Can you accept that your partner is still in contact with your ex?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-11
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Unacceptable. When two people love each other, they have to devote themselves wholeheartedly. She must not be allowed to break any ties with her ex.

    If that. His heart will not be entirely on you. Two people who really love each other don't rub sand in their eyes.

    And he won't ignore your feelings because of your ex's feelings. He wouldn't be such a man. It's a love for you with all my heart.

    Therefore, it is not allowed to have any contact with the ex.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Of course you can't accept it, the past that can't be let go can only be broken, this connection is also based on the transformation of the previous relationship, there will always be memories in it, how can you tolerate a person who has memories and sweet pasts that is not yours and has a connection with your other half? Of course you can't accept it, the past that can't be let go can only be broken, this connection is also based on the transformation of the previous relationship, there will always be memories in it, how can you tolerate a person who has memories and sweet pasts that is not yours and has a connection with your other half?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I absolutely do not allow the other half to still have contact with the ex, once there is a connection, there may be problems with the relationship between each other, the trust between each other may be suspicious, then there will be contradictions between each other, and the feelings between each other will no longer exist. Therefore, there should be no connection, so that there will be no suspicion.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's very decisive to say that it can't This is disloyalty to love It's extremely shameful If they love each other, why break up If they break up, they still break up People have to have a little bottom line Don't say anything about breaking up and being friends and the like They are all adults No one is so mentally retarded So I absolutely can't accept such a thing Every day is so much to block my heart Fulfill them Liberate yourself Loyalty is the most basic in a relationship It is respect for each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No. There is also a connection that shows that they have not completely let go of each other, which means that there is still an opportunity and possibility for the revival of old feelings, which is a potential threat and danger for the incumbent.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Not if the significant other is still in contact with the ex. shows that he and his ex still have five disconnected emotions. It also shows that he is not very respectful to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is absolutely unacceptable, since it is the ex to break it cleanly, can not drag mud and water, affect the relationship between two people, love is selfish, there is no room for sand in the eyes of the lover, love a person must be wholeheartedly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Now that you are separated from your ex, there is no need to keep in touch anymore. Because once people have doubts in their hearts, they will be suspicious, and many unimaginable things will happen, since two people are separated, they will either die and never get along, and they will not disturb each other's well-being. It's best that way.

    If you are separated and still keep in touch, it may be that you are still in love. I don't believe it, and we can still greet each other like friends. But if you are separated, you should break it, and don't be entangled in the unfinished relationship. If you can't get in touch, it's better not to contact you, so why bother with everyone's well-being.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is selfish. Under normal circumstances, it is not acceptable that your other half is still in contact with your ex. But if it's just an ordinary friendship, don't mind too much, because everyone has their own circle of friends and life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Unacceptable. The ex is already in the past tense, and he is still disconnected, except for wanting to rekindle the old love is to want the old love to rekindle, there is no other idea! I don't accept it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, it is unacceptable, love is selfish, and it is impossible to allow it to be shared with others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No. After all, the ex is a relatively sensitive relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since this person is with you, if he still contacts his ex regularly, no one wants to put it on anyone. Since you have chosen me now, don't have more contact with your ex, which will affect your feelings, so since you have chosen the current person, forget about your ex slowly, so that you will be happy for a lifetime.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I can't accept that my partner is still in contact with my ex. Because after a long time, the two will rekindle their old relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I can't accept that my partner is still in contact with my ex. Because doing so will affect the feelings of two people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No one can accept such a thing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I couldn't stand it, and the other half kept in touch with his ex. I had a bit of a hard time understanding the purpose of the person who contacted my ex. Some people think it's peaceful to just break up and leave.

    Maybe it's okay to be ordinary friends after many years, but some people break up and hurt each other. Finally, in this developed network society, we have a reason and a platform to connect with each other and become friends on WeChat friends. I have a friend, Ah Ling, who is very depressed.

    Now the boyfriend and the ex-girlfriend are in contact.

    At first, she pretended not to know. Later, she couldn't stand it and let her boyfriend know. Her boyfriend said:

    Yes, my boyfriend has already said so, Ah Ling can't ask anymore. It seems that she is too stingy to care too much. The boyfriend also said:

    After that, I'll find a way to tell you. This sentence completely made Ah Ling collapse! I think it's hard for people to accept that.

    Ah Ling cares a lot about their connection, but her boyfriend doesn't feel anything. Ah Ling came to ask our friend's opinion and asked if we could stop our boyfriend from contacting his ex. I feel like there's going to be a certain amount of insecurity.

    If you are secure enough in a relationship, you don't have to worry about other people at all, but if you are not secure enough, anyone who is not related to you will be a threat.

    In fact, feelings can be complicated at times, or they can be simple. If you really love someone, you will ignore a lot of things. Only by trusting each other can the relationship between two people go on.

    The premise is that the other party needs to promise you. If not, it should be easy to have friction. Ling has 10,000 people who don't want her boyfriend to keep in touch with her ex, but she said she will continue to show that she doesn't like her boyfriend doing so, and occasionally rebel like him.

    This problem still exists and has not been resolved. I think Ah Ling herself is still enduring it. It is true that you give yourself a sense of security, but occasionally you need the other person's affirmation of your feelings.

    Otherwise, give yourself a sense of security, and one day it will only turn into self-deception.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I won't mind, since they have broken up, then they shouldn't care too much, if the other party's character is really bad, then you don't need to mind anymore, just break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course I would mind his performance like this, and I think he never forgot about his predecessor from the beginning to the end. This state of not being dedicated to feelings will never be forgiven.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I especially mind. I'm going to hate people like that, and I'm going to break up right away.

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