Can you accept that your significant other is in touch with your ex?

Updated on amusement 2024-08-11
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    No, but I don't have a significant other right now.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    can't accept it, since the other party is with him, he should treat himself wholeheartedly and should not contact his ex again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I can accept that my significant other keeps in touch with my ex, but it can only be in the form of friends, after all, it is all in the past, and it is not more than the boundaries of friends.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's unacceptable, it's very easy to get back together if you've been in touch with your ex all the time. So absolutely unacceptable.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No. Because it is very likely that they will rekindle their old feelings and affect their relationship with the current one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In this case, I don't actually suspect that there is still a relationship between my partner and my ex, or a chance to rekindle, but I think that he may be a person who treats feelings more sincerely, and at the same time, I don't want to affect the friendship between two people because of feelings. And I'm confident that if it's still possible between them, then it's useless for me to ask for more or be vexatious. And I'm going to be more confident in my relationships.

    1. Became friends with his ex.

    In fact, I think if a man really keeps in touch with each other after a breakup, it is more not because they still have the possibility between them, but because they may have that feeling of sympathy for each other, after all, they also have a good memory between them, but they can't be a couple, but it's not that they can't be friends. In this case, I will choose to take the initiative to make friends with him, so that we can know each other and at the same time make him realize that the relationship between you is very good, and he will not have another chance.

    Second, I will choose not to know, but I will occasionally pay attention to whether they have too frequent contact with each other.

    I think it's a good choice to pretend not to know in this situation, because if you pretend not to know, you won't have more troubles, and at the same time, you won't always wonder if they have done something sorry behind your back, and I also think that if they really have a chance to recur, then no matter how hard you try, there is no way to continue the relationship, because sometimes men are more rational. But I won't let them develop, I will also pay attention to the way they get along with each other, and if there is a chance of resurgence, then I will take the initiative to leave first.

    Third, personal perception of the situation.

    Personally, I think this kind of thing may happen to a relatively small number of people, after all, sometimes two people once loved each other, but then left for various reasons, but will keep in touch, but this does not mean that there is a chance of rekindling between them, it may be that for them, it is a good memory, and even do not want two people to become a couple and even ordinary friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In such a situation, I will break up with the other party, because if the other party is in contact with the ex, it means that the other party has not let go of the previous feelings, so I will stop the loss in time and break up decisively.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    will choose to break up with the other party, because this person has his ex-girlfriend in his heart, and he does not have me in his heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I will break up with the other person directly, indicating that the other person does not like me at all, and may just see myself as a substitute.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I would mind if my significant other kept in touch with his ex for the following reasons:

    1. Exs are not friends, they used to love each other.

    The reason why an ex is called an ex, not a friend, is because he is different from ordinary friends. Even if my significant other and my ex have broken up and have been out of love for a long time, keeping in touch with these two people still makes me feel uncomfortable because they used to love each other.

    People are very jealous themselves, especially when faced with relationship problems. When the other half keeps in touch with his ex, he will have a big drama in his mind to get back together, even if this thing doesn't happen at all, but his mood will be affected by the presence of his ex. This emotion can easily be transferred to your other half, which can affect the relationship between both parties.

    2. It is impossible for an ex to be friends.

    Although some people keep in touch with their exes and will call them "friends", in my eyes, it is impossible for exes to be friends, and there are some special feelings. After all, two people have been together for many years, and the relationship between them is definitely different from ordinary friends, plus the previous relationship was very close, so it is easy to grasp the scale, and it is easy to cross the line in the process of getting along.

    Maybe the same thing happens to an ordinary friend, and it feels like nothing, but when the object becomes an ex, things take a turn for the sour. Therefore, the presence of an ex may make me feel uncomfortable, and I will start to be suspicious and distrustful of my other half. If it affects your relationship with your partner because of this, it's definitely not good.

    So avoid this kind of thing at the root and refuse to keep in touch with your partner and your ex.

    3. It doesn't make any sense.

    Keeping in touch with your ex is nothing more than giving yourself one more friend, but is the other half really so short of friends? Life is constantly subtracting, and there will be fewer and fewer friends in the end, let alone an ex? There is no point in keeping in touch with your ex, not only can he not solve your problems, relieve and comfort you, but also cannot provide you with any help, it will only add to your current life, so your ex should not appear in the contact list.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm going to mind it very much, because I think I'm going to be with my ex like this, and then give up on myself, so I'm very worried.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Mind. Because I feel that my partner is very unfaithful to my relationship, I can't accept it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Mind, because it gives people a particularly disrespectful feeling, and he is still thinking about his previous events.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't mind, because I don't think it's okay, what should happen will happen, and what won't happen will never happen.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I personally can't accept that this will not only affect my perception as a current partner, but will not do any good to maintain the existing relationship.

    If a couple breaks up at a time when both partners are unhappy, then both partners should stay away from each other's lives altogether. If there are still memories between the two parties, then they should not look for a new relationship again in the meantime. It's not just irresponsible for your current partner.

    I personally can't accept it.

    For me, I put my heart and soul into every relationship, so I want my partner to be fully committed to the relationship. If she's in a relationship with me and also keeps in touch with her ex-partner, I personally don't think that's a good thing. Because her relationship with her ex would not only make it difficult for me to focus on my relationship.

    Any couple should try to stay away from each other's lives after a breakup.

    A couple breaks up because both parties have reached a point where they are unbearable. This problem can only be solved by breaking up. Therefore, couples will not be nostalgic for each other after a breakup.

    And if you keep in touch, you will not only leave a thought for each other. There will also be conflicts about the development of the new relationship in the future. <>

    If you continue to contact your ex, it will not only affect the perception of your current partner, but also make the relationship between you suspicious and difficult to maintain.

    Therefore, for many partners, after the breakup, they should also try their best to leave each other's lives to prevent disturbing each other's lives. If you continue to keep in touch and leave thoughts with each other, you may make the broken up relationship think again. If the partner also has a new relationship with someone else at this time, it will not only cause harm to others, but also cause great distress to their own emotional pursuit.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I can't accept my significant other's relationship with his ex as a friend, because if he gets along with his ex, it means that both of them miss their old relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't accept that my significant other and my ex are friends, and I think that a qualified ex should no longer have any contact with each other like a stranger.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can't accept it, I think the breakup should be simpler, and you can't be friends after the breakup.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course I would mind this situation, because I was afraid that my significant other would contact their ex because they still had feelings, and I would worry that they would rekindle their old relationship, so I didn't want them to stay in touch.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I would mind this situation, because since he is already with me, he should not be in constant contact with his ex, which will only make me feel very speechless.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course I would. Because the most important thing in a relationship is loyalty, if my other half is in frequent contact with my ex, I will only feel that the other party does not love me very much.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I would suggest this because I can't stand the fact that my significant other keeps in touch with my ex and always feels like they're going to rekindle their old feelings.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you find that your other half has been in touch with your ex, I think anyone will mind, because this is not a question of trust, but a question of respecting yourself, many people have said that as a qualified ex, you should never contact as if you were dead, because the two have so many good memories before, if you have been in touch, the relationship between the two is not clear, if the two still have any idea of being together, they can be together, Don't delay others. <>

    Everyone will have some emotional experience, this is unavoidable, and we can't ask others to have no emotional experience, but we just want each other to stop thinking about others if they are with us, don't think about the past, two people can be together now is the best, don't go all day. If we can't do it wholeheartedly for only one person at the moment, we can pause for a while, let our body and mind have a time to rest, so that we can take a break and never let down the other person. There are many people who are in a hurry to be with others after breaking up, in order to make their sadness shorter, but they are not happy with each other during this period of time, because some people are always thinking about the previous things in their hearts, which is very annoying, and he hurts both himself and others.

    If we find that the other party has any behavior that conflicts with our bottom line, we must choose to love ourselves, we must choose to break up in time, and never believe that the other party has any chance to change, because the other party will not die, and we will not help each other to quarrel, it will only make the other party feel that we are an unreasonable person, because he thinks that what he is doing must be right, and at this time we have no need to argue. <>

    Let's be ourselves, and don't be a nuisance to others in the world.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'll mind, because the ex is already in the past, and if you still keep in touch, there may be emotional entanglements, and I think it will affect our current relationship.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I will, and I think this kind of behavior will ruin the relationship between two people, and then I also feel insecure in this way.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Would advise. It made me feel very much in crisis and felt that I was not being respected enough.

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