What kind of husband is a qualified husband?

Be responsible for your family, have a sense of responsibility, have a plan for financial management, and have long-term goals.

Generally speaking, there are common values, outlook on life, world view, and a clear bottom line for each other in character

<> "Whether the husband is good or not, you can see it with a test, compare it to see if he is a qualified good husband." One point for each item, ten out of ten, three points qualified, five points excellent, zero song split, here is recommended to change a husband.

First, I will take the initiative to keep my distance from the opposite sex, and never talk to the opposite sex, there are no secrets in the mobile phone, and I can check it at any time.

Second, be able to be a good father, be patient with your children, and be able to put down your mobile phone to accompany your children.

Third, be able to share household chores actively or passively, and do not complain.

Fourth, when you are arguing, you can be able to subdue yourself and soothe your emotions.

Sixth, I won't dislike you and complain about you every day.

Seventh, when you are dissatisfied with his behavior, he will listen to your opinion patiently and be willing to change for you.

Eighth, be financially independent, do not rely on the help of parents, can bear most of the family expenses, add one point to him.

Ninth, respect your family, move around a lot, and be able to maintain a good relationship with your parents-in-law.

Tenth, being around you and your children, being able to take good care of you.

1. Dare to apologize, even if you do something wrong in front of many people, you will take the initiative to apologize to your wife with a sincere attitude. I didn't feel ashamed or misunderstood and afraid of my wife, I felt that this was a very common thing.

2. I will also say thank you to my wife, this kind of politeness seems to be a habit, whether it is when there are many people or few people, as long as you ask the other party for help, you will finally say "thank you".

4. Kindness. (Personally, I think this is the most basic condition for a person in marriage, a person with a good nature, what he does often has a bottom line, which is the greatest guarantee for women.) ）

5. When you are with your buddies, you will talk about women, but if there is a woman on the scene, you will refuse to talk about such topics.

6. The three views are relatively positive, and the views on many things, if you don't know how to do it, you will rarely express your own opinions, and you will stop in moderation if you understand it. Especially in terms of feelings, it is never good to be a teacher.

7. Never talk about his wife's family in front of outsiders, even if he is asked, he is all kinds of praise.

8. Self-confidence, when the wife is around, more confident. (This is reflected in many of my friends, people often say that an excellent woman can make a man's aura change, I think this is the so-called change).

9. Speak with humor. People say that good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a thousand. Life can also become a lot more interesting with people with a sense of humor. However, it is important to note that we should grasp the balance between humor and filth.

10. Know how to make concessions, in fact, cold violence is a problem that almost all marriages will encounter, after all, everyone is not a saint, and there will be a little temper when they are angry and quarrelsome, but men know how to end, rather than letting bad habits spread, so men who know how to give in are more likely to get their marriage back on track.

11. Self-motivated. This is reflected by the wives of many friends, but I think that a self-motivated man may not have such a trait to a large extent, but the strength accumulated in the marriage that allows them to transform themselves.

12. Be careful. Men are careless creatures, if men can be more careful, then many small contradictions in marriage, in fact, will not happen at all, although men and women have different ways of thinking, but small things are done well, often can avoid big contradictions.

13. Emotional stability, it is rare to reflect the deterioration of the mood caused by external factors to the family, in fact, controlling emotions is a person's ability, the so-called "kicking cat effect" is this truth, and men should control their emotions and distinguish marriage from work.

14. Cute straight men. Few men can read a woman's heart, and a man who can read a woman's heart is often unable to be single-minded.

Only the wife has the final say on whether the husband is qualified or not. For example, whether the shoes fit or not, only the feet know.

1. It is the most important thing for a man to love you, because love can tolerate everything and will give everything for you.

2. Men should have a sense of responsibility, dare to take responsibility, and assume responsibilities and obligations to their families, wives, children and parents. Choose what you love before you get married, and love what you choose after you get married.