What should I do if my child doesn t want to go to the small table? I cry every day when I go to sch

Updated on educate 2024-08-01
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Glad for your question. How to let children get rid of their parents, living alone is a very difficult thing, the main reason why children stick to you is insecure, after leaving their mother, there is an unbearable feeling, you need to do the following:

    1. Spend more time with your child every day, tell some warm stories, let your child have enough imagination space, cultivate a sense of security, and always tell your child that your mother will pick you up on time, so that he has a good expectation.

    2. When choosing a small dining table, you should fully consider the quality of the meals and the quality of the teacher, as well as whether it is convenient for you to pick up the child.

    3. Give your child more encouragement when he behaves well, and try to meet some of his small needs, such as buying a lollipop when picking up his child, so that he will slowly adapt to life away from his parents and begin to integrate into collective life. Thank you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Ask what the reason is, and if it is a bad reason, then deal with it in time; If it's just because of coquettishness, then it's not good, it is still necessary to properly cultivate his ability to adapt to the environment, otherwise it is impossible to grow up normally.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If your child doesn't want to go, you can coax him to go and wait until he gets into a habit. Don't be ruthless, if you do, your child won't be able to go to the dinner table. And it will also delay you from going to work.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It means that the child is unhappy at the small dining table again, there must be something. I don't let you go to work, but also because I am unhappy and insecure, so I have a good chat with my baby and tell him that it's nothing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The child does not want to go to the small table, cries every day at school, and does not let his parents go to work. This is because children are more dependent on their parents. You can spend more time with your children and take care of them as much as possible when you get off work.

    Because it is difficult to coordinate work and life, you should still try to leave as much time as possible for your children. In this way, he can have a greater sense of security, and he will live better when he leaves his parents.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Children want to go to the small dining table to eat, cry every day when they go to school, they don't want to continue to make mistakes, they don't want to go to work, this child is a problem of your education, solve it slowly by yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My crying child means that the child did not have fun going to school at the small dinner table, and it may be that it is an unforgettable fear, you should find out.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The child may have a process of adaptation at the beginning, the parents will reason with him more or a week, if he behaves well, promise him to do something, so that he will slowly get used to it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's all like this, my youngest son cries as soon as he goes up, and we often scare him and throw it away if he doesn't eat quickly, so now it's all about him, he can go anywhere, and it's good to finish eating.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Children start to go to school like this, communicate more with the child to comfort it, and the child will slowly get used to it, and it will be like this at the beginning.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, we must find out the reason why the child does not want to go to the small dining table, whether it is because the food there is not palatable, or there are some conflicts with classmates or teachers, first of all, we must understand clearly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If your child doesn't want to go to the table, you can find out why he doesn't want to go. Then solve the confrontation in his heart, and then slowly enlighten her to solve it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's noisy. Communicate first, explain clearly with him, remember to explain clearly not to coax him, if you still make trouble, then treat him coldly and ignore him, if no one pays attention to him, he won't make trouble.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If a child doesn't like to go to the small dinner table, you should ask the reason, whether it is because a classmate bullied her or the teacher treated her badly, ask the reason clearly and then communicate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This can only communicate well with the child, and can only slowly let the child adapt to this process, that is, the process of growing up slowly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What should I do if my child doesn't want to go to the small table? I don't want to go when I cry when I go to school every day, I don't want to go to work at the small dining table, I don't want to go when I'm ten years old, I can drink, and the teacher talks about it, and I will talk about it when I bring some food.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think in this case, it is better for children to develop a habit of going to school and encourage children to play with other children.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In this case, it is best to spend a few days with the child, and then slowly let the child adapt to the new environment, little by little.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then you let him do it himself, how did he grow up by himself?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. If your child goes to the table on time, reward him with something he likes.

    What should I do if my child doesn't want to go to the small table? I cry every day when I go to school, I don't want to go to the small dining table, and I don't let me go to work

    Hello, I have seen your question, please wait for five minutes while I am sorting out the answer for you. If you feel that I am helpful to you, please move your little hands and give me a thumbs up, okay?

    Look at what the reason is, be sure to be patient and ask why.

    said that he missed his mother, but he picked him up at noon, and he played by himself at home, and he didn't keep pestering his mother to play.

    You can say that your mother listens to you, and if you don't go, you won't go, but what is the reason: Talking about Zhitong is that the food is not delicious, the aunt's service is not good, and what is the reason for Hantan. He may be able to tell you the real cause.

    I hope you can communicate with him patiently, so that there will be no problems.

    But I can't stop him from going.

    The child has just gone to the small dining table and is not yet comfortable.

    I haven't found my friends yet.

    It's been a year.

    Have you been there for a year?

    Right. Is the child still very dependent?

    I feel like I'm okay on a regular basis.

    Otherwise, he will definitely make trouble as soon as he goes. Nothing ahead.

    The best way to do this is the reward method.

    If your child goes to the table on time, reward him with something he likes.

    Then you come back from work and patiently ask your child about the interesting things that happened at the small dinner table.

    Let the child feel that it is more fun to go to the small dining table.

    None of the children in the neighborhood are at the same table?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Many families are dual-income workers, there is no time to pick up and drop off children, the elderly are also old and it is not very safe to pick up children on the road, so now the small dining table is also rising, more and more small dining tables have solved the confusion of many families, but some children are unwilling to go to the small dining table, what should the children do if they are unwilling to go to the small dining table?

    We first need to know why children don't want to go to the small table

    Clause. 1. Children may have been with their parents for a long time, and they are a little unaccustomed to accepting strange people, and when they are young, they are the most dependent on their parents, and a separation will make children feel psychologically uneasy;

    Clause. Second, their diet will become uncontrollable, and the "small dining table" will only provide basic diet according to the public taste, and it is impossible to customize nutrition according to the child's personality and physical preferences**. So the child is a little disgusted;

    Clause. Third, in the "small table", there are often conflicts between children, bumps and bumps are inevitable, no one will be used to whom, and the child is difficult to accept, which leads to the child does not want to go to kindergarten.

    Due to the particularity of the family, it is really difficult for the child to go to the small dining table, so it is really difficult for the child to let go to the small dining table, so in this regard, parents should step by step, let the child get familiar with the environment first, and then let go. In terms of eating, as parents, we should try our best to cultivate children from an early age not to be picky eaters. In the case of small things, we try to let the child solve it by himself, cultivate the child's adaptability, only the baby is relieved that we can also work with peace of mind.

    Finally, even if parents must send their children to a small dining table, they must have a small dining table with a good reputation, not just watch advertisements, but listen to the evaluations of people around them, and find a better environment and a better place for their children to eat.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Dear Teacher:

    Hello, I would like to apply to eat without school. First of all, the road back to school is not far away, and it is safe***. Secondly, the large number of students in school meals directly affects the quality of meals, and the taste of the meals in the canteen is not good, and the price is expensive.

    Finally, the cafeteria is crowded and students bump and bump into each other, which can easily cause friction and affect the unity of students, not only to students, but also to teachers. And I have been feeling unwell recently, my family has cooked for me and asked me to go home to eat, and the doctor has also advised me to go home.

    Therefore, I implore the leaders to agree to the students' departure from school for meals.

    You need to pay attention to eating

    1. It's best not to talk too much when eating. One is a matter of politeness, to avoid spitting and affecting others; One is that it will affect the secretion of digestive juices, especially unhappy topics will affect appetite.

    One is that eating special foods may burn your mouth and burn your esophagus, which will choke, and eating fish bones and chicken bones may get stuck in your throat. Some people don't know how to eat fish, and they are often stuck by fish bones, so they must pay attention to eating and not talking too much.

    If it is a very small fish bone, you can swallow a bite of the rice ball to see if you can send the fish bone down; If you feel that the fish bones are big and stuck deeply, don't try to swallow the rice balls with vinegar, so as not to damage your throat and cause more serious consequences, and you should go to Dr. Bibi for treatment in time.

    2. Pay attention to your posture and keep your back straight. When bending over and hunchbacking, the abdominal internal organs are easily compressed, which affects the secretion and digestion of digestive juices, affects blood circulation, and over time it is easy to cause stomach problems and affect the absorption of nutrients. Special attention should be paid not to squat on the ground to eat, the height of the stool should be appropriate, the elevation angle of the backrest should be appropriate, the height of the dining table should be appropriate, and the child should sit a little higher.

    3. Drink less tea after meals. For most people, tea should not be drunk immediately after a meal to avoid diluting gastric juices and affecting digestion.

    4. Don't be hungry. The amount of food should be balanced, and attention should be paid to nutritional matching and color matching. For many years, it is resistant to eating black and red foods, such as black beans, black rice, eggplants, seaweed, carrots, red beans, tomatoes, sweet potatoes, and so on. People with digestive disorders should eat smaller, more frequent meals and less raw and cold foods.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Children don't like to eat in the cafeteria, so they need to find out if the school food doesn't taste appetizing, or if they simply don't want to eat it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. 1. Find out why the child is not picky eater, and adjust the diet again.

    2. Enhance children's outdoor sports and appetite.

    Hope it helps. Have a great day!

    What if your child doesn't eat at school and eats at home.

    Hello, glad to answer for you. You can do that. 1. Find out why the child is not picky eater, and adjust the slippery food again. 2. Enhance children's outdoor rushing exercise to increase appetite. Hope it helps. Have a great day!

    I want to ask you, the teacher is still at school and says he doesn't eat, and he cries when he says he eats, but when he gets home, he eats, and his spirit is not bad, but what's the matter with the reluctance to eat at Yinhu School.

    How old is the child now?

    More than three and a half weeks. The child is not used to eating at school, so he is a little scared.

    But I haven't been like this in school before, but after a period of rest and then let him go to the pre-high school exam, he told me that he didn't want to eat in the past two days, and the teacher said that he would cry when he ate, and then Qi rented Qinglai to feed him and he also ate a little, I want to ask what the situation is.

    There is a high probability that something unpleasant happened at school during dinner.

    I also asked the teacher, the teacher said that he didn't say him, the teacher said before he told him to eat quickly, he also told me after school that I didn't eat at school, I asked him why he didn't eat at school, he said I didn't want to eat, but when I came home to eat, she told me what I wanted to eat.

    My children eat very little, vegetables, meat, and a little porridge.

    I would like to ask the teacher what to do.

    Yes, it can be solved.

    Is this still the case for children?

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