount of pressure, but as a very responsible boy, he doesn't want his girls to suffer with him, so his main reason is that he is afraid of dragging you down and doesn't want to affect your pursuit of your own happiness.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, you should be sure that he loves you. The reason why he doesn't accept to be with you now is mainly because his business failed and he lost a lot of money. He can't give you a happy life.

    So I'm not willing to accept you. If his business is particularly good now, maybe he will go after you sooner.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Even if he breaks away, you can't always be like this, he can't afford to fail, without this confidence to persevere, such a man is probably unreliable, you still found one, I don't think you will be happy together, unless he can admit his mistake and get you back in time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Girl, you also believe in his words, put the fault on a woman, this kind of man is not worth it, fail or fail once, scold his own woman, this is the behavior of a loser, and it is destined to be difficult to achieve in this life. So girl, leave her, otherwise you will be unhappy every day, there are still many excellent boys outside, leave him, change places to work, try a new life, you will be happier.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, I think the man should be afraid of disappointing you, afraid of dragging you down, his business has been very failed, and he will have this attitude towards you when his business fails, I think this man just doesn't want you to suffer with him, so he wants to make you feel that he doesn't love you anymore in this way, forcing you to break up with him. It should just be afraid of dragging you down, I think he still loves you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, I think he likes you and loves you, but he is afraid of dragging you down, because the business is not good, the financial burden is here, and he thinks that you are suffering with him, so he would rather you live a better life and live a happier life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He should be afraid of dragging you down. He should care about you very much and love you, so he is afraid of dragging you down so he wants to use verbal violence to get rid of you, and the business fails, which makes his self-confidence suffer a big blow, and he is afraid that he will not be able to give you a happy future, so he drives you away.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It should be that his business has been frustrated, and his mood will not be good, and sometimes he is afraid of affecting you, so he wants to let you leave in this way, and he is quiet alone.

    When a person is in a bad mood, it is indeed difficult to control his emotions, I think you still have to understand him more and communicate with him well.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I can't say for sure if he loves you or not, but I'm sure this person is selfish and very controlling. If someone who loves you shouldn't hurt you like that in any way.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think this boy, he specified that he doesn't love you, she should love you, but his way of dealing with it is not right, because when he encounters a mistake, it can't happen to you with that recorder, if you start to accept it, but it doesn't mean that you can accept it in the future, which is easy to make people's feelings produce a lot of unpleasant emotions. Such a boy, in fact, you have to think about it, if you can't make him sunny, you have to consider whether to continue with him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It shouldn't love you, it's not that I'm afraid of dragging you down, this is an excuse, I won't talk like this if I don't have love. So you should learn to let go and stop holding on.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's hard to say, what he thinks should be asked to him.

    Talk calmly with your husband, communicate more, talk about the troubles in your heart, say your inner feelings when your husband scolds you, pay attention to harmony in doing business, and communicate and understand more between husband and wife.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    From your expression, I can see that he loves you, and he really doesn't want to drag you down, afraid that he won't be able to give you happiness, but sometimes he can't control himself to look for you. Most men attach great importance to their careers, and it is understandable that he can't accept the reality and his temper grows. But it's up to you, if you can't accept it, choose to let go, maybe only if he has a little success will get better.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hello! He himself should be very entangled, whether to choose to be with you, in the face of the collapse of his career, in the face of the pressure in his heart, he has already endured more, so he can't guarantee that he can afford your relationship!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This man is a little cowardly in the face of love, and she is more intense, and she wants to push you away by hurting you. His choice of this way is the most hurtful. I feel like you're going to hurt each other together, and you're going to be the one who hurts the most.

    If he is really afraid of dragging him down, you should decisively break up with you and never see you again, not as involved as it is now.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    He loves you and resents you, because he likes it, his emotions towards you are always repeated, and he has always been in a state of disconnection, in the same way, when he is angry or in a very bad mood, he will blame his dissatisfaction with you, so that you become his punching bag, at this time you can't understand your irritability, you will be wronged and quarrel with him, which will only increase the burden on his heart, so there is love and annoyance.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    He still has feelings for you, and to a certain extent, he is afraid of dragging you down, but the most important factor is that the business fails, falls into a low point in life, and he is in a bad mood and does not dare to hope for love. What he needs most now is someone who can help him get out, this person is definitely not you, you can only give him a little comfort emotionally, but you can't help him, this is the main reason why he wants to leave you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You only thought that he didn't love you for fear of dragging you down, why didn't you think of the third possibility, that is, he began to have low self-esteem, and a man with low self-esteem can easily become an external injury, that is, a harm to you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    To be honest, after reading your description, I have to start with this man's character, if this man is usually more short-tempered, then it is easy to understand that she scolds you, but if he usually has a good temper, and suddenly becomes like this, it is estimated that as you said, he is afraid of dragging you down.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If his business fails now, then she is very sad in her heart, because he feels that when his economic conditions are not good, there is no way to provide you with a better living environment, so she chooses to separate from you There is no choice, the main reason is that she is afraid that you will look down on him, and she is afraid that he will drag you down.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I have feelings for you, and I should be afraid of dragging you down. The main factor is that the business failure is recorded in the low point of life, and the mood is poor and dare not hope for love. He should love you and wish you well in the future. Because the present cannot promise you a happy life in the future, it will drive you away.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Now most of the burden in society is on the man's body, so it is relatively normal for him to behave like this, he may really love you and is afraid of dragging you down, so he wants to wait until he succeeds and then come to you, those words he said before are really unavoidable.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    He doesn't love you, it's not that he's afraid of dragging you down, he just doesn't need you anymore, if he loves you, how can he be willing to scold you, it's not psychological, he must have other thoughts in his heart, it's not as simple as you think, his feelings for you can only be felt by yourself.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It should be afraid of dragging you down, feeling that you are a failed person, unable to give you happiness, self-denial, and afraid of delaying your youth. I think such a person is quite responsible, and if you don't mind his failure, you can talk to him and express your determination to share his weal and woe.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    He is currently in a business failure and must be very lost in his heart, so he can't continue any relationship now, you can communicate with her, accompany him through this low period, and then wait for your relationship to be a little better, and you will have a good attitude towards you.

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think she's afraid of dragging you down. Because his temperament mutated after the business failed, and he kept emphasizing that he didn't want to drag you down. may know that you can't bear to ignore him, so he deliberately loses his temper and hurts you by saying heavy words, hoping that you will retreat.

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