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It's a bit of a hard time to talk about this...
I'm the kind of person who talks a lot, and my former husband didn't talk much, and it's usually me who says...
In fact, if you don't know how to find a topic, the safest thing is to start with care, and when it's cold, remind her to add a piece of clothing! Or look at her face and ask her body!
If you have to talk about it, I advise you to observe her hobbies and think that she will be happier to talk to someone about something she is more interested in.
Of course! I don't know where it has progressed, if you have a crush on her, but you are still ordinary friends on the surface, you can simply say happy holidays when you encounter some festivals, or even give a small gift, for example, you can make a big fuss about Singles' Day just past, hehe, in fact, it's not so difficult to talk to girls, you don't really need to be too shy.
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Let's talk about her beauty first, then talk a little bit about the weather and other topics, and then talk about the aspects that she is more interested in, such as beautiful clothes, makeup, and gossip news.
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Try to look at her first, don't speak, and feel how people are reflecting you. You will know it at once, and you dare not look at it
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2 months should know what she is interested in
In front of his friends, he inadvertently revealed that you were one of the masters, and she would come to the door.
You have to be skillful
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Today, the captain recommends 12 chat topics to make girls fall in love with you in minutes.
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If you really don't have a topic, you can talk to the girl about the current hot spots, the other party's studies or work, hobbies, clothing decorations, pets, shopping information, etc.
1. The hot spot of the moment.
When chatting with a girl for the first time or starting a chat, it is best to start with the hot issues that everyone is discussing and paying attention to at the moment, just like many people start to talk to the weather, you can say that the weather is really good today, and your heart is also very good, or you have been rainy and annoyed lately, or ask her what she thinks about the so-called "end of the world", which will naturally enter the topic.
2. The other party's studies or work.
If she is a student, you can talk more about things in the institution, exams, studies, teachers, classmates or recent academic confusion, etc., these are good topics, if she has participated in the work, you can also learn about the interpersonal relationship of their unit, the management system, and whether they are handy at work, etc., but do not blindly ask, it is not good to give people a secret feeling.
3. Topics related to hobbies.
Let's talk about what she likes to do in her spare time, for example, she mentioned that she likes to read books, so that you can talk about the role of books on human beings, and some literary masterpieces and stories of literary masters, from which you can learn about her opinions and opinions, and then learn about some of her life guidelines or something.
4. Clothing decoration.
There are girls who don't love beauty, chatting with girls is always inseparable from the topic of clothes and makeup, if you know more about these aspects, you can match her with clothing, makeup tips, etc., if you don't know very well, you can also ** about the topic of beauty.
5. Pets. Most girls are very caring, some like to have a small pet and take care of her like a child, if you discuss her little pet with her, she will definitely be happy, if you buy food for her little pet, she will definitely be very happy.
6. Shopping information.
If you happen to have a discount in a large shopping mall, or an out-of-season ** event of a certain brand of clothing, you might as well tell her that she will definitely go to see what is going on, and then return with her long-awaited goods.
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Here are a few things you can try:
2.Weekend Plans: Ask her what she did for the weekend, if she visited any fun places, and how she would have a good weekend.
4.Sporting Events & Fitness: Ask her if she regularly participates in various sports and if she enjoys watching sports competitions.
5.Travel & Food: Ask girls about good places to travel or food delicacies, and share their travel and food experiences and insights.
When chatting with girls, we need to avoid some inappropriate topics, such as political events, negative news, personal privacy, etc., to avoid causing unnecessary arguments and emotional fluctuations. Always maintain an attitude of respect for each other, show more care and thoughtfulness, and listen to each other's ideas and suggestions, so as to increase communication and understanding between each other, and establish a more harmonious and mutually beneficial relationship. <>
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