He doesn t want children, do you want children?

Updated on parenting 2024-08-08
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Women are really hurt at this time, and the lack of support from men will make us fall off a cliff. Is it wrong to fall in love with a man?

    He was clearly under the pressure of reality now. House. Parents.

    Life. Now it's time to have another child. It's really going to crush him.

    Why not contraception though. What he's doing is so wrong! You are more mature than him.

    And he didn't understand what it meant to be a child.

    Liability. He has a responsibility. He should be responsible for this child. He shouldn't have said he wanted a child at the time and didn't take action.

    As I just mentioned, he may leave you because of this. I think it's better for you to find someone your age to marry. You can't stand to play in love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    The most unpleasant person is yourself, who is not married yet, and wants to have children to tie up a man?

    If you are unmarried and pregnant, no one will marry you, think about what your identity is in the eyes of that man, you don't know how to cherish yourself, others must look down on you.

    It's good that he takes care of you, think about whether you did something wrong.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    As much as I would love to earn your points, I still have to say: he doesn't really love you. Maybe he liked you, but that love was more naïve and childish!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Leaving him is the best choice, you yourself know that you are not young, isn't it delaying yourself to always be stuck by his side, hurry up and leave him and find someone who can be relied on.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If both parties to the divorce do not want children, what will the court decide?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is undeniable that before becoming parents, most couples were child-minded. And once they have children, parents will naturally have a sense of responsibility. A friend of mine, before he got married and had children, had no fighting spirit, and he only thought about how to spend the day every day, and he had no intention of working at all.

    Later, he got married, and the woman gave him a lovely son, and he seemed to be a different person, more active in his work, and had hope for life.

    And children are also the bond of the family. When parents feel tired after working outside all day, they come home and see their lovely children serving tea and water, and feel that the troubles of the whole day have disappeared, maybe this is the meaning of having a child! And some couples may not have a very good plan for the future before giving birth, and they may not be gentle, but after giving birth, they will take on this responsibility when they have this responsibility on their shoulders.

    Never underestimate your parents' explosiveness.

    Whether to have children or not is actually the freedom of every couple. To figure out why you have children, some parents have children just to pass on the lineage.

    Children are the continuation of life, and after a hundred years, you have left this world. No one in the world will remember your stories anymore, but the child will, and he will tell those stories to his own children, generation after generation. Isn't it a very meaningful thing for parents to accompany their children to grow up, and for children to grow old with their parents?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The mental damage and physical devastation brought by having a child is not ordinary, and the richer you are, the more comfortable experience you can get in the process, and the more dignity and voice you will have. And what's even more uncomfortable is that from the day she became a mother, she lost the freedom of girls.

    Especially at an age when you haven't played enough, your peers are still chic everywhere, but you can only take care of your children at home, will your heart be unbalanced, and will you blame this sense of loss on your children?

    It is easy to pull you into an emotional circle after giving birth. The mental damage and physical damage caused by having a child is not ordinary, the richer you are, the more comfortable experience you can get in the process, and the more dignity and voice you have. And even more uncomfortable are:

    From the day she became a mother, she lost the freedom of the girl. Especially at an age when you haven't played enough, your peers are still dashing everywhere, but you can only take care of your children at home, will your heart be unbalanced, and will you blame this sense of loss on your children? It is easy to pull you into an emotional circle after giving birth.

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