Will you really be happy if you marry a divorced man without a baby?

Updated on society 2024-08-13
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Will you really be happy if you marry a divorced man without a baby? This depends on the individual, some of them are quite happy, after all, there are no children of their ex-wives, and both of them are still relatively free, but there are also a lot of unhappy people, which depends on what kind of person this man is.

    There is a saying that a man who has been divorced once is a treasure, and a married woman looking for a divorced man without children is really a treasure. Because men who have been divorced once have experienced marriage, they cherish this hard-won second marriage even more. And if an unmarried woman is looking for a man with children, then you also need to consider the following points.

    Oh, and the first point, this man must be richer than you. Many conflicts in marriage are caused by money. A man is richer than a woman, and he uses the money he earns more to raise his children, and asking an aunt to take care of the housework and the children can reduce at least half of the conflicts in your life.

    Second, you have to find out the real reason for the man's divorce from his ex-wife. Many people say that the personality is incompatible, but some real reasons are because of debt disputes, and his ex-wife left him. If you don't want to pay off your debts with him like you did in the past, you still need to understand clearly.

    The third point is that Li Yunan and his ex-wife are still ambiguous, don't touch it. To put it bluntly, in such a situation, one is that the man is too a chicken thief, eating the bowl and looking at the pot, and the other is that the ex-wife clearly wants to do something, you fight with others, you are unmarried, can you do it?

    A woman who has failed in marriage and enters a second marriage after divorce without self-awareness improvement, you can only jump from one pit to another. If you want to marry a second-married man, you must understand the following three key points, first, it is impossible for him not to contact his ex-wife and children, as long as there are children involved, trivial matters will continue, can you bear it? The second property, the man will constantly give money to his ex-wife and children.

    Whether you can handle this relationship well, the third point is particularly important. If this man is rich and has good economic conditions, and you marry him because of money, you will only end up miserable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Not necessarily. It mainly depends on whether the man is sincere to you. And marriage is hard to say, there are many factors in it. Therefore, whether the marriage is happy or not mainly depends on how the two people get along.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It is unknown whether marrying someone can be happy, and it has nothing to do with whether it is divorced or not, and it has nothing to do with whether it has children. Some people are married for the first time, and there are many people who have no children and end up in divorce. The important thing is how two people get along and how to manage their marriage, and many divorced and restructured families with children are also very happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Not necessarily, if a man goes through a divorce and becomes very mature, he will definitely be happy, and if the man does not change, then married life is unhappy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    will be very happy, in life the other party has experienced a failed marriage, so it will be very good to the other half.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't think I'm going to be happy, because the other person has already experienced a failure in life, so I will become inactive in life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As long as two people are like-minded and get along well with each other, then they will be happy, mainly depending on each other's character.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, let's make sure that if you are divorced and don't have a baby, you have a baby for your ex-wife and are not around? Or do you not have children at all?

    If it is the first case, it is advisable not to consider it. Divorced men naturally have a sense of guilt about their children with their ex-wives, and this feeling is essential for making the man willing to give everything for the children, even if you have children after marriage, this problem still exists.

    The child follows his mother, and under the indoctrination of his mother, he is absolutely hostile to your stepmother, because he thinks that you have robbed his father, and he is worried about his own biological children, and there is a child who is not related to him who is making waves, and even your husband will never be in the united front with you, this kind of day is a headache to think about.

    In the second case, it is recommended that you also have an in-depth understanding of the reason why the man divorced his ex-wife, is it the man's fault or the woman's fault? Be sure to evaluate it to the point, don't be hot-headed for a while because you like him, and everything will be on his side. If it is the woman's fault, then you can test the man's tone and see what he says about his ex-wife.

    Because a personable man will not be full of swear words to those who have hurt him, he understands that the past has passed, and living well in the present is the most important thing, there is no need to worry about the past things and things, this is wisdom and compassion, and marrying this kind of man, life will not be too bad.

    If it's the man's fault, then you have to pay attention, because every woman has different expectations for marriage, maybe his ex-wife can't stand his frequent business trips, drinking, unfashionable and other problems, if you don't care, it's completely acceptable, and even have a feeling of distress, then you might as well consider it.

    In fact, having said so much, I just hope that girls will consider this issue carefully, marriage is the top priority, before marriage can be wind and snow, but after marriage, it is definitely firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and there are many trivial things. Choosing a lover will be the girl's second reincarnation.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think you will be happy after marriage, as long as this person is good to you, I think you don't have to worry too much about these external things, maybe you will get your own happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Whether they are happy or not mainly depends on the future life of two people and their feelings for each other, and those who love each other deeply will not feel unhappy because of each other's divorce.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Will happiness lie in your efforts, but also in the way you manage your marriage, the other party is a divorced, and has a father with children, has lost a marriage, I believe that for the sake of the children will also cherish the second marriage, will also be good to the wife and children, so as long as you manage well, you will have a lot of money, may be very happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Whether the marriage is happy or not has little to do with whether it has a baby or not. The most important thing is the business model of two people's marriage, many first marriages still end in divorce, and many restructured families are also very happy, not necessarily.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think that marrying a divorced man without a baby will be happy after marriage, because he can bring the child over when he is divorced, which shows that he values the family very much, so he will be very good to me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, don't ask me why, because I have a deep experience, and I have friends who have experienced it, there must be a reason for divorce, my man, and his friends are all mothers, they don't have their own opinions, they all listen to their parents, and they live a miserable life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    According to your description, this situation needs to be maintained by both parties, and whether happiness is completely determined by the mentality of both parties, it is recommended that you consider it carefully.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not going to go well. This problem will occur, which shows that the other half is divorced and has children, so such a marriage will not go too smoothly. If you don't mind the other party's divorce at all, don't mind the other party with children, love each other very much, and think that it is not a big deal for a divorced woman with a baby, you will not ask this question at all.

    Since you have asked this question, it means that it is a thorn in your heart, and it will become a very big obstacle to your future marriage, so such a marriage will not go well.

    First of all, you will mind the other person's past. You are the first marriage, your wife is the second marriage, so you will mind his past very much, you will worry that he will compare you with his ex-husband, you will also worry about whether he really loves himself, and you will worry about what he will have to do with his ex-husband, his past is a time bomb for you, it will explode at any time, because you don't trust him enough, your past is blank, and his past is rich, and you are not sure that you will bring him a better life than his past life.

    Secondly, you can't treat two children with a bowl of water. Suppose you have a child, you will take care of it from birth, so your biological child will definitely be closer to you, your stepson is not your biological son, and he will not be so easy for you, assuming that both children want to buy a house, then you will definitely prefer to give the money to your son to buy a house, rather than to your stepson, this is a very normal psychological state, and it is also human nature.

    But for your wife, both children are his own flesh and blood, so he will mind even more when he sees that you can't treat the two children fairly, so your marriage may have conflicts because of this.

    In the end, you will have a sense of self-defeating. You have never been married, your wife has been married, a second marriage is with a first marriage, you will think that you have suffered a loss, and you are still a man married to a second married woman, more or less will be sneered at by the people around you, so your psychology of suffering will continue for a long time, in your married life you feel that you have suffered a loss, you will want the other party to pay more, will hope that the other party loves you more, but marriage is not just a one-sided payment, so your wife has been paying for a long time, he will also be tired, Your marriage will also have all kinds of problems as a result.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It will go well, because in the face of real feelings or love, marriage history and emotional experience are not particularly important, the most important thing is the relationship and love between two people.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If this divorced woman with a baby is kind, hardworking and down-to-earth, then such a marriage will go well, after all, it will be happy if there is a good wife in the marriage.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Such a marriage should not go too well. Because after all, the conditions of the two are too different, so there may be some gaps after marriage.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There may be many reasons for divorce, not necessarily because the man has a problem, but because the man and woman know too little before marriage, and find that the other party is not suitable after marriage, so they can negotiate divorce and consider the other party in the long run. It is also possible that the woman is too strong and the man can't stand it. There can be many situations.

    Therefore, divorced men do not necessarily have problems, this should be considered in detail. As long as both parties truly love each other, they can be happy; Not necessarily. Different people have different understandings of happiness.

    What does divorce and children mean? Does this label represent a scumbag? **?

    No sense of responsibility? What does an unmarried woman represent? Such a label must mean that it must be pure, kind, and loving?

    These are just wishful thinking on the part of those who take it for granted to label others. As an adult, you should have your own ideas and choices, and of course you have to be responsible for your choices. You live with a divorced man with children.

    Did his divorce and having children have a real impact on you? Life is your own.

    I don't think there are many other problems, except for those idlers who say irresponsible things. If you still have to dwell on this label, ask yourself, did someone tell you that he divorced and had children before he was with you? If so, I'm sure they didn't come out to trick the little girl.

    Just a label, or someone else's label. Imagine you see a person on the street with a scar on his face, and are you sure he's not a good person? Maybe the others are just the scars left by people in distress or rescuers.

    When you see a scantily clad woman, are you sure she's not a good person? Maybe someone else has built two houses for their parents in their hometown, and they are still studying for their younger siblings.

    Don't think too much, you feel that if you want to live happily ever after with this man, you are responsible for your choices. Being afraid of risk and not wanting to take responsibility is actually the same as not taking responsibility, and people who don't take responsibility are not adults in my opinion. There is no risk in marrying anyone and doing anything.

    Believe in yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is also possible that you will be happy if you marry such a man, because he has been divorced, so he will cherish you more and love you more, so you will be happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think he will be happy, because without children, he will never know the preciousness of his family, and what he loves is not necessarily us, but it will be greatly hurt, and it is terrible to be ruthless.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    will be happy, I think the relationship between two people still needs to be managed by two people, you can't rely on one person alone, as long as you have a good relationship, I think it's okay.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Hello, the first man will love the house and the black and treat your children as his own, but the two children get along with each other and need your parents to communicate.

    Hello, the first man will love the house and the black and treat your children as his own, but the two children get along with each other and need your parents to communicate.

    It is inevitable that there will be conflicts between the two children, so this is the biggest difficulty.

    He is very good to my child I can feel the car wheel is simple The problem is that I actually eat his son's vinegar He is good to his son Kirishiro Concerned about his son I will feel psychologically uncomfortable when I close my pants Is there something wrong with my psychology.

    Dear, yes, you need to adjust your mentality, otherwise it will affect your relationship with his son at that time.

    But how to adjust the mentality I mentioned breaking up, and he didn't agree.

    Dear, your mentality adjustment is to break up with him.

    He definitely doesn't agree with this, she is good to your daughter and good to you, so it's good for his son, as long as he doesn't favor this.

    But I just can't see him being nice to his son, should I see a psychiatrist?

    Dear, yes, you are jealous, he is good to your daughter, will you feel uncomfortable.

    No. Dear, you won't feel uncomfortable if you're good to your daughter, and if you're good to your son, you'll be uncomfortable.

    Dear, you're like this, it's hard to go on emotionally.

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