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If there is pressure in a relationship, I will not choose to break up casually, unless the pressure is no longer bearable. Falling in love should be a fast track to a better place for a person, and people on this road should be happy. But if you feel pressured in the middle of this process, it means that there is already something wrong with the relationship, but I don't think that's a good reason to break up.
Falling in love is also stressful, and stress is inevitable.
Falling in love is a tasteful thing, which will bring earth-shaking changes to a person's heart, and will make a person's life become what they have never thought about. When you are really involved in a relationship, the transformation of a person's inner psychological state is usually much more complicated than imagined.
Whether it is questioning the relationship, or always thinking about the small details of the other party's life, or the lack of confidence in yourself, this brings a certain amount of pressure to a relationship. This kind of pressure is difficult to avoid in the process of love, and the feeling of sweetness alone makes people ignore the existence of this pressure on a large level. I don't choose to break up easily, unless the pressure is no longer bearable.
Stress is a common phenomenon in the whole process of dating, and if I choose to break up just because I feel pressured, I don't think I will be able to find the feeling of being in a relationship for the rest of my life. When I feel pressured in a relationship, I can try my best to figure out the pressure and deal with the problems that exist between the two of me diligently, rather than choosing to break up.
Naturally, if this kind of pressure has obviously jeopardized all my normal life, and has already made us feel unbearable, I will still choose to break up, after all, breaking up is the ultimate way to solve difficulties in a relationship, and it is also the most effective way. Maybe you will be sad after breaking up, or you will regret it after breaking up, but no one can deny that when you can't bear it in love, breaking up is the best way to protect yourself. The pressure and sweetness in love are all charms that will make people feel love.
But only by learning to reduce the pressure in love and enjoy the sweetness of love can the road of love go further.
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1.A breakup is your own obvious subjective desire, or being harmed by someone else.
Do you need to break up when you feel tired from falling in love? My boyfriend told me that we broke up and said that we were not suitable? In fact, in many cases, two people who are in love and talk well, the three signs that a man wants to break up are finally harmed by the people around them, and they are dismantled alive.
Therefore, when you want to break up, you should calm down and think about this problem, if you need to break up most of the thoughts of others are harmful, think carefully about the other party is not very good to yourself, and there are no problems under normal circumstances, why not stick to this relationship?
2.In this relationship, do you also have the drive to work hard for the other party?
If each other or to be diligent in order to better make each other's lives stronger, it is true that don't be coquettish, and the disgust period after the breakup of the man should manage this relationship that others envy, but on the contrary, they will feel happier when they have separated, then it is very likely that it is indeed time to say goodbye.
3.Do you have a clear statement or a grasp of each other's requirements?
Sometimes how can two people get along and get tired too tired, or because two people do not calm down and communicate at a deep level, so when they want to break up again and again, everyone calms down with each other and thinks about whether they clearly express their thoughts? My boyfriend told me that we broke up and said that we were not suitable, did he clearly understand what was required of each other? Have a deep conversation, and give each other some opportunities, it is indeed true that there is no idea of getting down, and it is not too late to break up.
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Falling in love itself is a very happy thing in the fitting room, and it is also a process that promotes both parties to become better, and you will definitely choose to break up when you are stressed because of falling in love.
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I'm not going to break up because I'm stressed.
I knew from the beginning that falling in love would inevitably encounter all kinds of pressures, some for life, some for personal, and some for family. But since you have chosen to be together, you will not regret it, and you will definitely resist the pressure and go to the other side.
And it's normal to be under pressure, and I believe that as long as I work hard with my boyfriend, we will be able to resist it.
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If there is pressure in a relationship, I will find out what the cause is and then make an adjustment. If this is still the case after the adjustment, I will choose to break up. Because two people are together to be happy, and happiness is to be relaxed together.
There is no need to continue.
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will not choose to break up directly. Even if you feel very stressed when you are in a relationship, then you will communicate with the other party to see if there is anything that needs to be changed on both sides, and you can make good improvements. Only when two people work together to change can they get along well.
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In fact, it is not smooth sailing for everyone to fall in love, in the process of falling in love, there will always be pressure of this or that, I think as long as it is not principled, emotional companionship, I don't think I will choose to break up, I should find a way to choose to choose to choose to stick to.
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If there is pressure when it comes to falling in love, then you will first talk to the partner about your thoughts, and if the two people can make changes, they can still be together, and if the attempt is useless, then they will also consider breaking up.
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If love makes you stressed, it means that the other party is demanding, or better than you, so you will be stressed, once you have pressure, it is difficult to love wholeheartedly, then you can only break up in the end.
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If there is pressure in a relationship, find the reason first, and then communicate to solve the problem, if the personality is incompatible, breaking up is also an option.
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Even if there is pressure in a relationship, I will not choose to break up easily, because it is not easy to start and maintain a relationship, at least I should try to think about whether to give up.
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In the process of falling in love, you feel pressure, then it means that the two of you are not suitable to be together and need to be separated.
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There is pressure when you are in a relationship, which means that it is not appropriate for the two of you to be together, there is no feeling of happiness and happiness, and it is better to break up.
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It's normal to be stressed in a relationship, two people have been together for a long time, there will be contradictions, different ideas, and they will not choose to break up. It's not easy to meet someone you like, it's a pity to break up directly, face difficulties together, and try to solve the problem first. Communication is very important, and when you fall in love, you must communicate more, understand each other's ideas, and tolerate and understand each other.
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As long as there is true love, even if I encounter pressure, I will not choose to break up, two people fall in love together, as long as they truly love each other, even if it comes from the family, from all aspects of society, two people can also resist together, can break through the resistance, and be brave together.
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I would choose to break up, because falling in love itself will bring happiness, and if I am stressed, then I don't need such a relationship.
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Generally speaking, there will be pressure when falling in love, especially when you are in school, it is the pressure of going to school and the pressure of finding a job in the future, which is directly a lot, and it will also affect the relationship between the two because of the incompatibility between each other's personalities, and then lead to differences.
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If there is pressure in a relationship, I may not choose to break up sometimes, depending on what the pressure is, whether it is emotional pressure or life.
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Will break up. Falling in love itself is a happy thing, and if you always feel stressed and unhappy, then there is no need to be together, it is not appropriate.
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I'm not going to break up, mainly because although there is pressure, we can also deal with it. I like my partner so much that I don't want to break up.
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If you are stressed to fall in love, of course you will choose to break up, because if you are in love, it is a feeling that relaxes your mood, and then you are already stressed and will definitely break up.
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When I was in a relationship, I might choose to break up because it wasn't worth it.
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If there is pressure when it comes to falling in love, then you will definitely choose to break up, love is a beautiful thing, it will only make people happy physically and mentally. There's a lot of pressure, and it can make people unhappy.
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If you can feel pressured when you fall in love, then there is no happiness in such a relationship, and you should break up in the end!
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If it's me, if I feel pressured when I'm in love, then I will definitely choose to break up, and falling in love is to make myself able to improve a level and a step up from my previous life status, not to say that after falling in love, I feel a lot more pressure than before, reducing my quality of life, so unfriendly to myself, why should I continue to continue? So if it makes me feel pressured, I will definitely choose, choose to break up.
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Hello friend, if there is pressure when it comes to falling in love, I will choose to break up, in this case it is not suitable, which means that you have no fate.
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I will choose to break up, if I don't feel happy and happy in a relationship, and I feel pressured, it will make me very unhappy, and I think it's better to break up.
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Patting is the run-in period of love, you dare to be under pressure, which proves that it is the critical moment of patting and dragging, that is, the bottleneck period, since you cherish and love, you must persevere! Don't give up.
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There are two kinds of stress in <> relationship, one is the pressure you give yourself, and the other is the feeling of being with the other person.
Let's start with the first one. After two people are together, they put pressure on themselves. This situation shows that in this relationship, I care about the other person, and my pressure is to give the other person a happy life, so I have to work hard to give the best to the other person in every way.
Love not only gives you sweetness, but also motivation. I think this love is positive and warm!
In the second case, they feel pressured because the other person is excellent. This situation shows that the other party is good enough and self-motivated on his side. When you are together, you will not be jealous because of the kindness of the other party, nor will you feel inferior because of the kindness of the other party.
Instead, we turn that excellence into our own motivation. This kind of love is also practical!
Because of love, I want to love deeply. The purpose of deep love is to keep it. To keep the love alive, I want the people I love to eat better than they eat, dress better than they dress, live happily, and do better than they do.
Eat and dress well, because of love, so put pressure on yourself, mental pressure. The pressure of action comes from persistence, persistence comes from ordinary days, habitual greetings, habitual care, habitual assumptions, habitual fears. Because of love, love.
Love can only be expressed in order to have love, to give love, to enjoy being loved, and the misplaced expression of love is also pressure.
Love should not have too much "distance", even if there is, because true "love" can be overcome. If you can't, ask yourself, do you really love someone? Do you want to continue the relationship? What do you want?
Love is for marriage, and the process of love is a process of mutual understanding. If there is pressure in this process, then the future life can be imagined, and it will definitely be very depressing, like a balloon that has been squeezed, bearing weight to a certain extent, and eventually it will either leak or **, which is very dangerous?
It's not a good sign when two people are stressed out when they're in a relationship. At this point, you should calm down and ask yourself, what is all this? If it's the other party's problem, talk to the other party; If it's your own problem, then try to change it, and don't enter the marriage with pressure?
If they are unequal, evenly matched, get along with each other and get married, their eventual relationship will only end in divorce or mutual harm.
Love should be equal and easy.
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There are two kinds of pressure in love, one is the pressure you give yourself, and the other is the feeling of being with the other person.
Let's start with the first one. When two people are together, they put pressure on themselves. This situation shows that in this relationship, I care about each other very much.
My pressure is to give the other person a happy life, so I have to try to give the other person the best in every way. Love not only gives you sweetness, but also motivation. I think this love is positive and warm!
In the second case, they feel pressured because the other person is excellent. This situation shows that the other side is good enough and self-motivated. When we are together, we are not jealous of each other's kindness, nor do we feel inferior because of each other's kindness.
Instead, we turn that excellence into our own motivation. This kind of love is also practical!
Because of love, I want to love deeply. The purpose of deep love is to keep loving. In order to keep the love, I want the people I love to eat better than they eat, dress better than they wear, live happily, and do better than they do.
Eat well and walk well, because of love, so put pressure on yourself, mental pressure. The pressure of action comes from persistence, persistence comes from ordinary days, habitual greetings, habitual concerns, habitual assumptions and habitual fears. Because of love, love.
Love can only be expressed as having love, giving love, and enjoying being loved, and the misplaced expression of love is also stress.
Love should not have too much "distance", even if there is, because true "love" can be overcome. If you can't, ask yourself, do you really love someone? Do you want to continue this relationship? What do you want?
Love is for marriage, and the process of love is a process of mutual understanding. If there is pressure in the process, it is conceivable that life will be depressing in the future. Like a balloon that has been squeezed, it will carry a certain weight.
Eventually, it's either leaking or **. Is it dangerous?
This is not a good sign, and two people are under a lot of stress when they are in a relationship. At this point, you should calm down and ask yourself, why are you doing this? If it's the other person's problem, talk to the other person; If it's your own problem, try to change.
Don't get married with pressure? If they are unequal, equal, get along with each other and get married, their eventual relationship will only end in divorce or mutual harm.
Love should be equal and easy.
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I think it's up to both sides. The idea is that some women may be more traditional, that is, resolutely oppose the behavior of cohabitation before marriage, some girls may feel that they are in modern society, and it depends on the ideological attitude of both parties, if both parties feel that they can, they may be in love for a month or two and may live together, and then if the attitude of both parties is more conservative, they may have to live together after marriage.
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There will be some impact, but the study during college is generally not very nervous, as long as you review carefully before the exam, you can pass, so falling in love during college does not have a big impact on learning. If you want to study for graduate school, you will be busy, and falling in love will have an impact on your studies at this time, so you should concentrate on going to graduate school and not falling in love first.