Why is it sad to be nice to a girl

I'll answer this question, the girl's guilt for your overtures shows two aspects:

One possibility is that she already has a boyfriend, and your kindness can only be a virtual effort, and she can't reciprocate it. She knows that you are a successful couple, and she knows that this is the case, and she is also greedy for the extra happiness that you have paid.

The other one: she doesn't like you, but because of her own greed and vanity, she can't pull it out of your so-called love. Even if she doesn't like you, she may think you're not bad, so she occupies a place in your heart.

For the above two cases, the landlord judges for himself, and there is an additional possibility:

She may have been severely hurt and unable to face her love life, (examples of money and sex cheating abound). This kind of girl is still not good, because the psychological shadow is difficult to erase.

It mainly depends on the landlord's own judgment.,I think it's the sentence in the 36 plan:Go for the upper plan.。

My experience many times, usually this kind of woman is very attentive, often more than you are a suitor, it is possible to use you as a springboard to find something else, or it may be that she did not fancy you, anyway, there are so many women, the landlord you don't have a flowering place here, right? Take your time, there will be plenty for you. Just don't be in a hurry and forget the importance of returning.

Will it be sad? I don't know what kind of sadness it is! But maybe there is such a possibility, you are good to her, but she can't repay you with the same kindness, so she will feel guilty and sad, and will feel that she has failed your kindness!

If that's the case, you have to talk to her well, such a girl is kind and may have been hurt! Maybe she doesn't want to be nice to you, but she's afraid that you will leave too!

Rookie, there is no rule to follow in such a thing, try more bravely and find your own answer.

If it is sad, from a psychological point of view, the girl may have low self-esteem. Thinking that he is not qualified to get your contribution should have something to do with his personality.

If not, it's that you didn't figure out and understand her feelings at the time...

I also think it's sadness caused by low self-esteem, maybe the girl has some unspeakable secrets, maybe she has feelings for you, but for some reason she can't accept you. For example, if a girl has been in a relationship and thinks that she is no longer pure, she is worried that you can't accept her in your heart, or it may be that the girl's family conditions are relatively poor and she is afraid that she will not be in the right household with you, and it is also possible that the girl herself has some problems and does not want to be known, and is afraid of destroying her perfection in your mind. The landlord judges for himself If this is the reason, the landlord will help the girl remove these shadows, and the truth is the most impressive!

If not, then that's another matter ...

Sad? Please elaborate ==.

Are you a couple or a friend.

How sad was she?

I think the sadness you said is just your own thoughts, maybe there is a reason? Under normal circumstances, a girl would not be like that when she meets a boy who is good to him, maybe she is moved?

Whether it's touching or sad, you have to figure it out first.

Excessive sadness in girls may generally lead to depression and may also lead to functional disorders in various parts of the body. Cause menstrual irregularities, gastrointestinal diseases, cerebrovascular diseases, lung diseases, etc.

Hello, although this girl has been hurt emotionally, but after the experience, he will become more mature and stronger, and know how to face life in the future. A person has to go through all kinds of difficulties in life, and he has to work hard to face him, and he is saying that he is good, that is, he has now become very confident and early, and can face many difficulties in life. It's not that falling in love is a hurtful person, so he can't live well, maybe when he faces feelings in the future, he will know how to deal with it better, and he will have more confidence to face his future life.

If you understand it well, after a girl has been emotionally hurt, she always says that being good to herself is that after breaking up, she can think calmly, feel the other party's goodness, willfulness or squander the bargaining chips of love, and really feel a faint pain in her heart after the breakup. The mentality of the emotional entanglement of the past is unclear. There is no right or wrong in the love bright guess type.

It's not that you're right or the other party's fault, it's a lack of communication, a lack of patience and tolerance.

I should have a deep understanding that I don't want to do this in the future, so I just remember to be good for myself and forget about the bad ones, so that I can relax a little bit.