What is a friend in life? What is a friend at work?

Support each other in life, rely on each other, communicate with each other, and use each other in work.

It's rare to meet close friends in life, and so are your close colleagues!

Although it is inevitable to encounter competitors at work and intrigue is inevitable, there will always be some colleagues who behave more decently, which are worthy of our deep friendship.

I once had such a colleague, each other's personalities and hobbies are relatively similar, and their work is hard work, and they have the same three views. Therefore, the communication is relatively close, and when you encounter troubles at work, you can communicate with him, or even confide, without guarding, because each other will be tight-lipped, and they know more about the people and things in the unit, and their views are basically the same, and there is no obstacle to chatting. Even if you can't solve any problems, you can at least vent your anger for a while and calm your mind.

Later, because this colleague could not bear the unhealthy atmosphere in the unit and saw that his future was far away, he happened to have an opportunity to change jobs, not only doubling his income, but also becoming a middle-level cadre. Now I am also married and have children, and I have a happy life at work! Although I usually chat less, I often inform each other about the latest situation, and sometimes I will ask out to sit down, and I am still a good brother!

You, the reason, have you. My life will add another brilliant color. Because of you, my personality will become more lively.

Because of you who are ignorant and naïve, I am like a rejuvenation, more interesting. Yes, so to speak. With you, my life will go to the next level.

Friends are like a glass of warm milk when it's cold, giving you warmth; Friends are like a pair of helping hands when you fall, making you strong; Friends are like a joke when you're sad and make you happy. During this period of my junior high school life, I met a good friend - Long Junjie.

He was about the same height as me and was a cheerful and generous person. If someone scolds him, he will scold him even more. He's very good at "drawing inferences" - talking back. He has the quality of being helpful, but he is just helpful.

What about the generosity that embodies it? Once, I ate my fragrant meal with relish. Then he came over with my favorite, cucumber ham.

He knew from afar that he had been caught by me and gave me a large slice of ham. Before he could put the ham in his mouth, he noticed that I was staring at him again. He made a helpless expression and shoved the ham into his mouth, but he was overwhelmed by my eyes and gave me all the other hams.

However, he still didn't escape my greedy mouth, and I set my eyes on his white rice. He couldn't bear it anymore and said to me, "You have robbed me of my good food, and you will not even spare my food."

I made a pitiful look, and he convinced his rumbling stomach to give me the meal.

He also has a helpful mind, but he always helps. For example, the last time, we were going to mop the ground, and he insisted on mopping there, so we gave him the task in desperation. When we came back, we saw that the ground was full of dirty water, and we immediately found him and asked what was the matter, and he bowed his head and said:

I saw that there was water on the mop, but I knew that the mop was all dirty water. When we heard this, we punished him for washing the mop and mopping the floor clean. After 40 minutes, with our help, he was finally able to mop the ground.

Friends are the driving force for us to move forward; Friends, we have a lifelong friendship; Friends are the ones we help to get things done.

01 Some people say that everyone comes out to work to make money, not to make friends, it is a surprise to make friends, and it is normal not to make friends. But if you don't open your heart, you really can't make friends.

Don't be a bad person, but sincerity is really important and will attract people around you who are also sincere to want to approach you. If your company's corporate culture is very good, and the company's department intends to create an environment where there is no conflict between the company's interests, and it is actually implemented very well, creating a very simple atmosphere for the department's personnel, and everyone has no intrigue, then you can make a few sincere friends appropriately. It should be noted that it is difficult to be a true friend if you have a relationship of interest, and don't make friends with people who express their enthusiasm for you at the beginning.

We must be cautious, cautious, and cautious, and we will see people's hearts a long time ago! 02 Some people say that they don't have a heart-to-heart: colleagues, as the name suggests, are people who do things together; The workplace, as the name suggests, is a place of professionalism.

The connection between the two of you in a professional place is more about job needs and job competition than from pure affection between friends. In the professional environment of the workplace, we must also use professional thinking to deal with interpersonal relationships. It is neither too intimate nor alienated and indifferent, and everything is measured by professional and work needs.

As for the need for affection, isn't it fragrant to have a heart-to-heart chat with your real friends after work? In fact, it makes sense no matter how you say it, as for whether you want to communicate with your colleagues, then it still depends on the environment and situation you are in. Follow your heart, and you won't regret it even if you are trapped!

1. In a good atmosphere, colleagues can be mentors and friends, and the company is a group of people who work together to do things well for the same goal. A good colleague, as a teacher, will teach you a variety of working methods, work skills, as a good friend, you can know after work that you don't have an umbrella, umbrella to take you to the nearest bus stop before going home alone.

2. Working hours occupy the most space in a day, and the time spent with colleagues every day is even more than that of family and friends, but all animals with emotions have been in contact for a long time, how can they have no feelings? If you can get along with each other like friends, you will be more comfortable at work.

3. When we work together for a common goal, work overtime late into the night, and cheer for the results of our work together, this feeling can only be experienced with friends around us. Making friends in the workplace is an inevitable psychological need, a way to get recognition and support, and an aspect that supports your happiness at work.

From this point of view, mutual care, mutual trust, and mutual care are not the unique qualities of friends, and the critical point of whether colleagues can become friends lies in whether they participate in your life outside of work.

In a work environment, it is possible to make real friends. Colleagues in a work environment often share common interests and values, and need to work together to accomplish common goals, so there is potential for true friendships.

At the same time, it is possible to make not very close friends in the work environment. In a work environment, we often don't have a lot of time to dedicate to developing friendships, so we may only make friends who aren't very close.

In general, it is possible to make real friends in a work environment, but not everyone can make them. It depends on the individual's personality and interpersonal skills, as well as the characteristics of the work environment.

There is actually a big difference between friends in the workplace and friends in life, and the fundamental reason is that there are too many points of interest. People are selfish in the face of profits, and our first purpose in the workplace is not to make friends, but to seek to maximize personal interests.

The interpersonal relationships in the workplace are complementary and mutually exclusive, and we may occasionally meet one or two confidants at work, and that must be because several people have found a balance of interests.

In addition to the conflict of interest, another reason is that the circle of the workplace is too small and complex, and the enemy of your friend is not necessarily your enemy, and a whisper you say to your friend may soon spread throughout the unit, and in the process of dissemination, your original intention is very likely to be misinterpreted, but because it is spread privately, even if you know that you are misinterpreted, you have no chance to explain, of course, no one believes it, because people's psychology is actually easy to believe in the bad side. Friends are to make friends, and it is difficult to survive and develop in the workplace, so it is naturally difficult to make friends.

Of course, there are examples of deep feelings with work partners, but it is really not easy to deal with the interests and absolute trust.

It's not impossible to bury friends in the workplace, but you need enough wisdom, and you also need fate, be cautious!

In life, I think the most important thing to get along with friends is trust. Only when friends trust each other can they go longer.

There are many friends. The most important thing to get along with is to trust and help each other, so that you can get along for a long time, and if you pay unilaterally, you will be separated quickly.

The most important thing in getting along with friends in life is to be sincere and righteous, so that you will have many friends and will be very popular.

There are many opportunities in a person's life, but it is just to see if they can grasp it, cherish what they see in front of them, and be satisfied with what they have at present. Too often, we miss out on more opportunities for the sake of one opportunity.

There is a lot of knowledge about friends in this life, because in the process of getting along, it will be written in your practice, and in the process of getting along, some words are not written in words, including the process.

There are two kinds of friends. One is a friend of wine and meat, and the other is a confidant of trouble. In reality, you will be treated with whatever kind of people you are. Wine and meat friends should be acting on the spot. To know oneself in adversity is to love one's neighbor as oneself.

A friend is someone who can help you when you're in trouble and can persuade you when you're unhappy. There are things to share with them when you're happy.

It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the world should be regarded together. ”

As the subject said, everyone may have a different definition of friends, and even different definitions of words such as confidant and girlfriend.

For me, I'm personally disgusted with those who use money, alcohol and meat to maintain relationships. The relationship I approve of is to put aside those identities, status, achievements, fame and fortune, and simply, simply the relationship of friends. I don't dare to say how good or bad my life is, but at least in this kind of friend thing, I'm still very satisfied.

There aren't many of them, but they're not few, at least I don't think they're few. There are more than a dozen of them, and not all of them are in one circle. But I'm very comfortable with them, whether I'm going out with one person or four or five people.

Because I know that when I'm with them, I don't need to pretend to be anything, I don't need to pretend to be successful, I don't need to pretend to be good, I just need to be myself, how comfortable I am. It's far more comfortable than spending time at so-called class reunions, which are actually show-offs. So for me, these people are already good friends in my life.

Don't cheat friends, don't cheat friends, help when you are in trouble, give points when you are happy, and treat friends sincerely.

If you treat each other in this way, you won't be able to make true friends.

There must be many friends in life who think that the most important way to get along with friends is to have two people happy together.

A few years ago, when I was at my worst, and when I was about to lose my life, there were only two or three people who really had a friend who offered 120,000 or 100,000 to help you. So I'll be very grateful to this friend for the rest of my life, because it's easy to know who is willing to help you when you're really in the most difficult time. There are only a few best friends in life and death.

You don't have to mind too much which are true friends and which are friends, because you always have to deal with each other in your daily life and work, just know it in your heart, and don't have too high expectations for general friends.

The world is full of human nature, complex relationships, and different temperaments. You are diligent and thrifty, overcome difficulties, work hand in hand, and grow old together, abound. For the birth and death of friends, there are many people who stick knives in their ribs.

What is a true friend? It's a bosom friend! Regardless of gains and losses, mutual understanding and mutual tolerance.

Generous, generous, grateful, willing to pay. When a friend is in trouble, I will do my best to help them! This is true friend.

Remember, most of the friends who drink and meat should not be deeply acquainted!

Find people with the same temperament, or people who can complement each other, preferably in a relationship where they can get along as equals. We found that some of the students who knew each other very well in high school ended up being superficial, but there were still some who felt that nothing would change. The rest of these people may be friends who genuinely identify with you, not because they met you at the right time or place, but because you are the right person.

This kind of person is the best friend to make friends because you know they won't go far. The least worthy of making friends are those intimate relationships that we have managed to maintain, because after the time is longer and the location is farther away, there are gradually no friends to contact, and they are just passers-by to you. There are many such relationships, such as most college classmates, colleagues, etc.

There is another kind that I think is also worth having a deep friendship, that is, having a common hobby, working hard for the hobby together, as long as this hobby is still there, you will not have no topic, and this kind of intimate relationship generated by doing things together is more stable and more comfortable.