What to do when your boyfriend is in a bad mood because of something that has nothing to do with you

When the boyfriend is in a bad mood because of some other things, the girlfriend can choose to accompany the boyfriend accordingly, which is a great psychological comfort for the boy. The reason why boys feel unhappy is probably because they don't meet the requirements in other aspects, and at this time, it's actually the boy's self-esteem.

There will also be corresponding setbacks. If a girl keeps asking questions, the boy may find it very annoying and even more angry. Therefore, at this time, girls should not casually ask the reason why boys are unhappy, they only need to be silently accompanied.

There are many boys who actually like this kind of girlfriend very much, because they like this kind of sensible girl, that is to say, when the boy is in a bad mood, the girl can take the initiative to accompany her boyfriend. But don't make a follow-up move at this time, because asking at this time is likely to make the boy feel very unhappy, and what a girl can do is to accompany her boyfriend and wait until the boyfriend takes the initiative to speak.

If a boyfriend wants someone to talk to, then a girl can be a listener, because boys often need a quiet listener at this time. Girls can be boys' emotional trash cans, so that boys can express all the resentment in their hearts, and then the boy's mood may improve, and girls can also make their boyfriends happy at this time.

That is to say, at the very beginning, girls should accompany their boyfriends, do their own things quietly by their boyfriend's side, and give their boyfriends enough psychological comfort. When the boyfriend wants to talk, the girlfriend can talk to the boyfriend and the boyfriend and persuade the boyfriend. When your boyfriend's mood improves, your girlfriend can do some funny things for your boyfriend, or tell some small jokes to make your boyfriend happy, so that the other person's mood may be better.

At this time, I will definitely take the initiative to comfort my boyfriend, and then I will also ask him why he is unhappy, let him talk to me, and then he will feel a lot better.

You can comfort your boyfriend, take your boyfriend to do something that your boyfriend wants to do, or you can go out to dinner or watch a movie, which will make your boyfriend happy.

In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party, and then you should also be by the other party's side, and you should try to enlighten the other party.

It shows that he likes you and that your things can touch him. Especially when encountering things in life can easily affect a man's emotions, such as:

1. When I met my ex-girlfriend on the road.

Do men take care of your emotions when they meet their ex? It's fine if it's an ex with a cool theory, but if you meet an entangled ex, it will naturally affect the girl's mood. At this time, if the man can pay attention to the girl's emotions in time, protect and comfort the girl, then it can show that the man attaches great importance to the relationship between you and does not want you to be hurt.

2. When you accidentally ignore you when you work overtime.

It is undeniable that men are busy with work and do not have the energy to take care of girls, if their girlfriends make trouble, most boys will stare at or blame girls for being ignorant, and will only make trouble unreasonably, but ignore the loneliness of girls. If a guy can take the initiative to take care of your feelings and notice your small emotions because he ignores you, it means that he is very attentive to you and pays attention to your mood changes.

3. When a friend makes a joke about you.

Some of the men's friends are also "fox friends and dog friends", and it is inevitable that they will make some innocuous jokes when they are together, but they may cause you discomfort. Most boys laugh it off and don't take girls' emotions seriously. However, if a man loves you enough and values your relationship enough, he will stop the jokes of his friends and soothe your emotions in time.

4. When the "Great Aunt" visits.

Girls always have unhappy days in a month. During this period, girls often have unexplained mood swings, and lose their temper when they are unhappy. If a man loves you very much, he will follow you, instead of blaming you for being unreasonable and unreasonable.

Because no one wants to put up with other people's mood swings for no reason. Because he values your feelings, he is able to take into account your emotional changes at this time.

If your boyfriend is taking care of her friend's emotions and ignoring yours. I think he is definitely not really ignoring your emotions, but rather thinking that you can understand him better, tolerate him better, and be more likely to forgive him than your friends. So he chose Ye Yui Zheng to take care of his friend's emotions.

Because he thinks he's closer to you.

Many times, the person who loves you is close at hand, but it is often another person who can make you feel tender and worried. You weep for him and mourn for him; Only talk about giving, not a little return. You think it's love, but it's just human nature:

What you can't get, it's the best. What is easy to get often does not know how to cherish. While we are scarred, we are also hurting those who love us deeply.

Love is originally a thing that turns a thousand times with the trapped model, and maybe there will be a moment when you will regret it - it turns out that you are also here.

Actually, happiness is really simple. Think about it, do you have such people around you?

He clearly remembers what flavor of snacks you like to eat slowly, and when the two of them eat together, they will take the initiative to pick the fatty meat, bones, vegetable roots, and side dishes into their bowls;

When you're in a bad mood, he'll be there for you quietly. But he won't ask what is going on, he will wait for you to take the initiative to tell him;

Walking on the road, he will let you walk on the inside, laughing and saying that he is physically strong, even if he hits it, it will be fine;

When he goes shopping, he will keep asking you, "Do you want this, do you want that?" ”；

He never thinks you're fat, he always thinks you can't eat enough, you can't eat well;

He interrogates you about your recent physical condition, cares about your sleep, always thinks that you can't take care of yourself, and sometimes says that you are like his daughter;

When staring at you, I will use a very distressed look;

Every time I hit **, I will wait for you to hang up first; Every time you separate, he will watch you disappear from his back and disappear from his sight;

Before going to bed, he would ask more than once, "Is the quilt covered?" more than once. Don't leak air". When I wake up in the middle of the night, I will subconsciously cover you with a quilt;

You inadvertently say that he looks good in a certain dress, and then you find out that he wears it all the time;

often say "as long as you like, you can do anything";

He is always waiting for you, looking at you with a smile on his face;

often picks you up unexpectedly;

If you hurt him unscrupulously, even if he gets angry again, he won't say a word seriously, but he will only get along with himself, such as having no appetite and not being able to sleep;

If there is such a person in your life, don't give up on him, don't think that he will be with you after hurting him again and again; Don't pursue ethereal love, don't try moths to put out fires, and don't squander love just because you're young. Don't hesitate when it's time to let go, and don't let unworthy people hurt you again and again. Many times you think you're in love with that person, but you're just in love with it.

Trust me, the person you love is right there for you, it's just that you don't find it.

From this question, it seems that you are quite concerned about your boyfriend.

I don't know how old your boyfriend is, but in general, older boys are like this, they will take care of their friends' emotions, but they ignore their own feelings.

It's not easy for us to live in this society. Many times, they only take care of other people's emotions and face, and ignore their own inner needs, which is the common sorrow of most of our men of the same age.

It's okay to take care of your friend's emotions, but you shouldn't ignore your emotions.

When you go out, you must not be able to accept it by your own temperament many times, you have to put yourself in the shoes of others, as long as others are not malicious provocations, there is no problem, and there is no problem if you take a little more care and do not attack Jane or anything.

Oh no. The best thing is the opposite.

Two leaky people should be comfortable together.

If a person suffers.

Unless it's family affection.

It is estimated that I can't bear it.

Friends take care of themselves, friends' emotions, and it is no problem to ignore your own emotions, which means that your boyfriend's character is very good.