Love is a kind of confusion and elusiveness, but why is it that two people always fall in love first

Love is a gratuitous giving, not an extravagant reciprocal effort. Love is the induction of the heart, giving help when the other person needs help, and supporting the other person when it is difficult, adding a life motivation to the other person. Love is not something that one person can support, it requires the sincere support of both parties.

In life, the most important thing to love a person is to respect his or her own independent time and space, so that she can fight for her ideal job, support each other, share weal and woe, and strive for a better life. When you have love, cherish it. Feel the joy of life brought by love, love is not just sweet but flavorful.

Love may not be smooth sailing, but love that has gone through hardships will be more perfect, and there are no regrets about truly paying for love. Happiness or unhappiness depends on each person's attitude towards life. There should be pursuits in life, but not forced.

If there is pursuit, but not force, people will become free, happy, and happy. If there is no pursuit in life, it will become lifeless, lacking joy and happiness; But if you go too far, it will be painful. In the world, it should be admitted that the vast majority of people are ordinary people and do not possess extraordinary abilities.

If you don't have extraordinary abilities, and you desperately pursue "hope" beyond your own ability, the greater your hope, the greater the disappointment and pain. Having money is not necessarily happy, and not having money is not necessarily unfortunate! It just depends on the individual's perception!

Therefore, there should be pursuits in life, but not forced, which is the key to happiness in life. May you understand happiness, grasp happiness, cherish happiness, create happiness, and be happy forever.

If you want to understand what love is, take a look at my understanding of love below, I hope it will help you. I have time to look at the understanding of love by celebrities, such as Tagore's "The Farthest Distance in the World", etc., love is two people who cherish each other, are loyal to each other, and can find happiness and happiness in each other. Even if the novelty has passed, I know in my heart that the other party is my dependence, because the other party is not alone.

Remember, no matter what suffering there is, it is not worth being a barrier to love, believe in love, support love, love with your heart, and wish you happiness. h

Is it okay to lie down and taste the guts?

Stoop to conquer. Idiom.

pronunciation: wò xīn cháng dǎn

Interpretation] salary: refers to the deeds of Gou Jian, the king of Yue in the Spring and Autumn Period of China, who worked hard to restore the country, and later evolved into an idiom to describe people who work hard and work hard.

Source] "Historical Records: The Family of King Goujian of Yue": "King Goujian of Yue is anti-country, it is a bitter body and anxious thinking, putting the courage in sitting, sitting and lying on the gall, and eating and drinking also taste the gall. "Sleeping: Sleeping on dry wood. Taste the gall: taste the bitter gall.

Grammar] union; as a predicate, a definite, an adverbial; Compliments.

Example] If Chinese football wants to break out of Asia, it must train hard.

synonyms] indignant, angry, supper.

Allusion] In 496 B.C., King Wu Lu sent troops to attack the Yue Kingdom, but was defeated by the Yue Kingdom, and He Lu was also seriously wounded and died. Two years later, the son of He Lu, Fucha, led his troops to defeat the Yue Kingdom, and the Yue King Gou Jian was escorted to the Wu Kingdom as a slave, and after Gou Jian endured humiliation and served the King of Wu for three years, the Fu Cha discouraged him and sent him back to the Yue Kingdom with Hong.

In fact, Gou Jian did not give up his desire for revenge, he was obedient to King Wu on the surface, but secretly trained elite soldiers, strengthened the government and waited for the opportunity to counterattack Wu. Hardship can temper the will, but comfort will wear out the will. Gou Jian was afraid that he would covet the comfort in front of him and lose his will to take revenge, so he arranged a difficult living environment for himself.

He slept at night without a mattress, but laid out some firewood and grass (called wages in ancient times), and hung a bitter gall in the house, which he would taste from time to time, in order not to forget the shame of the past.

In order to encourage the people, he and the queen participated in the labor with the people, and under the concerted efforts of the Yue people, the Yue country became strong, and finally found the opportunity to destroy and serve the Wu country.

1 all as far as life is concerned, you have to work hard, to work hard, to make money, in order to enjoy a good life, unless you are born with a good family background, clothes to reach out for food to open your mouth, otherwise, any good life is piled up by both hands bit by bit, and such as athletes, as the so-called one minute on the stage and ten years of work off the stage, they can win the gold medal, not by three days of heat can be successful, to sweat behind others, pay hard to have the strength to compete for the gold medal, any profession is the sameIf you don't work hard to master a skill, will you fall behind others? Therefore, it makes sense to start with bitterness and then sweetness, whether it is in the past, today, or in the future, we all need to have the strength to endure hardships in order to become human beings.

Today's life is getting better and better, it is too easy for young people nowadays, there must not be much bitterness and trouble, always relying on the child's innocence to imagine life is too beautiful, never considering life and hardships and tribulations, just like seeing the beauty of a shell, but not understanding that it is carved by the wind and waves. As you grow through the years, you will slowly understand the meaning of this sentence.

This is the philosophy of life, if a young person, sweet first and then bitter, what kind of ending will it be? According to the normal mode of thinking, starting from a young age, working first, then enjoying, and then enjoying when you are old, this is the best, right? If you have to go to work when you are old, you say how painful it is.

Hehe, that's why it's said that it's bitter before sweet.

Sweet first and then bittersweet is not happy, put the sweet behind the bitter, and the bitter is also bitter and has a pillar!!

Bitter first and then sweet is getting better and better, if sweet first and then bitter is getting worse and worse.

No pain, no gain.

Or: If you don't endure hardships and hardships, how can you become superior. (Another way of saying) after eating Coptis chinensis bitter, you know that honey is sweet.

Or: I don't know that Coptis is bitter, but I don't know that honey is sweet. (Another way of putting it).

If you don't endure hardships and hardships, how can you become superior.

No pain, no gain.

Without a cold bone, how to get the plum blossom fragrance.

I guess it's because of the taste buds

The taste buds that distinguish bitter tastes are on the tip of the tongue, while the taste buds that distinguish sweet tastes are close to the throat, and people are more sensitive to bitter tastes than to sweet tastes.

Answer: "Because it is precisely with the bitterness in the front that we can experience the sweetness in the back, and the success achieved through great efforts is the most joyful." The ancients said: Without a cold bone, how can you get the fragrance of plum blossoms.

Introduction to the idiom Bitter first and then sweet contains Taoist thought, bitter and sweet are two diametrically opposed tastes, but the two can be transformed into each other. Legend has it that the ancients came up with this word from the tea ceremony, and the new tea brewed at the beginning was stronger and bitter in taste, and then slowly changed after repeated brewing.

Only after suffering will you fully appreciate the sweetness and sweetness; If you enjoy the sweetness first, you will feel that it is sweet at the time, but if you suffer again, it will be bitter on bitter! Two glasses of water in life, a bitter cup and a cup of sweet, everyone's background and experience are different, and their procedures are different, no matter the first sweet and bitter, we must face it with a positive attitude, not to lose the fun because of the bitterness, and not to forget the bitter payment because of the sweetness.

I think it's because the bitterness of what I eat goes down, and the saliva and starch may be compared to before, so it's sweet.

Don't you understand such a superficial truth?

It should be bitter first, then annoying, then tired, and finally... It's all right. Because love is gone. Adopt it.

It depends on what your choice is, whether he really loves you, if he is sincere, then it will always be sweet, you have to choose the right one! It will be bitter first and then sweet, as long as you love each other.

Not necessarily, my love is sweet first and then bitter, I still like the feeling of bitter and then sweet.

For example, before the final exam, we review non-stop, and even some people are impatient and feel so annoying, but after the final exam, if they get good grades, they will be very happy. This is the experience of bitter and then sweet.

Typing is still hard to give a little point.

When eating olives, they are astringent, and many people can't eat them. Only after eating and getting used to it can you taste the sweetness after that.

Stoop to conquer. Han Xin was humiliated by his crotch back then.

The poor asked an old lady to help him and give him food.

Later, he was crowned king.

Life is like this, there will be a lot of setbacks and misfortunes, but we have to learn to be stronger and braver in these setbacks. This is the true meaning of our life meaning, I always believe that life is bitter and then sweet, as long as you are willing to work hard.

I think life is still bitter and then sweet, so you will know how to cherish everything you have, you said that some people have suffered for a lifetime and have not gotten anything, at least he got a good body, you know that the greatest happiness of people is health and peace, so he is also happy, on the contrary, people who have everything will be happy, think about 、、、

The one on the 1st floor is too pessimistic.

Whether people live well or not is not fate, not others, but to rely on their own impossibility will never be sweet, do you think back to yourself that you have lived for so long, is there something very happy? (There must be).

It's just that some people only remember the bitter taste and forget the sweet taste.

Maybe the bitterness is hard to forget.

Don't people believe in fate? Do you dare to guarantee that you don't believe it?

People have feelings, flesh and blood, and they can't be satisfied.

People will always be in the midst of happiness and don't know the blessings Some people are very miserable, but it doesn't mean that they are unhappy Some people are very happy, and they don't have to think about whether they can eat at the next meal, it doesn't mean that they will be happy, everyone will have troubles, and it depends on how to deal with them.

Even if God doesn't give you what you want, you have to fight for it.

People have different requirements for happiness, some people want power, some people want money, some people want to have a successful career, and getting what people want is happiness. As for whether others are happy or not, only they know it, and outsiders can't see it, just like whether shoes fit or not, only they know, and outsiders see only superficial phenomena.

Don't ask too much for yourself, don't always compare yourself with others, and find what you want is a kind of happiness. Other people's happiness may not be a happy thing for you.

As long as you are happy, everything else is not so important. I wish you happiness and may all of you be able to find your own happiness.

Don't believe anything sweet, it's all a lie. Life is all about suffering first and then suffering, so be mentally prepared. Who has been living happily ever after? It's all about others looking at happiness!

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Actually, you can think of it this way. To be born in this world is already very happy.

What is happiness and what is unhappiness. There is no definition at all.

Everything is thought of by itself.

You think it's happiness, that is.

Again, if you don't think it's, then it's not.

Life is your own understanding, don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself, you can understand.

It is also possible that it will be bitter all the time!

Do you want to be happy? Then you must first learn to endure hardship.

--Descartes.